Why Does Wanting Something Stop You From Having It?

This weeks' question is on the philosophy that wanting = lack and how can you move past wanting so that it doesn't stop you from having.

Question:
Hi Brian. I've been working with the Sedona Method this past few months. I feel so much lighter now. There's something in Sedona that I'm not getting though. It's something you've repeated a number of times as well.

Why does wanting stop you from having? I understand that wanting implies that you don't have it right now, but why is that a problem for getting it in the future?

If I want dinner, I lack dinner. But then I go and get dinner. What's the problem? On the contrary, law of polarity says that if I can see what I want clear in my head, it means there's a way to get it, right?

In my life, I wanted many things, but then I worked for them and finally got them. So what's behind all the "wanting stops you from having" philosophy?

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[SuperPenguin]

I've been doing a bit of meditation lately, and in one of the guides I was watching, it was saying you can want things, but you have to also be okay with not having them, and letting them go. You can have that smokin' hot woman at the checkout counter, but first ask yourself if you can truly be okay with having her say no and walking away. If you can, then you can have her. If you can't then you'll continue to want her. Hope this helps, just my personal opinion.

[savinomarketing]

Hey man, meditated in Central Park today before going on my date and it went great! I really like your style, very authentic.

[salsaofsweden]

YES! This is how it works with anything from girls to favors or even money. Those who “have” keep getting more.

[samuelmorse]

This video came for me at the right time, Thanks!

[shaunnager]

Heard this: wanting to receiving (positive visualization) method explained numerous times but you really encapsulate/make the point clear. Thank you very much

[adamvincent]

Great video. Tired now but will watch again to help it sink in. Thanks for posting it

[danielmate]

Start thinking in "l am" rather than I will be which implies wanting

[mbr]

The fearless man I've been watching your videos for a while and have found them to be quite insightful. You say that being in your body is the best way to express yourself to women and say the sadona method helps with this. You've also mentioned the chakra systems Ins one body can you make a video on them to help improve my meditation

[ErvinMitchell]

This video is so trippy. I’m seeing wants differently

[_Trakman]

Bad example. Dinner won't reject you for needing it.

[anupamjoshi]

i love your stuff man . thanks this video help me alot

[nicedog]

I agree with you but nerves have hampered me all life. Now, I just try to face things nerves and all and if I get through, the nerves go.

[paulofurtado]

Always imagine having what you want, and always wish for what you want, not the money to get it.

[wayfaringstranger]

Wow... I love this and his explanation is on point.

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[wyoancap]

How do you go from wanting to having women in your life when you've perpetually failed with them your entire life?

[websurfer]

BELIEF is the secret ingredient, this universe is designed to mould physicality to belief, you don't get what you want or need, you merely get what you BELIEVE you have or are NOW, reality bends to conform to your belief, it really is that simple, the universe is REFLECTIVE (mirrors).

[rafk]

Hi brian, am testing out a releasing technique and id like to hear your percepective, where can i send an email ? Thank you

[hahanicebroskie]

Can we visualize a relationship. Or is that still wanting? If it is... how do we let go of wanting and move into acceptance?

[mistadiscovery]

I try to vizualize having my own family all the time, whenever I try to imagine it, it feels like I get a amount of resistence, be it doubt or fear or my mind trying to wander. It's really frustrating. Anywho not sure what I'm doing wrong. Been wanting this for quite some time, have come closer then ever before in my reality but still not there and sometimes it feels like I take 2 steps forward 3 steps back at making my dream a reality

[ceeIoc]

What if it’s not normal to be good with girls? Do I need to pretend?