Dealing With Silent Treatment & Women Pulling Away | Never Try to Argue or Reason With Women

Women are predisposed to worry and anxiety. If you allow a woman’s emotions to take over during the course of the relationship, her feelings of worry and anxiety will overwhelm her and consume you in the process. If a woman becomes moody or distant, there’s a good chance she’s allowed herself to become a victim of her own emotions. If you try to talk a woman out of her emotions using logic and reason, you’ll have more success talking to a brick wall.

Reason and logic can never defeat emotion because emotion is neither logical nor reasonable. The more you attempt to reason with a woman, the more she’ll resist. If a woman’s acting distant towards you, it will be impossible to try and talk her into feeling warmth and affection using logic and reason. A woman doesn’t care if she’s right or wrong, she only cares about how she feels in the present. If she’s feeling angry or sad, you won’t be able to talk her into a state of happiness and bliss. Instead, you must allow her to talk and make it a point not to fix her problems.

CASE STUDY: THE SILENCE IS DEAFENING

Dylan and Abi were having lunch when Dylan noticed that Abi was unusually silent. Whenever Dylan tried to say something, Abi just gave him a weak smile and continued to play around with her food. Dylan was confused. One minute they were having a great time, fooling around in the kitchen; the next minute Abi was acting like Dylan had just killed the family dog.
“Did I do something wrong?” Dylan asked. Abi gave him a withering look.
“Why don’t you just tell me if something’s wrong?”
“I don’t want to talk about it,” Abi said.
“Talk about what?”
“I’m fine. Don’t worry.”
“Of course, I’m worried. You’re obviously upset about something otherwise you wouldn’t be acting this way.”
Abi sneered and looked out the window.
“Please just tell me what’s wrong. I hate to see you like this.”
“See me like what?”
“Like you are now. Sad. Unhappy.” Dylan took hold of Abi’s hand. “Please don’t shut me out. Has something happened at work? I know you’re stressed out, but…” Abi pulled her hand away. “You’re not even going to tell me what’s wrong?” Dylan said. “Isn’t that what people do when they love each other?”
“God, you’re so annoying,” Abi said as she got up from the table.
“Where are you going?”
“Away from you.” And with that, Abi left the house, slamming the door behind her.

~•~

The moment a woman gets upset or pulls away, a flurry of thoughts rush through the man’s head. His analytical brain goes into overdrive, asking the same question over and over: how can I fix the situation and make this woman happy?

The short answer is you can’t fix her and you can’t make her happy. You should expect a woman’s mood to fluctuate. You should expect her to be happy one minute and sad the next. And you should expect her to occasionally pull away from you. Fortunately, there are two simple ways to deal with this kind of behavior. The first is to remain indifferent to a woman’s emotions no matter her emotional state; the second is to mirror her emotions and diffuse her negative energy.


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Trust yourself and trust the process,

Chris Canwell

[greatgenius]

“A woman doesnt care if shes right or wrong, she only cares how she feels” BIG FACTS

[QBlond]

If she's a healthy woman she will explain to you what's in her mind, but if she didn't that means she's not a good communicator, walk away and never look back

[UceLui]

Moral of the story is: never simp! Easy as that 👋🏾

[rickyticky]

It makes so much sense. No wonder my mom and dad never divorced. My dad is the calmest guy you could ever meet and my mom is a cycle. My dad always laughed and than didn't care if she was mad or not. My dad always had the same emotion. Whenever my mom was trying to pick a fight my dad always ignored her and walked away than said yes your right. Lol

[MrGchiasson]

She pulls the 'silent treatment'... Don't say a word. Walk away and leave her in her silence. and just keep walking. Never let her manipulate you.

[Krelian]

I used to do this to my ex girlfriend, by the end of the relationship she said i dind't care about her, and i guess she was right, a month later from the breakup she called me crying to be back with her, i just ignored her.

[abdulmalikumar]

1. Don't try to fix it
2. Mirror the emotion and diffuse her -ve energy

[oscarlam]

Always keep in focus too much attention on her.If her emotion is negative, give her some space and she will tell you what’s bothering her later.

[smoothdesire]

make one mistake with women and the back up guy appears like magic

[sarahhey]

Only YOU can make YOURSELF happy. That happiness comes from within.

[wiseman]

After several relationships I can confirm that this is true, but also unnecessary, go out with them have fun with them but that's it, if you find that very rare woman with values and reason lucky you, but must of them are expendable and not worth it.
Peace is something I will never trade again for the drama a relationship can and will give you.

[TripleOptionFootballAcademy]

This goes deeper than just women right now.

There’s no reason to dealing with ANYBODY’s emotional demeanor. Allow them to fail with their emotional demons.

[mr.ironmindset]

Man are logical
Women are emotional

Don't try to fix things in logical way
Use emotions to solve things basically just don't force her to do what you want, yes you're in the right path and everything you're trying to say is right but women don't work like that if they feel that you're forcing things she will pull away but one condition if she do the same thing over and over you need to tell her that you have limits
And pulling away from her will be a good thing but guys be a patient with women sometimes they're just testing you and seeing how you react

[BOYTOY]

Just mirror what she does. I haven’t heard from my lady since the weekend. If she doesn’t reach out I’m not reaching out either.

[mikeklyderedpalmer]

You're the most helpful guy in the internet.

[ADAMGODKING]

Everything else has to stop when 'Developp Attraction' uploads a new video !!!!

[usercantbeblank]

Dude I wish there was a way to thank you in person for how much you have made me grow as a man from being immature to being a man with an unshakeable frame. Thank you and may you continue getting the strength to make these videos. You give me advice my father never did. Thank you

[mayorofthenonsense]

This was how my last serious relationship ended - she invited me over for drinks, but when I got there she was possessed by a demon. Everything was a problem. I tried to shrug it off and change the subject, but she kept pushing and before long I was tearing my hair out trying to ‘fix’ her feelings with logic and reason. Things went from bad to worse and I eventually stormed out. When I saw her a week later, she was as cold as ice, and told me it was over.

Fortunately for me, I was wise enough to accept her decision calmly and walk away without making a scene, but even though that was a bad relationship - the breakup could still have been avoided.

All I needed to do was get up and calmly walk out once it was clear she wanted to fight - sending her the message that it was her problem and I would not tolerate disrespect. Had I done that, she would probably have called me back a few days later and apologized, but instead, I demonstrated how much power she had over me and how concerned I was (despite her atrocious behavior) with saving an obviously doomed relationship.

This was the nail in the coffin and this was why she suddenly went so cold at the end - she saw that I was not the stoic unshakable man I was when we met, but rather someone who had softened and devolved into an overly sensitive and anxious boy in need of reassurance.

The female mind has absolutely no sympathy for this.

But hey - you live, you learn, and I have used that painful experience to improve myself since then. This kind of thing does not happen to me anymore, at least not on this level, because they all know I will get up and walk if they push it.

[ronfarrell]

Don't focus so much on her that you forget about you.

[jessyavila]

Exactly just go on with your day without getting angry or frustrated, you'll can do it 👍