why do ugly women attract hot men?

how DO ugly women attract rich, handsome, successful men? is there something that they know, that we don’t? or is it simply that these women, (though they may not be great beauties by today’s unrealistic beauty standards) are not ugly at all? and in actual fact, are extremely ATTRACTIVE in their own way? after all, beauty is subjective. what one person thinks is stunning, another may think is average at best. and what’s more - looks alone are not enough to carry a relationship. what’s more attractive than your physical appearance? humour. confidence. empathy. kindness. creativity. personality. none of these qualities have anything to do with what you look like physically, and yet they can make you very, very attractive. perhaps the reasons why ‘ugly’ women attract hot men, is because they are not ugly at all.

[theo]

Yeah there is a secret formula to atract these men: its called personality

[AT-qdcv]

Seeing a happy couple and thinking, “how can he find her attractive, because I don’t find her attractive?” Is seriously soft brained behavior

[carolynnemilmine]

But have you ever met someone who was super attractive, but once you got to know them, they stopped being so attractive? People who are physically attractive but are not such a good hearted person no longer are attractive to me.

[Chaotic_Observer]

when you forget that people get into relationships because they love each other

[blessingdanduri]

People forget that real relationships are about connection.

[gluckwunschwinston]

I hate how this is only a problem when the guy is more attractive

[Thufferinthuckotash]

Calling people ugly is the ugliest thing to do.

[unwichtig]

I just love the relationship between Pierce Brosnan and his wife. This is what growing „old“ together means. They are both gorgeous.

[nappyfries]

People are so mean. Just bc a person isn’t attractive to you, doesn’t mean they’re not attractive to their partner. That’s all that matters. Not everyone’s opinion.

[martagrygiel]

People will look at a 50/60 year old couple that's been married for 20 years and be suprised that the woman isn't 20 herself or something. What the fuck is wrong with people. They should seriously get back into the real world.

[Mel-jmzt]

The Aaron Taylor-Johnson one is different. People don't particularly think that Sam is ugly, it's the fact that she is 23/24 years his senior and started dating when he was 18 and she was 42. PLUS she knew him since he was like 16, so the outrage towards her is grooming rather than being ugly

[Hagar-ynjm]

Haley Beiber being called ugly is crazy.

[limiwa]

The first woman ... She used to have a body builder athletic body type. That's how her body looked when she met/married her husband. I believe she said health issues caused her to gain weight. But her hubby loves HER, so he doesn't really care. The double standard is ridiculous.

[Judrl]

I'm an ugly woman soon to be married to a hot man too. I get dirty looks all the time when we're out together. But to him I'm the most beautiful/sexiest woman in the world. He helped me learn to love my face and features that I used to hate so much when I was younger. We're connected by much more than just looks.

[Crievictoire]

My friend is obese, not because she overeats but because she's been through a series of health problems, accidents and surgeries. However, her fiancé is tall, fit and conventionally handsome. I know her personally, so I understand why he's attracted to her. She's extremely confident and has just finished her PhD. She puts effort into how she dresses with flowy dresses and ethnic jewelry. She values herself and is not broken by the word 'fat'. At the end of the day, people treat you like you treat yourself. She respects herself and is respected wherever she goes.
I am a bit chubby myself because of PCOS but get hit on wherever I go. Unsure why...Lol...

[baumdeslebens]

Jealousy, hate and self-entitlement make someone appear ugly even if the face has "perfect" measurements.

[raemarie]

Who has met an absolutely gorgeous person on the outside and absolutely ugly on inside and you're instantly turned off. Chemistry happens in multitude of ways, not just external. If you've experienced that "magic" with someone, be grateful... it's a gift.

[constanterratic]

I’ve always hated the “ugly but good-hearted” stereotype too. Men sometimes want a perfectly behaved woman and sometimes assume the “ugly” women will fit that role (as if “ugly” women will do anything to keep a man). I’m “ugly” and I’ve had men get frustrated with me for having flaws, bad days, and limitations (like any normal human has). It’s frustrating and for a long time I walked on eggshells to try to be “good” to make up for being “ugly”. I tried to not take up any space to make up for being fat. It was exhausting and stupid. I think “ugly” men can fall into that place as well of doing anything to keep a more attractive partner. It’s a shame.

[epiphanygeorgia]

People are hypocrites; they hate unrealistic beauty standards for women because they cause so many insecurities and body image issues, but when they see women with looks they dislike, look at how they treat them with so much disrespect and mockery, and they think they don't deserve to be loved.

[fifferoni]

Just shows how superficial the world is. Personality goes such a long way with attractiveness....