How To Charm People & Make Them Feel Incredible

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In today’s video, you’ll learn how to be extremely likable, whether you’re an energetic extrovert or a soft spoken introvert.

We’ll cover how to make an amazing first impression AND how to turn that first impression into deep relationships with people that love and admire you.


⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:00 - Intro

0:11 - #1: Charismatic body language
- Listening With Warm, Soft Eye Contact.
- A Duchenne Smile.
- Speaking Through A Smile.
- Expansive Gestures.

1:34 - #2: Capture attention
- A Pre-Story Laugh.
- A One Line Hook.

2:54 - #3: Making someone feel good around you
- Laugh When Someone Makes A Joke.
- Adding A Light Platonic Touch And Compliment.
- Be Universally Kind.
- Playful Teasing.

6:31 - #4: Be a shield in their shield wall

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[reshpeck]

The best thing about this channel's advice is the way it emphasizes how being kind and making others feel good cannot be manipulative but genuine. The general message is that to be likeable you actually need to be a good person.

[hipnhappenin]

I'm glad you made that caveat: Not everyone you go out of your way for will stay in your life. BUT it shouldn't stop you from continuing to be kind and generous. Don't do favors for people expecting a certain response.

[skubi]

Just want to say, I love myself more because of your videos and little things I changed in my behavior. When I am at work, with friends, girlfriend, with just one person or group of people, I am a more approachable and make better connections. Also I feel like I am respected more. It is hard to sum it up in one comment here. I never did any of your paid courses, but just from your free videos here on this channel I changed my life to better.

[egb]

I used to do these things naturally. But life happens. I’m really appreciative for these examples and insights. They serve as reminders to be your best self.

[matthewjohansson]

I've watched almost all of the videos released by Charisma on Command, and here's one of the big self-corrections I had to make on my journey of putting these tips into practice:
Many of their videos give the guidance to make others feel comfortable around you, by
1) Complimenting
2) Playful teasting
I've found that when I watched these videos, I often forgot the 1st and tried to capitalize on the 2nd. Because I've focused so much on how to get a laugh through teasing, I eventually lost what natural skill I had in complimenting others. And it's shown. So to anybody with a similar experience, go back to the first point, and be free in your conpliments to others.
Thank you Charisma on Command for the awesome video!

[darss]

I hate that this is simply a tutorial on how to be a human being, and yet I still needed it 💀

This channel but this video specifically is so amazing. They really teach you emotional intelligence and act quick with social ques and make yourself memorable in the best way. Being a genuine human being. Just fantastic. I’ve been watching for years now and have made such drastic changes in my life.

[thestsergeant]

Brad Pitt has always seemed like the nicest dude you could meet.

[armorykittington]

Man, I feel so emotionally dumb watching this, lol, but it's like every time I talk I forget there's this whole world outside my head. Sometimes I knock and there's nobody there. This video sets me back in place. Much love!! ^__^

[sparklepugtea]

Brads really just a great guy. Period 😂

[ebarr]

The quiet types don't gossip and that's a plus

[marcob]

It is spot on that when you say "fake laugh", a clip of Jimmy Phallus briefly appears.

[noblepolygon]

@3:52 I find watching comedy has taught me to make quips about different situations on the fly and making others around me laugh

[chai_lattes]

Can you do a video on how to engage other people to ask you questions back? I feel like conversations with people I'm still getting to know never really go anywhere. I'm curious about them, but I'd also like to be shown that same curiosity. Anyone else having this problem?

[FeliciaSandiego]

thank you for the summary at the end! that really helps. I have today a big group event and feel uncomfortable talking (or just even being there: social anxiety), but I will try some of these tips. 🤞

[moviewryter]

I love your correct placement of Jimmy Fallon when you talk about a forced laugh.

[baneinvestment]

Do one just in brad Pitt. I know people only see his face but I think they are attracted to his personality over his looks.

[danielfdez]

This channel should be at the top of YouTube, amazing content, congrats.

[ericswinton]

I love how you still have to be an extrovert for this

[jssgamer]

You should make a video about the tv show 'would I lie to you" It shows really good examples of charismatic and funny people, great story telling, good and poorly executed banter. I would love to know how the hosts of the show are seemingly effortlessly funny and why when other guests sometimes attempt to make a joke it doesnt get received as well.