When a Woman Pulls Away You Must Never Chase Her

If a woman pulls away, you must mirror her emotions and also pull away in response. If you want her to feel excited over you, then you need to increase space and anxiety. It's that simple you cannot get a woman excited over you if you are texting her all the time. It doesn't work that way. You must get comfortable with bringing space into the relationship and controlling the space. This is important, especially if she asks for space—you must give it to her! Also, don't let her control the space and pull away from you and upset you. Instead, it's better to be in control and pull away from her so you control the space (this is psychologically easier and less stressful if you take control of the situation). If you want respect and adoration and high attraction, you must maintain distance and space to get her thinking about you. There are no exceptions to this rule.

If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, right from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, then I highly recommend you get a copy of my book Atomic Attraction.

Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she's pulled away from you or left you.

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Chris Canwell

[brown_recidivist]

If she can't take 2 seconds out of a 24 hour day to message you then I dunno what to tell you lol

[neshifuturo]

If you chase and are super nice she will see you as a simp and than start to expect things from you and act bad. I learned this many times, woman always need to chase You because than she will have respect for you. Set rules and boundaries relationship on Your terms or just let her go.

[jacobs]

I don't chase no more, I even ignore women when out.

[Hamzak]

These are truths.. Never chase her. She has to chase you in order to respect you above all..

[sserunjogiahmed]

Best relationship coach ever in the world. Ur videos r ever short, precious and straight to the point. Ahmed Qatar.

[lanmilamare]

This guy know so much about women because of what he has been going through..I think this guy was a good guy before he became a tough guy because of women.. I like his advice it is very helpful.

[mystykalmn]

Chase checks Never ever chase a woman, you're the prize guys Stay Strong Stoic and Focus everyone

[gworldmedia]

Showing interest in a woman is natural but chasing a woman is unnatural.

[gowtham]

Chris ...great content always ...
I want to share a thing that i have realised in my life ... the one difficulty in maintaing the distance with the girl is the fear of she rejecting us, and tht fear goes way back to our childhood, the sorrow of not cherished by one's mother . This is very significant reason in men .

[makunoichiippo]

To be fair, yeah this has worked for me... she pulls away even though it drives me insane and i find it hard to cope but i stay strong and she comesback like nothing happened.

[petesnaturalpowerlifting]

Chris, your advice is always correct and straight to the point. Much appreciated.

[DG]

Remember..Women never level up..they always stay the same...and they never do better once they leave you.

[Messenger]

Her actions will tell you everything. She got mad at me before I drove out of town to vacation and she didn't even check to see if i made it its been over a day.

I might just forget her now

[NoName-zbgm]

Somewhat related when you say "mirror her emotions" like when she pulls away that really should be the motto literally every day of your relationship. If she's happy to see you be happy to see her. If she's affectionate, enjoy it and be affectionate right back. If she seems distracted with other things don't be in her face trying to be romantic. I guess if the guy is making life easy and fun for her she'll be happy and affectionate most of the time.

[georgepanagiotou]

Imagine a girl leaving u for someone else, and having to see her often. Then have her get upset when you give her the cold shoulder. What did you expect me to do. Woman are wild bro

[DSILVAjeiy]

🤔📽️🏆 It's best to chase your purpose and passions. And not make any woman the center of YOU 💪 SELF 💯

[adityatripathy]

Hello coach, this is my situation:

Ex's parents want me back, they don't support her decision, but she is adamant. Her reason for breakup is she just lost feelings, she doesn't know why, but now she doesn't want any relationship and just wants to focus on her job.

Both me and my ex's parents have the same opinion, that the new found exposure, friends, partying, job etc has brainwashed her from her roots. She is also having issues with her parents too regarding this new life.

2 months since breakup, 2 months of contact via email almost everyday, just arguments and discussion on why she did this, all she did first is to give excuses, now just says "idk something happened, I don't want the responsibility of a relationship."

There weren't any issues in the relationship. Moreover i have done way too much emotionally, mentally and financially to support her. She admits it's her fault, apologises everyday but doesn't want to work it out, doesn't want any relationship with anyone at all.

What should i do?

[Blackmass]

If only those 80% betas act like a man and stop giving validation to those unknown females

[DarkTobias]

You always always say not to chase, that's fine, but do you say something before you do that or before cut contact, just to be clear?

[VoiceOfThe]

Ex texted me 2 months ago. She didn’t say anything significant so I didn’t respond. She’d previously reached out a month before trying to friend-zone me.

Took seven weeks to respond to her. She’s now left me on unread, as I did her, no doubt she’ll say something in seven weeks 🤣

Got so sick of waiting I thought f*ck this, what will be, will be.