HOW TO STOP BEING AN EASY TARGET

Aug 7th, 6pm CET, 12pm EST, 9am PST

Learn how to stop being an easy target and how to stop being a nice guy. Being bullied at work or being bullied in school is not an option.

If you have ever been in a situation where you feel you are the target and it's always you...then this video is for you.

I have had my fair share of bullies in my life and especially when I was younger it seemed like I was attracting them like a magnet. Although it might have been hard, only because of it I was able to master the psychology behind it and not only overcome it but also help others to do the same.

It comes down to these 3 steps:
- Realize that on some level you believe the bullies (otherwise you wouldn't be in that position)
- Stop walking on eggshells and trying to make it easier for people to like you
- Start liking people who actually like YOU...this and so much more in this video, so make sure to watch it!

[sophiegilbert]

So true. I stopped caring so much about whether people like me, and I am happier.

[marcus]

I've been an easy target for way too long. I needed this video's message.

[lindateuling]

I began to break away from "being a target" by studying and using systematic verbal assertiveness training. It took a while, but it was worth it. I still had other things to learn as well., but the assertiveness gave me a proactive tool to take care of myself in the face of critical people. It helped me to learn other strength-building, self-respecting habits (many of which you talk about on this video)! 👍

[bluesunset]

The part of the people who like you finding them boring hit Currently going through this.

[Joshdifferent]

I have been a target my whole life. I was bullied in elementary school, which let me to go to home school and then I was bullied by my whole family, considering I am the narcissistic family scapegoat, and now no contact. Was bullied in my 5 year relationship, dated a narcissist. And I was even bullied at most of my jobs and still happening now but I’m trying to figure this thing out

[Pxndx]

This is honestly the best video I ever watched. I’ve felt like I was the problem for a long time and recently I realized I’m not the problem and feel self love sometimes but still get treated bad but maybe I should look deeper into myself. I’ve kind of always been a people pleaser to prevent problems so I’ll take this advice and stand up for myself more

[Dahjiiii]

You have no idea how much this video has helped me tonight. I am sooo glad I continued looking for answers & working on finding solution. So grateful for your effort in making this video & for sharing what you’ve come to know & overcome. I feel closer to healing with this new information. Sending you a virtual hug, thank you soul sister! 🤗💯✨🙏🏼👁

[texaslovelylady]

How do you set your boundaries when they gaslight and word salad you ?

[v.kelsey]

This was a great, reminder, Wenzes, . I've taken your advice before in situations like this, but now that I am meeting new people, I am returning to old habits: doubting that someone could like me; and if they do try to get to know me, my reflex is to push them away. It's hard to break the habits that come from fear...I appreciate your encouragement. 🙂

[Infpkf]

I really needed this video, I swear we live in the same world Wenzes. You've helped to set me on a path of spiritual awakening and self-discovery and I am truly grateful for your existence. You provided light in this world, hidden but, perfect for those who are seeking a new reality; a world of unless possibility and love. To bare witness to your existence makes me grateful to be alive, that there are others like me. I want you to know that your advice has been worth every argument I've experienced because it's only brought me closer to the people I love.

[Sophisticated]

No one ever hurt me physically but the thing is if we are in a group they always pick on me. If they want to laugh on something. What am i ???? Sometimes i think the problem is in me because i can't be a rude person like them

[LivinMac]

So true. This is something I have been dealing with here lately. Great video!

[JerseyJD]

Thank you!!! This video is everything I needed god bless. I’ve been through gaslighting my entire life now in my workplace 🤦🏾‍♀️🥺😣 So upset I cannot run away from it anymore. Must stand my ground

[kevinm]

Wenzes, this is great advice. And you broke it all down amazingly. All very very true!

[lisagilmore]

I feel like I've been bullied and controlled by family members....what is your advice? I've been avoiding them because it has become so toxic.

[remichloegoyo]

I seem to be an easy target for cyber bullies mostly because of my race. How can I stop this?

[jamacanichols]

I’ve been bingeing on all your videos today. Love you 💙 thank you for being here 🙏

[coolbreeze]

Hey I'm new to the channel just subscribed I was tageted alot at school even now yes it hurts I guess all I can do is head up and back straight thanks for this.

[lilmillik]

Thank u so much for this video this has helped me so much I use to think I had to prove myself to others when really I should walk away from them ppl who I think I have to prove myself to

[dragonflydreamer]

You made such great points. I always learn something from your videos. Thank you for giving so much value in your messages.