Coworkers are not your family

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Neither is your boss/company. "We're like family here" means "we're going to destroy you emotionally"

ZetaCancri
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Treat your coworker like your coworker, never like your friend or family, That's the mentality that I like to have.

SaidVazquez
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To me at work it's just straight business! As i get older i seem to not care about co-workers as much! It's all about me and I'm what matters! I mind my business and so should everyone else!

rigovargas
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I don't go out anywhere with my coworkers or keep in touch with them in my off time. I trusted them before and they used it as gossip which was very hurtful. I won't even tell them when I'm in a relationship or when I get married. And when I retire I'll delete all of their numbers from my phone.

alb.
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EXACTLY. They are all fake nice, so play the same game with them! All my coworkers are backstabbers, yet they act fake nice!

yannip
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I like keeping "professional distance". I really view my coworkers as "chess pieces" and not as actual human beings. It's all just a "game" where everybody is out to get you. Coworkers will stab you in the back at any given moment if it monetarily suits them. They're are just inanimate objects to me now. To me, coworkers are like pieces of furniture at the store as I casually walk on by. THAT'S how I view my coworkers. Just cold, barren and lifeless objects who I barely acknowledge. It's best to isolate yourself from everyone at work and only talk to them about work-related matters. My new motto at work is now "Trust No One". Everyone is out to get you in this cold and evil world.

n.m.
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In my own experience, when you espeacially get too familiar with co- workers then, things get creepy eventually, you run into uncomfortable disagreements otherwise wouldn't have happened in the first place and you may be the problem, so don't fratiznize and avoid this altogether and leave personal business at home and have a easier life even if it sucks.

aolcom-nlqb
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We don't have to be friends at work but we have to keep it professional because working in a toxic environment is something I hate, and I'm not perfect but we all need to have some type of mutual respect for one another in the workplace

AA-wufk
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Totally agree! My work was there for me when I lost my mom and it was amazing but you are right they are not ‘family’ family. Different boundaries have to be set or you wouldn’t be able to achieve your goals with objectivity.

dishatto
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Worse than family is the word 'team'. This should be banished from all workplace cultures. You are an employee with a job and responsibilities. You either do them well, half-assed, or shitty, and you should be evaluated as such. Too many times management throws the word team around with the same inference as 'family', and you get blamed for everything the 'team' doesn't do well, even though you may be pulling your own weight.

purposeful
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I am so glad you addressed this! I don't like when people say this at work, it is a trigger for me since I didn't like the way my relatives did things--so I am cautious of people who say this. "We are family" song by the Pointer Sisters this was played a lot just before Steeler games where I grew up -- lol

resourcerundown
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Most people got their own backs. Throwing others under the bus for their own gain is nothing new under the sun. If someone talks bad about others to you, they'll most likely do it about you. Also, beware of the exceptionally kind, exceptionally interested and charming people. They could be snakes.

theguynextdoor
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Hey Mike! Great video, important topic! We always need to define this clear "line" in our heart and mind: the team is not our family. We can stand out for people, we can take care of them, help them, but not at the same level as our family... And we cannot be responsible for their personal life, like in the case of the family... It is hard, but we need to be conscious of this.

leadertolead
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the place where I work though for almost nearly 5-6 years is like family oriented. I work at a warehouse and regardless of that they would still treat their co workers and the office people equally with respect regardless of title and occupation and would bring us out for holiday dinners and drinks so I consider it as family in a way related to business.

NewfieAsianKid
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I have mad respect for you sir. This is real.

ismaelhall
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I've been at my current job for 6 years. Recently had to take extended family leave. Did people from work reach out? Absolutely. And I'm flattered they did when they didn't have to. They're good people. Because of the family leave situation, I had to change my status from FT to PT, and my role at my job changed. I wanted a professional change anyways, and had begun doing so even before I took leave. So I accepted. When that happened, all of the cultish talk of "we're a family" changed. People were legit upset that now that I'm back, in a different role, that I'm "hurting the family", when ultimately I'm doing what has been asked of me. People were upset that all the labor that I put on my back and took off of them, they weren't going to have me bail them out anymore.

jonathanmundy
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I happen to be the scapegoat at work while all the sacred cows who manipulate the boss get away with everything.

stever
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Great video Mike! It brought back memories of one of my past "families". Out of 300+ people that knew me, less than a handful stay in contact and me with them. It's been almost three years and as nice as it was to be connected and feel like I had people that really cared about me, it was very heartbreaking after leaving and not having certain people reach out.

This definitely goes both ways too. I put effort into staying in contact with a few and some of those few have stuck around, but there were many that I lost contact with as well. Work is not your family!

Thanks for the video!

besuperuniversity
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Wish I knew this months ago, now months into my job I’ve finally heard the truth.

TJDW
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This use to give me stress but the best way I overcome was to remember that the owner took money from the bank and we all here at work to generate money to pay back the bank behalf of the owner.

alihamud