Trauma Bond feels like this

Is there a textbook, or what?

#traumabond #abuse #abuseknowsnogender #domesticabuse #narcissism #powerandcontrol #manipulation #gaslighting #liar

[sbella]

"terrified of losing your abuser" hits the nail on the head. Only people who have experienced trauma bonding can even began to understand this.

[annaburns]

A person calls you, “the love of my life.” Then they gaslight you, give you sleepless nights and have started slipping away from the beginning. You are so right. Except we aren’t terrified of losing our abuser. We are terrified of losing the loving person who we thought they were. Thanks for the insights. Now that I know this person is an abuser, I’m going to try to change.

[of-vm]

Omg that’s so real- trying to hold onto something that always felt like it was slipping away

[BabyGirl-hqcr]

That's as like how I feel with my boyfriend 😢💔

[cara_alexis]

The knots in stomach and being ignored hit home.

[Kingdom_Kurtis]

Overwhelming stress of feeling everything is always slipping away...ouch!! Lived it

[asdfz]

I would love to see a video explaining what experiencing the process of breaking the trauma bond feels like, and what is going on with us physiologically, neurologically, emotionally, and psychologically as we are going through the process of breaking the bond. ❤️

[mamadoom]

It’s so true. I don’t want to lose him. I think about leaving a lot and I can’t stand the thought 😭

[SA-vmrz]

As someone who is finally free and has been since 2018 she is so right it's crazy how once you leave and get over grieving you realize how bad things were and how you lost your identity. Luckily, there is hope on the other side and I'm here to say it's beautiful and powerful to find your peace again

[drumdadsdl]

Trying to hang on in hopes that the person who they were at the beginning will return.. actually thinking they meant the promises..
it's exhausting.

[jetpilot]

This makes a really good point thank you.

[rosalieholderberg]

he left me and im still feeling ptsd, no closure and alone

[martalebron]

I just left from my abusers house last night went hoke and just broke down because it hurts so bad and all I have in me is that I love him but I see he don't the same way. So youe right. I'm just ending up with tearing me down.

[emmarae]

"Always felt like it was slipping away."

[CC..Jeremiah_]

I use to call it, one foot in the door and the other foot out the door

[airyeeblesid]

You just described the nightmare I lived and did not realize I was being abused by a narc...never liked the the word "trauma bond"...but what you said is true.
It's also known as an ungodly soul tie

[stephcarrin]

Oh my goodness to have all that weight lifted. Just went through this 5 days straight. 😭 I'm so worn out and exhausted. And they finally call like nothing, and I mean nothing happened. They didn't do a damn thing! They knew what they were doing. And they did it on purpose. I hate myself for falling into this.

[MizzKitka]

Thank you for posting all these videos I just freed myself from a trauma Bond a 14-month abusive one in and out of the hospital almost lost my I do to the abuse I'm just glad I got out of there with my life and I just wanted you to know thank you so much for sharing your experiences with other victims and helping us realize that we deserve better God bless you

[Blindfold-Me]

When I left my narc our son stopped having night terrors

[kellyleite]

That’s all I experienced during the relationship. Every single day. I thought I was losing my mind and at the same time I was so scared to leave and feel even worse. Now he’s gone I miss him so much and even want him back.