RULES FOR A FIRST DATE #shorts

[maui.tech.]

Never been on a date like… EVER BEFORE. these are helpful

[Dooobleit]

Amazing advice girl! I remember being 21 and going in a date with a girl waaay out of my league. I over thought everything, showed up over dressed, and even had notes of topics and questions I wanted to talk about. Safe to say, it didn’t lead to a second date. Fast forward to now, I’m 25 never think about what to talk about ahead of time and this has been a game changer. It’s natural, it’s organic, it’s great! Stay real gents, been single for 6 years and just went on a date and the girl doesn’t have any red flags and she’s gorgeous. She’s respectful, caring, empathetic, a good listener, humble (especially for how good looking she is, this is really rare nowadays), she’s present, I already want to give her the whole world

[ShawnShons-kyrn]

How to be comfortable on the first date
1 text
2 talk over the phone
3 video call
4 meet up
You go on on to the next step based on the vibe

[hellosouuu]

This is so helpful. I’m going on my first date tomorrow, I’m so nervous, but he’s really sweet

[craftersillyguy]

Just went on my first ever date, tell your self you are excited not nervous, usually it calms you down a lot! You are either compatible or ur not, this is something you need to know so u don’t get hurt or make stupid decisions for no reason, this being said don’t stress about “performance” be urself and you will know by the end of the date if ur compatible or not!

[notsocooldude]

This is actually great advice. If you go into it with the wrong mindset it probably won’t go well. Just try to be comfortable, be yourself, and if they like you then great, but if not then they just weren’t right for you

[ihu]

this is the best advice internet has on first dates istg

[AryanRahman-jsno]

That’s the best advice thank you so much ❤

[bronsonleach]

I have been in a couple relationships but they were not healthy. The girl I want to get with now isn't sure she is ready for a relationship but she does like me alot. I have known her for 4 years and has hanged around me and my family alot at line dance clubs and my family has driven her to line dance clubs a few times. I asked her out to a bar she never went to before and she accepted it right away and asked what time you want me over your place. She got in my truck we talked about all kinds of random stuff for 48 minutes on the way there and danced with each other for 4 hours and talked all the way home. It definitely made my feelings for her stronger and I believe she feels the same. Our personalities are very similar and the chemistry is very strong and people notice it right away especially on the dance floor and our mother's agree. She is a generally very shy individual with very little experience with dating relationships and all that kinda stuff which is why she is very hesitant to go further. She was originally worried about me taking her freedom away but we like most of the same things and live a very similar lifestyle which she figured out pretty quickly.

[AngelDustCakes]

True. Always follow your gut feeling. That saved me from perverts, pedos, shoplifters, and cheaters. And it got me some awesome boyfriends.

[fleureternelle]

The first date is very important, some people are unfortunetly jugging you from that few minutes, so you have to know the person well and talk on the phone or text before going on a date

[erijeinix]

This is so helpful, because the guy that I’ve been entertained online for a year now and he will be coming next year at the city where I lived in. And he’s planning to meet me in person, and even advised me to just meet and get to know each other in person in a limited of time because he expected that I might be uncomfortable or awkward since it’ll be my VERY FIRST TIME seeing someone.😭 He reassured me that I don’t have to get worried ‘cuz we will it both ways. Gosh. I have to prepare myself from now on, since it’s still early lmaooo

[mamajama]

Crush asked me to a movie this weekend. SOO ANXIOUS 😥!this helped me feel better! Thanks!

[jeSlayyy]

Going on a date for the first time👀 thanks for this hehe

[Yami-dk]

It's actually the other way around my partner is getting nervous, so I just wanna see what could help her, she seems fun cute and mature at the same time 😂

[dymoure]

There’s only ONE thing you need to keep in mind… just make sure you have as good a time as possible. If you have a worry-free and amazing time, your date will too. If your crush is there, they already like you. They’re just looking for a reason to commit. So if you’re having fun, they will too. If you’re worried because you think the person you’re with goes on a lot of dates, just have fun. Everyone has things to stress over in life. Whenever I take a girl on a date, I take it upon myself to give my date a gift—let's not worry about anything tonight. Sometimes girls vent. And when that happens, I just listen. :)

[Emma-vlcr]

You are the most under rated person ever

[makaylafriend]

I’ve never thought about the first point the way you explained it. I’ve always hated first dates. I don’t try to be someone different but I am always trying to make them like me. But that’s not my job.

[oceanxsea]

Tysm for the tips! i’m nervous to go on my first date today but ya! thx again!

[johnballard]

A first date should be somewhere quick and cheap like a coffee and donut shop, certainly
not an expensive meal at a posh restaurant. Within less than an hour you should be able to work out if a second date is on the cards. If you have at least one interest or hobby in common, have similar values and plans for the future and there are no dealbreakers have date number two. Even if they are not your usual type or you don't find them sexually attractive that can change so have a second date where you are both doing something you like.
Finally the guy should pay for this first inexpensive date otherwise he'll be labelled cheap. If there are further dates the couple should pay alternately.