8 Things You Should Keep To Yourself – Stop Oversharing!

Oversharing - Many of us are guilty of it! In the world of social media there are some things you should always keep to yourself, though. In this video we cover 8 things better not shared with others.

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[anabautista]

1. Your goals. 2. Your relationships. 3. Your finances. 4. Your problems. 5. Your weaknesses. 6. Your lifestyle. 7. Your philosophy towards life. 8. Secrets and gossip!

[codewithvicky]

First point is very true for me. Do not share your goals. once it is shared, at the end of conversation, I felt like something already achieved. So I failed to perform action. I am realising this now. Thank you

[idahamidah]

Not all people are normal. For toxic people, any information about you is useful for them to hurt you. That's why to not over sharing.

[lajellybeans]

I used to overshare a lot with people who I thought were safe to open up to and I learned my lesson the hard way to never do that again. From now on I only open up to people who I've been extremely close friends with for many years, and a few family members.

I don't mind when people overshare with me, though. It shows that I give a trustworthy vibe and I'm pretty open minded.

[ThatGirlMoi]

How do I get over the regret of oversharing? I've been private for the last 4 months but now, upon reflections, I feel really guilty, icky, and embarrassed about the stuff I shared in the past 🙁😣

[danny-liio]

Sharing problems and weaknesses (making yourself vulnerable) with others is actually a very good thing because it helps you both bond and heal and grow(unless you want to have only superficial relationships)

[mauroslife]

I gotta work on this oversharing problem I got. Glad I watched this video to understand more about my problem and how I can stop doing it.

[myacct]

Lmao my phone is watching me I swear. I was JUST talking to my friend about how people are too quick to use their trauma to relate/bond with people, myself included in the past. We’ve got to go back to letting relationships develop organically and revealing ourselves gradually as we begin to understand a person’s TRUE nature.

[snakecybermint]

Not sharing your weaknesses is not enough, sometimes people can see them anyway

[hollywoodvampire]

People can’t destroy what they don’t know🤘💯

[cedb]

I got slapped on the cheeks left and right by each of your points. I really need to be mindful of these.

[christinelee]

I think we all have to come to the realization that nobody else gives af about us, except those select few such as some (not all) family & friends. I used to share my shit to literally everyone-- strangers, uber/lyft drivers, "friends" I just met, coworkers, guys I just became involved with, etc. Everyone who'd listen. And I found.. most people truly didn't care about me or what happened to me. It hurt even worse when some would initially act like they cared.
So yeah, I felt really called out by this video lol. It's a touch, cold world out there. Most ppl don't care about us. & sharing so much was too my detriment. It's helped me connect with people faster at times, but more often than not it connected me to the wrong people right away. I'm 31, and oversharing has caused problems all my damn life. And it's definitely impeded my success & slowed me down. It's about time I learned.

[ianbabelon]

The Banksy quote sumps it all up really nicely! People will only notice and revel when your work finally shines into the world entirely on its own merits, without you having to share or others having to know anything else.

[kevinjanghj]

If the relationship is a trauma bond, telling it to your friends will not help it to become better. Your friends who truly care will tell you that you are in a bad rut.

[sswmqvk]

Thank you, I’ve been worried that I was talking too much about myself. Definitely saw things that I need to work on.

[MauriceRivers]

When dealing with evil people, distance yourself ASAP and cut off all contact. Silence is killer to their ego, because then they have no access to you, which is what they crave in order to feed their insecurity.

[pollynlyubenova]

I agree to an extend but then I also disagree. I think everyone should decide for themselves what their boundaries are.
If people never talked about any of the things you mentioned, then they wouldn't become friends in the first place. I completely agree that privacy with people you don't know very well is important but in order to get closer to people you have to show a bit more about yourself as a person. As a person who despises small talk, I wish I don't meet people who follow your advice 100 percent.

[itzastraea]

This is my biggest drawback, of over sharing 😢 I hate this habit of mine also I do a lot of it like over caring over loving over thinking 🙂

[garynaccarato]

If you over share then based on what you what you said people develop certain expectations of you and people make you feel pressured to live up to the expectations they have of you based on what you shared.

[yuki]

thank you i needed this kind of video.
i end up oversharin sometimes some details, and i feel always guilty of doing that...