Life as an Ugly Woman

I wanted to explain what life is like for a woman who is objectively ugly in the eyes of the world. So far, I have only seen videos of this nature from people who are not ugly. Hopefully this will be a source for other ugly women to find solace in, and for people who are not ugly to understand what we go through.

[sourceeee]

this world is a tragedy. She is literally not ugly

[sarmisthasengupta]

People don't understand how making joke on someone's appearance can destroy their self esteem. It's inhumane to mock on someone

[Xlxlxlx]

You are not ugly you are normal. A normal woman with no makeup.

[rocambolli]

Just stumbled upon this video. I'll be 100% honest. You are NOT ugly. And your voice is so beautiful.

[katty]

I am ugly too. I am used to being ignored by men, passed over or even ridiculed by them. In my 33 years of my life I had only one person who was interested in me, but he only wanted to have a friends-with-benefits situation. Noone ever wanted me as his girlfriend, noone ever asked me out, noone ever flirted with me (unless super drunk). Noone ever will want to marry me and I accepted that I will live my life alone.

[madimc]

The worst part of being unattractive, for me, is watching prettier women get credit for qualities they don’t possess because they didn’t work for them…while I work so hard to be a good person and yet remain invisible.

Interesting how kindness and wisdom and humour and intelligence is only important when possessed by attractive women.

[victoriaize]

When you are perceived unattractive as a man, people will tell you to make money that you will find a beautiful woman. But when you're perceived unattractive as a woman, no matter how much money you make, you won't feel desired that much. It's unfair

[danielmontero]

March 2, 2024. Last time she uploaded content was March 12, 2019, almost 5 years of a disappearance. She's left zero trace on here. I don't know if she's even alive anymore, I hope she is. If she is still alive, I hope she realized she wasn't ugly. And that people still come here to this day wondering what happened.

[memfis]

The worst is when ugly girls go out with their pretty friends and then they notice how their beautiful friends are showered with compliments and smiles by the people around them... And cute girls get more compliments in one evening than an ugly girl gets in her whole life...

[annar.]

Girl I understand you... as a woman, being less good looking is a curse. Of course, being less attractive in general sucks, but as a woman, you get judged for your appearance way more. No matter how nice, intelligent or successful you are, you will always be just an unattractive woman.

I don't think you are ugly!

[melanysuarez]

I'm 28 years old, I've never had a boyfriend and I consider myself too ugly to have a boyfriend, but it's not only because of my appearance, but also because of my personality, I'm very shy, introvert and an insecure person, so I truly admire you because you had the courage to tell the boys you liked that you liked them. I don't have the courage for that. I just don't even try. I'm to insecure, so I don't want to be rejected, I just want to be invisible. Every day when I walk on the street I look down because I have the thought that If i don't see them, they won't see me either, so I always live in my own world and I always fantasize about situations that would happen if I were pretty, talented and outstanding. Sometimes I think that If I put some effort on trying to improve my physical appearance and work on all my insecurities I can find someone that can like me, but it's very hard and exhausting to wear a disguise every day to hide what you really are. So most of the time I just tell myself that I should be strong and independent, that I should not depend on anyone's love. It's easier for me to do that than to live with the hope that someone will like me. But sometimes I am like you and I also want to be loved and feel that someone besides your family cares about you. At the end of the video I cried with you because I completely understand how you feel.

[josephmessina]

I'm a 72 year old Sicilian/American from NY. This young woman who looks either Greek or Italian dressed up, with hair done and walking with confidence would have been the belle of the ball in my day. That said, I'm not exactly Marcello Mastroianni or a Fabio Lanzoni myself. GOD bless this woman, wherever she is.

[GhostGirlz]

All us "ugly" people need to chill together 😭💖

[alexamichelle]

I am also ugly, so I can emphasize. I think people don't understand why being ugly is difficult. We don't simply want to be pretty, but we are tired of being mistreated and bullied because of the way we look, something we didn't choose. Ugly is a physical description like fat, thin, tall, short. Nothing wrong with being unattractive, so people should stop calling ugly people beautiful, that's just being dishonest and harms the individual even more. If you want to be friends and talk let me know. 😊

[stickyrice]

Girl, let me tell you. I work with a lot of girls in the modeling business and they all have makeup on. I've also seen them without makeup. You're not ugly. You are as pretty as you think you are and anyone who bullies you are just stupid.

[achyutbatman]

She is not ugly at all the only problem she has is low self confidence

[feels.]

I'm an unattractive woman. 21. I decided in my late teens to never pursue any romantic relationships. They'll make me feel unwanted and paranoid. I'll always feel like he can always leave me for someone better.

I've been working hard and I believe that my dreams can come true. I no longer let how I look stop me. These are the cards I've been given, but I've got better cards as well.

I hope you're well! And compared to me, you're an Aphrodite! You've got something to worl with. Besides you're more than your face. Thank you for this!

[barbara-annperry]

She is not ugly, she is unique. She has beautiful eyes and bone structure. I hope she is happier now

[sophialeejhonson]

As someone who has lost pretty privilege, people do treat you completely differently when you're not conventionally attractive (aka perceived as ugly). Most of my guy friends that I thought were friends just started being so cold for apparently no reason. I now have a best friend, and she's really attractive, and even tho I love her, I just feel like a shadow to her sometimes. I feel like me being ugly makes her beauty even more outstanding.
I feel like I can't have crushes, can't be sexual, and basically can't act as if I would like to act simply because I would look entitled. "How dare you be confident and have standards with a face and a body like that?"
At this point, I'm trying to suppress all the parts of myself that aren't welcomed. I actively avoid meeting new people, especially men, not because they would fall for me, but because there would be a possibility for me to fall for them and I don't want to be humiliated like that. When you're ugly and you fancy someone, it's almost as if you were insulting them.
I'm trying to convince myself I'll be happy alone, but some days are really hard.

[moxie]

Nobody should EVER be treated like she has been! I don't give a damn how she or anyone looks everyone should be treated with respect!