15 Phrases Narcissists Hate

In this empowering and insightful YouTube video titled "15 Phrases Narcissists Hate," I, as an attorney and negotiation expert specializing in dealing with narcissistic individuals, will guide you through a comprehensive list of powerful phrases that can disarm and challenge narcissists in high-conflict situations. Drawing from my depth of knowledge and expertise, I'll share proven strategies and assertive communication techniques that empower you to reclaim your strength, courage, and confidence when dealing with narcissists. By the end of this video, you'll have a valuable toolkit of transformative phrases to help you navigate high-stress interactions with resilience and self-worth, ultimately transforming your approach to handling narcissistic individuals. Join our community and take the first step toward empowerment and personal growth. #Narcissists #Empowerment #Communication #Negotiation #HighConflict #PersonalGrowth #Assertiveness #EmpowerYourself

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[stephanieoconnell]

“Let’s stick to the facts” is my favorite!! Shuts em up for a minute.

[raystarky]

One of my big favorites i hear from a relative IS "SO what are you thinking?" then about 1/2 hour later "so what are you thinking?" after about 2 hours later "so what are you thinking?" I know he is plotting something bad.

[JacobSundberg-hp]

A swift "No thank you" usually puts it all on the table.

[dalemeyer]

I like
"Why do You want to know?"
"I dont see how its any of Your
Biznesse "
I also like
"Go lay down"
Be Well

[leanneschultz]

Thank you so much Rebecca! I needed to hear all 15, married to a narcissist for 44 years. Learning to get my super powers back.

[TraceyMcCulloch-ibgg]

I just said today “let’s agree to disagree”. Brings up my past so much. We are talking 35 years ago. So I shut him down and said “let’s agree to disgree and I am not engaging in this conversation”

[teresajohnson]

I’ve used a lot…..I’m not comfortable with that ! It shuts down whatever plan they had for me 😅

[jkim]

This is great. I have a manager who is a grandiose narcissist - hired by another manager who was fired and now I have her teams. OMG. I saw this right away in the first 3 months (yes, it took that long...) I am going to use these phrases immediately as we start to manage this toxicity out of the organization.

[rachelruiz]

I'm going to use #14 and #9. My ex-husband wife is getting involved on talking parents and she/he is all over the place with their lies!! She's refusing my boys to see me and I allowed her lies and words effect me emotionally and physically to where i just stayed in bed and cried on/off!! I'm glad I started watching your videos!! Thank you!!!

[oddlilbird]

Thank you so much, Rebekah ! You’re giving me courage to face the narcissist in my life with grace.

[theresiams]

Thanks for encouraging to dare to stand to our values/opinions ... I like phrases : let's agree to disagree, stick to the fact and I respectfully disagree... 😇

[anthonycampagna]

Rebecca you're awsome seriously 🇦🇺

[JD-rpob]

My narc HATED the simple text "I disagree". She would send a long message, calling me every name, making a hundred baseless and false claims, etc.

[whitneysawyer]

"No thank-you" Thank-you for this video!

[yaelisme]

My husband did most of those things when he was ambushed by two pastors who were fomenting false accusations against my family. These guys are power-hungry and Thuggish. It’s really sad that the rest of the elder body let them behave that way. No wonder they basically lost it And started exposing themselves with screaming and reviling.

[theyellowshoe]

When he (tries) to bring up a past issue, I say STOP! You are on the wrong track, get on this track! Also I say nope not today, or make an appointment for the 15th of next month (always the 15th of next month)! 🤣

[seashoresolace]

My narc when I say I don't want to discuss this anymore he will continue then I walk away going to another room he will continue talking or follow me he will poke at me not physically but verbally he will keep poking at me like a pimple until the pimple explodes I've had to leave my house to get away from the chaos and drama I don't know what to do

[rde]

They tell you something, you just say "Oh, " and walk away. The silent devastation they feel is deafening. 😁

[ahicks]

Referring to past actions of a narc isn't always just "dredging up the past." It's demonstrating a pattern of behavior they have. But we can provide a lot more recent examples. 😀

[cwwmillwork]

This is tough to use with your manager who is defending the narcissistic employees false allegation against me for text harassment while she's off the clock. Union representative was with us and siding with her even when i have evidence that i never text her. Its the other way around, she texts me. Literally i was told to cut it out or i will lose my job. They refuse to see my phone records.

Sadly, my narcissist ex husband to be sent her texts. Now im the target.