Feel Them Pulling Away? AVOID THIS MISTAKE

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I’ve heard this story a thousand times before . . .

A woman goes on a date with a guy and they hit it off. Things seem to be going well, and pretty soon, they’re seeing each other all the time. He’s texting her daily, making plans with her for the future, and every time his name pops up on her phone, she feels a surge of happiness and excitement.

That very same excitement keeps hitting new peaks until, suddenly, she feels a shift. He grows more and more distant, and at first she’s not sure whether she’s imagining it or whether he really is pulling away. She doubles down on effort and communication, but it only seems to drive him further away until eventually he calls it a day and stops messaging altogether.

If this has ever happened to you, then you know it can drive you crazy working out how to act when someone is clearly pulling away from you.

But as it turns out, there is a right way and a wrong way to proceed when this happens, and it can determine whether someone stays or goes.

In today’s video, I’ll share with you the #1 reason why people pull away and a high-value way to respond to it.

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[How.Dare.You.]

i didnt make him important. i was being myself and was excited to be around him, loved his energy. thats all. i was prepared to lose him and when i noticed this pulling away was a pattern, i left- was i scared to lose him? no, i was scared to lose myself because he was not building anything with me.

[MarinaAlbigiante]

"Someone's uncertainty about you is not an indication of your lack of value" - that's the key of wisdom in all types of relationships, not only romantic! 👏

[bigstanky]

its hard not to overvalue someone when you've been alone for so long.

[mishkameow]

"I might be attracted to you. But I'm FAR more attracted to the life I want for myself." Just need to lift that up here in the comments. YES!

[DollnAbox]

What I keep hearing is basically that if you like someone and behave accordingly, it makes you “low value”. So everyone’s walking around suppressing their feelings, playing games and deploying strategies instead of just flowing. No wonder there are so many lonely people and breakups.

[lecomtedeneuch]

I just stopped playing games completely. I respond when I want to, i'm not doing games anymore and when I had enough, I had enough.
I'm being sincere and I told the girl I loved how I felt about her. Reaction was cold as hell. So I just let her go.
Most relationships don't last. Most crushes don't last.
Most people you will meet won't last in your life.
It's better to be honest with yourself, don't play mindgames or don't pretend to be someone you're not.
If they go away, let them go. If you communicate and they don't respond and you feel ignored, let them go.
I wish yall the best.

[User-bbki]

when I feel bad, and miss him, I just come here, read comments and feel comfortable that I’m not alone

[itsshawneee]

"Someone else's uncertainty is not an indication of your lack of value, it's an indication of their lack of value to you." 💯

[bluetulip]

Not only did you explain what to do, but you also motivated people to not waste time on someone who doesn’t care. Great video.

[constancep]

If he's pulling away, let him go. You deserve someone who can communicate clearly about what's going on.

[barisarslan]

Love is blind. If someone pulls away because you overvalue them they are not the right person for you. If that person makes you feel anxious, insecure, and does not value you for whatever reason you should be strong and admit that the relationship will not make you happy in the end. I am a loving and caring person and I should not be punished for that. Although I often invest too much too early and devalue myself in the process. My last relationship showed me that. Don't do it folks. It is not worth it if your ex wasn't ready to fight for you. Move on and find someone who truly loves you. Btw my girlfriend left me last week and I am still struggling with it because everything seemed good at first. Last night after watching these videos I thought about it and it made me realize how insecure I was and how that person made me feel. Not valued at all. I am trying to move on and focus on new projects (making music) to improve my self-esteem. We are all in this together my friends. I feel you.

[onward-fpfz]

It's all subjective. Because someone thinks you're moving too fast or giving too much of yourself too soon doesn't necessarily mean you are. Some people are scared of their own happiness because they're expecting disappointment, that they end up sabotaging it

[cs]

I was attracted to him being emotionally available, supportive and kind.
He started pulling away, I'm pulling away too. I don't care if I lose him or not, if he wants to stay in the relationship he is welcome to, if not good luck.
I'm not going to waste anymore efforts to make it work anymore

[ykatymary]

This is exactly what I needed to hear! I tend to put people on a pedestal, to overvalue them and there life and to undervalue myself. But luke you say, I have a lot to give to the right person and that is a gift I should not give to the "next best" person that does not appreciate.

[Jeannievw]

"Someone else's uncertainty is not an indication of your lack of value, it's an indication of their lack of value to you." Brilliant!

[sudiptadas]

I love being around you, I enjoy your company, but it's not more important than what's right for me. I maybe am attracted to you, but I am far more attracted to the life I want for myself.

Will remind myself of these precious words everyday ♥

[itsnotthecloudyouknow]

I threw my everything at a woman who didn't deserve it and I ended up getting burned. Keep yourself at the top of your priorities and anyone else that sticks around is meant to be. Learning alot about myself through these videos, thank you Matthew!

[MrShaggy]

This is the best relationship advice i have ever received, period. What i learnt from this was to value yourself, dont place others whether its romantic relations or professional relations on a pedistal. Know your self-worth. If people cant see that or arn't willing to put the work in, let them go. Thanks Matthew, great advice mate.👍

[marvanbee]

Matthew! "I may be attracted to you, but I am far more attracted to the life I want for myself." BINGO!! 🔥

[chericoffman]

Don’t say a word. Let ‘em go and move on with life.