7 Phrases Narcissists HATE

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[aaronjohnmaughan]

Another one I've used is "we see things differently".

[cin]

I've used "stop projecting" & " you're flipping the script" these seem to make him go ghost lol. Ignoring them also works amazingly well 😅

[dawnmist]

They hate “whatever” it sends them into a blind rage 😅

[mishbi]

Funny thing is they use those same exact phrases to hurt others yet they don’t like them !!!

[FabulousCucumber-iphu]

I wrote down all the terms my mother uses and quote them directly back. It drives her 😂 e.g. she'll say to me "You've put on weight. You used to have a nice body." I then look her up and down and say... "Have you gained weight? I remember when you had such a nice body. I saw a photo of it once from back in the 70s..." 🤣

[Horizon]

They don't like it when it's not always about them but when empaths focus on themselves which is a healthy good thing, narcissist can't stand it

[GloriaGonzalez-zzwp]

Oh that is so true thank you Rebecca I will use these phrases for real🎉

[tracymullane]

If they hate it, does that mean it will trigger rage? My narcissist client hated when I told him no, decided not to pay me. Yelled at me in a 3-hour meeting and I had to drop him. I'm trying to decide whether or not to sue him.

[daisydaffsforever]

That is so right...I have tried and tested them all and it sends hubby into a tantrum#

[romanguadalupe]

"I don't care" was my ex wifes trigger to physically attack me.

[loretta]

Do you do any training for the police, I think they could use some help in understanding a narcissist and gaslighting..

[lindac]

"Oh, baloney."
"You're still inadequate."
"You failed again."
"Why would I?"
What's in it for ME?"
"I know you act like an a**hat because of your inner fears, but you're not getting any better, and I'm tired of extending my patience and charity.

[wkufspp]

I dont care is actually a terrible phrase for any normal person

[AlishaLester]

100% satisfaction guaranteed! But as long you are wiser than the narc. You will win everytime! And thats when you know thare bull will stop! And if not keep standing your grounds!!!!

[linalg]

I asked her if she was having an affair with an ex coworker & She responded with “can we talk about it later?” I replied with “Don’t worry instead keep it to yourself…it’s none of my business.” Must’ve definitely caused a Narcissistic injury. Soon the DARVO started then Reverse Discard.

[sup]

Phrase "where is the proof"
Phrase "mmm you just talked yourself into a corner and now you can't talk your way out"

[timsmith]

My problem is I live with her. I know if I leave if I don't take all my tools and belongings. It will be gone and 24 hours not to mention the restraining order.

[LaurieB]

Im old..somebody plz tell me what is DM. i know it means direct message. How do you do that? I lost a prize because i haven't the first clue how to DM

[LarryHoover-wvkt]

Thats what we on then keep me out of it

[rock]

I left a couple messages for your legal aid group. I’ll try again this week hoping for a response thank you