4 Red Flags To Look For In Men!

[malcolmwilcher]

I’m not going to lie.. I always thought you were man bashing. As I watched your video today I started to cut it off. My relationship with my girl haven’t been the best at all.. A lot is because of my doing. We break up and make up. It has a lot to do with my ego. I felt as though, since I came from nothing to something. I can beat on my chest. But today I actually looked a little deeper. Truth be told I’m flawed! I have been in a few bad relationships, I grew up seeing a lot of bad stuff. Everything you said in this video was a eye opener. I have to check myself for real. I have to pray a little harder. I have to care a lot more. I’m going to do the work, so that way I can be ready for myself and my woman. I appreciate you for this video.. from this day forth I’m going to change for the better and embrace being a king.

[southernsoul]

Girls, let’s join together and say a little prayer thanking God for this mans wisdom. We are better, safer, Christ minded women because of this channel. When I listen to him I think of all of you and how happy it makes me knowing you are safer than yesterday. Sisters in Christ, I love you 🙏🏽 Stay safe & Stay strong

[Dr.Elaine]

"1. Insecurity 2. Anger Issues 3. Background 4. Control. " TG

[kittenmayz]

Another red flag is a man that rushes the relationship. Getting serious too fast.

[Authenticleatrice]

This is so true, as an empath I noticed I would attract guys who would open up to me, cry about their past and clearly was not fully healed. No matter how understanding I was and thought I could help “fix” this man. I finally realized it’s not my responsibility to fix a man. And as a woman I am not a mans rehabilitation center. Society has taught woman that we have to endure pain in order to receive a mans love. Such a lie from the pit of hell. The thing that will counteract these behaviors from men is having standards, setting boundaries and knowing what it is you will/will not tolerate!

[sunshinexoxo]

When you treat a woman like a Queen, almost every single woman on this earth will return that back to the man 150%.. that’s how women are. If only men truly understood that.

[leticiadavis]

Ladies please adhere to what Tony Gaskins is talking about. I was a victim of domestic violence in my marriage. I saw the red flags of his anger when we were dating but ignored it because he wasn't projecting it towards me. But eventually he started to project it towards me. The last incident was my head being put in a wall. By the grace of God I didn't die. I am now divorced and free from violence. Blessings to you all.

[a.pieceofpie]

I would like to add to number 2...if he shuts completely down during a disagreement such as silent treatment...just gone head and dip

[KC-nsdo]

"Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them."
~ Margaret Atwood

[General_Rebel]

To be honest I am a man. And I did watch this video to the end. And I agree with what Mr. Gaskins is saying. All of it. This is the kind of message that should edify any man who WANTS to change. No if’s no buts nor any maybe’s.
And he’s right that this ain’t gonna resonate with everybody as he said what written in Ephesians 5.
Much respect and appreciation.

[jewelsafire]

No amount of love, sex, & sacrifices a woman makes can change a man (when he isn't willing). As a man, he has to discover that for himself. Love yourself enough to let him go. I know it hurts, but you can heal from a broken heart💔. If you lose yourself, you may never come back from that. And if he kills you, it's OVER. This video has been invaluable.🙏🏽♥

[candyringqueen]

My aunt was shot 5 times in front of my cousin because he refuse to leave her alone! Please listen to Tony! Save your life!!!!

[lekeshiacole]

This message is worth watching a million times. A man will hurt you, if he’s insecure.

[ryanbailey]

Tony I’ve made it this far and I’ve watched a lot of your video and it helps me grow into the man I am today

[astralplanejane]

Y’all make sure to check out that thread when did you realize he hated you.. These men are capable of being heartless to the ones they claim to love ..

[aerriccoabellamy]

Wasting your breath?! Tony you are literally saving someone's life with this message! And even besides that you are saving so many lives and hearts on a daily. Please do not give up on us because we need you and all of the wisdom and truth that God places upon your heart to share. God Bless you.

[sandraellis]

Wow, all of this is so true. I was engaged to a man who:
1. Was constantly insecure and telling me that I was looking at other men. Or, that I must like other men sexually. All of which wasn’t the case, I was “in love”; I only wanted to be with him while we were together.
2. He had major anger issues. I frequently was cursed at for no reason. Just because he was having a bad day, or because I said something “stupid.” He and his sister didn’t get along. He would yell at her too.
3. He bragged about being from Chi-raq ( had a tattoo about it too). I later found out, he was from the suburbs of Chicago, and would lie to people to sound “hard.”
4. He had Daddy issues galore. Always said that his dad didn’t play with him when he was little. And that his dad was always disappointed in him. They even got into physical alterations.

Tony is right. If you meet a man like this RUN.

[waterhero]

Hey Tony … I got there! 🙌🏾 keep on preaching, we out here … watching you spread the message! We are listening!

[tylerstansbury]

I’m only 20 years old and I am so grateful to have found this channel! It’s a blessing to acquire all this wisdom about men at such a young age!! Thank you Mr. Gaskins, your doing a great deed☺️

[thatsawrap]

Listen ladies. The unaddressed trauma is REAL! don't entertain a broken man it will break you as you try to help him. This is the realest video I've seen. You see and approach dating and relationships in a whole new way.