The Ideal Man - Fixing the LOVER-PROVIDER Dynamic

Is it attractive to be a "player"? Or is it attractive to be a "nice guy"? You probably thought "yes and no" in both cases... so what IS attractive?

[ToddVDating]

I've been seeing this misconception everywhere lately. In my students, from various coaches, on the internet in general. So I thought it was very important to clear this up. Is being a "player" or "doing game" attractive? Well...

[CompoundInterest-SG]

Man, you make me feel like such a fool, having been going around buying girls refrigerators. Thanks for setting me right, Todd.

[yassinemajidi]

what I like about Todd, is his unique ability to understand nuances in complex subjects. and articulate them clearly.

[vehementlyflat]

A man who connects with you emotionally because he chooses you among many options & demonstrates he has a genuine desire to provide stability, regardless of if he's rich or not -- yes I think that combo would inspire integrity in return, in a woman, more than anything.

[itznitefox]

The difference between you and many red pill dating coaches I've seen on this platform is you give a more realistic version and perspective that has enabled my ability to trust women again. Watching the other YouTubers has screwed my entire mindset up and given me the inability to get close to a woman and form a bond with her. You state that people, in general, have the potential to screw you over has actually made it a bit easier to trust women again. What was also messing my mind up was the fact that I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years, this past year I've been broke and trying to do better. She's stepped up, paid for dates, bought me gifts, and has remained feminine, submissive, and supportive of me throughout this entire time yet all the Red pill YouTubers say stuff like that isn't possible or normal. Thank you for clearing things up a bit for me. (I've watched your "can you trust women" video and this one.)

[Paul-ykds]

* quietly cancels refrigerator order *

[bassemmmm]

Miss shooting outside..gold content as always

[survive]

I have a girlfriend because of you Todd 🥺❤️💞

Thanks for releasing the system.

[MrHavk]

I like how Evo Psych or "Red Pill" concepts are now part of "mainstream" game. A decade ago you'd have never heard that three letter company that shall remain nameless mention any of this. Now dating coaches have to talk about it out of necessity.

I like how Todd framed it here. Providing if she's already attracted to you to enhance the experience is generally good. Providing as the main and only means of attracting her in the first place is the losing frame and it's the guys who do this that inevitably get hit the hardest by the divorce machine (this is also the strategy most men use since they lack the looks to generate genuine desire from women).

[StuartOden]

Wait so are you saying I shouldn’t be giving a refrigerator to girls on the first date?

[fvkijay]

My joke is to say I have a bunch of girls on the side and then name a few popular celebrities and that always diffuses without making things serious.

[l.]

Superb classic content that I see rarer day by day. Keep it up!

[SG-xbde]

That's such a great example! Many men would happily spend for a fun trip with a girl they consider 'hot', only real man who truly cares for her needs would resolve her problems, like buying her a refrigerator she'd been needing. There's a world of difference in the emotions that are created in a woman's heart, when a man 'genuinely cares for her' & is not just trying to boost his ego having a good time with so much more attractive woman than him!

[fortuneeeeeeeeeee]

Waiting for that new program Todd..excited for it 💪🏽

[yourvision]

Hi Todd you add great value so ty for your post!
I live in NYC and since COVID-19 the Game seems to have drastically changed.
Could you do a post on COVID-19 and Game, I am sure others would also be interested.
All the best to you.

[netdsrisakulwan]

He literally pioneer of this type of game / technical and logical analysis not some “good vibes” shit

[prashanthb]

Very wise words and I think you are right.

[aldoremigiomondragon]

Gracias por hacer todos estos videos, cuídate hermano saludos

[flowstateentertainment]

Yeah I did this years ago with putting more women in my pictures on IG. That shiz killed my game. I have way better results with just showing my travels, homies, hobbies etc. and keeping the women out of wall pics. However, on my story I'll show that I'm out to dinner every now and again. Obviously with someone else, but I never show her fully. This works much better as girls know your active but on the down low with your game and not bragging.

[truenorthaffirmations]

Create a code of honor..STAND FOR SOMETHING