Jordan Peterson - Why getting ANGRY AND AGGRESSIVE is NECESSARY

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Agreeable people have this mentality that they should never confront anyone even though they feel like they are being tyrannized. While it isn't right to always be seeking confrontations, Dr. Peterson says that being silent even though you have something to say is a lie and will only bring you resentment and stress in the long run. In this video, Dr. Peterson further discusses the necessary confrontations that you have to have and how you should go about them.

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“Anger can be a weapon. If you control it, use it.” - Kratos

angusroberts
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Anger has driven me to accomplish things that I don't think I would have otherwise accomplished. It's a powerful tool that can be used for good but it can also be very destructive.

pinkydavis
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Resentment is a sign that we should make a choice and do something about it.

testandscale
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Anger and sadness are simply parts of you that know you deserve to be treated right. Listen to it, embrace it and do something about it. Because staying passive will only make things worse.

OnderHassan
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One time I got really angry and started running. Ran for two miles straight, I wanted to stop so bad and my anger and frustration wouldn't let myself stop. When I eventually stopped I was two miles away from my apartment and walked back in tears cause I knew I was gonna start turning my life around after that.

dariusbunce
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I agree ive numbed down my emotions and have this huge sense of "Idgaf" that people take advantage of me because of my lack of anger

bigmonke
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I've always been a friendly person. I've come to realize that was a mask I've been wearing for far too long. I honestly don't give a f*ck about people and it's time I started acting genuinely. I've been taken advantage of for being kind and agreeable. Just yesterday I decided to change my ways and I think it's a step in the right direction.

LuisRamirez-lncj
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I figured this out long ago. My anger has both helped me and cause me problems but I always knew I wasn't some crazy fool because I appreciate my once in a blue moon rage. Iv earned respect for not being a pushover, stopped bullshit from taking place, stopped people from fucking with me, etc. If used properly its almost like a super power in a way.

trini
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It can be hard to believe in yourself when there isn't a single soul who will validate how you feel or stand by your side. You start to buy into the gaslighting and it can cause you to forget that you have a choice. I wouldn't say that getting angry is necessary, but definitely setting boundaries is necessary and politely standing your ground when people try to cross those boundaries. Politeness is key because unreasonable people will use any personal attack as an excuse to escalate. Don't give them an inch but don't let your resentment make you say something you wouldn't normally say.

Tubeytime
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It's important to befriend both negative and positive, emotions are my friends and I want all of the emotions I experience to be healthy and refined

Gilgamesh-Fate-assassin
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Learning to control my anger has taken years, but it is one of the best tools in my arsenal now. I was not looking to be feared, just respected, but sometimes being feared is an added bonus. 👍

VirginiaPatriotRebel
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The one thing I'll always praise about anger is that it contains a lot of the same things that sadness includes, but with power in the place of paralyzing grief.

lukemehalick
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And so Dr. Peterson finally reveals himself to be the dark lord of the Sith that we’ve been looking for this entire time. Very well

Thydeepestfear
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These 'professors' at the school I was going to, stole artwork I made and sold it. Now they have a fate worse than death and their mad at me for it. I have nothing to do with their decisions or karma.

michaelrowe
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I like this. Being too nice got people stepping over me more than was necessary. I'm still nice but I also learnt to say 'NO' and to express my causing offense if possible. Anger is reserved for the unreasonable owns I have had to deal with occasionally, but setting boundaries from the start may avoid confrontation which is preferable.

ishechad
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Finally someone who understands. All too often "society" tries to crush down perceivably negative traits that seem to crop up but yet all too lazy to dive deep down to see what the actual problem is.

alaina.vittoria
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5:00 this is me. I’m pretty easygoing and I don’t get angry often. I find that anger puts me in the heightened state of caring and wanting the results I need. This video answers a lot of questions I’ve had and equips me with how to hone my anger better. Thank you 🙏🏼

A.Edlacir
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I am a practicing nursing student. I am stuck in a bad situation where I feel unheard and uncared for. My supervisor did little to involve me early on, and I had many varying problems. I have also been suffering from some traumatic events prior, and having to deal with those issues while also facing the workplace I am practicing in, surrounded by people who don't really understand me, and that I cannot please regardless of my willingness to put my best foot forward, is quite harsh.

It is worse when I consider that should I fail this, I will need to do it all over, and I am scared of losing time. I have festered resentment for my own workplace, and while a part of me wants to give up and say "to hell with all of this, " there is a deeper, more vicious part of me that says "I will show them what I'm fucking worth." I am doing my best regardless of how negatively I feel, and how resentful I am. There is hopefully, in the end, light in the darkness. I have hope that, should I do my best, I will at least succeed enough to pass, and that after this is done, I will leave that place behind, knowing I will never suffer under their ire again. And if I focus on the patients that I care for, and I do it for them, and not my supervisor or school, I can find meaning in the suffering. I can do good, even here.

My wish is to build up my competence so I will be better than what exists now, and to gather the power to be master of my own destiny, rather than a puppet dancing to another's tune. I will not allow myself to be enslaved by unreasonable people, and I will not allow my resentment to destroy what I care for.

I love humanity, and these words reminded me of why I feel angry. I have to enact change for, and by, myself. Thanks Jordan.

AlmightyHeavyJesus
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Extreme emotions are alarm signals from your soul that screams something needs to change for you to heal

indigo-streak
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He is saying that I need to say something - and I just started to wonder what that may be. But to be honest, I haven't found anything that I care about saying - to anyone, really. In any case I still feel a strong need for somebody to listen to me. I'm not opressed, however I was *that* kid at school. I am not afraid of life - anymore (or to be more accurate - anymore, so far). I have seen enough pain and the only thing that I fear from pain is loosing my mental atributes like motivation, focus, memory, etc. What I've learned here, is to manifest anger reasonably because I never want to release the real thing - on anyone. I know how it feels like, never wish it on anyone. So it's there for a good reason but it's not for me to master my self control, but something in life that I don't feel is right - and should say something about it. Kudos, Mr. Peterson.

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