What made you stop wanting someone?

I want to thank everyone who stopped to answer this question... this episode wouldn't be possible without YOU. Thank you for your kindness in stopping to hear me out and your braveness in answering the question. I try to put as many answers as I can in the episode, however, not every answer goes on the page. Please know that if your answer is not in the episode, it does not take away from the importance of your story. There are many outside variables that determine the order and answers that go in the episode. Things like duration, flow, variety in answers, ensuring a diverse range of voices, overall feel of an episode, and sometimes background noise, or other audio and visual problems. I love you all. Thank you

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[Thorayaa]

I want to thank everyone who stopped to answer this question... this episode wouldn't be possible without YOU. Thank you for your kindness in stopping to hear me out and your braveness in answering sharing your answer. I try to put as many answers as I can in the episode, however, not every answer goes on the page. Please know that if your answer is not in the episode, it does not take away from the importance of your story. There are many outside variables that determine the order and answers that go in the episode. Things like duration, flow, variety in answers, ensuring a diverse range of voices, overall feel of an episode, and sometimes background noise, or other audio and visual problems. I love you all. Thank you <3

[amyitis]

When I realized I was the option and not the priority. You confront them about it and they deny it, but the actions are louder than words.

[nancymosby]

“Loving somebody is not enough to keep them in ur life forever “

[beckyh]

For the last girl....a word of advice, if you'd like it, from someone who's experienced something similar.
If you've been with your partner awhile, chances are, you are not feeling a lot of overwhelming emotions when you're with them. Relationships tend to become more comfortable, and stable after awhile. So when you meet someone that envokes a lot of feeling, it can seem like you are connecting more with them. It's new, it's exciting...it may even feel more intense than feelings you've had before. But those feelings are not the complete truth. And even if you feel like you know someone you've recently met on a deep level, you don't. That takes time, energy and trust and commitment. Feelings are fleeting, so be aware of that before allowing them to make any of your decisions, and especially when they could be decisions you may regret.

[Feljx.]

4:44 SOMEONE HUG THAT LADY MY FUCKING HEARTTTT

[anthonylaflamme]

For me, it was when I no longer recognized her. I looked at her and I saw a stranger.

[DaarLordBeerus]

8:55 dogs have an unparalleled ability to form deep emotional connections and demonstrate unwavering loyalty and devotion.

[katherinemarkva]

Disrespect. That'll do it every time.

[leilanic]

The girl with the red hair and glasses...I just wanted to give her a big hug and let her know that self love is the most important love of all and she is worthy of love

[qcoe]

When I realized that no matter what for him, I was never going to be good enough. Now happily married for 30 years and he's divorced 3 times...

[pursuji.]

When the interactions start to feel like you're watering a dead plant.

[VR]

For me it was when I realised they had lost all value of me. This took months of chasing and attachment issues and a lot of heartbreak and introspection but I realised I was chasing something that was not good for me.

Stay well guys love from UK 🇬🇧

[sanschmidt]

I want to be like the second woman who answered that not being wanted makes her stop wanting the other person.
I wish to be at that point some time in the future. I've come a long way from trying to prove the person not wanting me that I am worthy of being wanted to at least being conscious about the process and pulling myself out of relationships that don't honor me.

I am able to do it but it still does not come naturally to me. It still hurts to have to do it. Because I can't just switch off the wanting.

[Indivinethyme]

When I became emotionally mature and responsible I realised what I wanted I already had.

[allurasmith]

these videos have always gotten such a strong emotional response from me.

for me, it's how they're treating me. i can love and care so much but can only hear so many hateful comments about things i don't have much control over. if you love someone, you shouldn't put someone down when they're already at their lowest.

[northstar]

For 7 months i held on this hope that maybe someday that person will realize my worth, but you know as time passes you’ll start to realize the things they did, you’ll start to put them off the pedestal, at the end of the day you will just become tired of it, tired of feeling like crap, tired of feeling broken.

For anyone out there still in the healing process, just let time do its thing, not to say we are not going to do anything but, letting someone go in your life is hard.

Despite your heart desperately clinging on to that someone, there will come a day that it will naturally let go.

[deqaabdi]

Because they never respected my time or my boundaries. This was a friendship that I certainly do not miss.

[TheBserk]

I stop loving or pursuing love from people when:
-I notice my sense of self becoming someone I'm not, for the sake of being in favor of their affection.
-It becomes clear that they're just not that into me.
-I realize that myself and my feelings are not being considered or respected.
-I am disrespected or neglected.
-My love and affection is received poorly.

[martynpoyser]

The honesty of the first individual talking about how they don't think they ever stop wanting someone, resonates so much ❤️

[petermansky]

The talking during the movie guy is so real for that.