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George Clooney has a subtle and almost effortless charm. And unlike some of the people we’ve covered on the channel, you don’t have to take drastic steps to emulate it.

So today, we’re going to be looking at some of the habits that makes Clooney so effortlessly charismatic and learn what you can do to convey that same charm in your own life.

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:15 - Lesson #1: Focus on setting the tone for the interaction.
2:37 - Lesson #2: Laugh with your eyes.
3:56 - Lesson #3: Genuine eye contact.
5:57 - Lesson #4: Self deprecating humor & complimenting others.
7:57 - Lesson #5: George’s goal is to feel good.

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[Fuliginosus]

I've started entering rooms like Clooney on Letterman--slowly while waving and pointing at people.

[brace]

If only the room I enter had an audience applauding so I could actually point and wave...

[MetallicBascinet]

Laughing eyes: This is how you do it


Me: Laughs loudly while staring right into the persons soul

[LyonsDenFarm]

This site is literally fixing my aspergers. Ive learned more about reading body language in just a few short months watching these videos than all the years of socializing i have done so far. Thank you COC.

[lijah]

How to be effortlessly charming while I'm putting effort into learning how to be charming

[palsp]

"How to be Effortlessly Charming?"
Step 1 : Be George Clooney
Me : "Aight! Ima head out"

[TimeFliesTimeManagement]

1:52 “the energy at the start of an interaction counts for far more than the specific words you say”
so this is what you need to improve FIRST

[SuccessWheels]

Some NOTES here
1. FOCUS ON SETTING THE TONE: Pick one tone that suits you best. First 10-20 sec of any new interaction or place rather than worrying about what to say next focus on setting the tone. It could be Touch, greeting loudly, energetic, raise hand, smile.
2. LAUGHING WITH YOUR EYES: Get emotionally involved in what you saying that way it’s real fun for you. That way your eyes will naturally goto that laughing look
3. GENUINE EYE-CONTACT: After looking away - return your eyes to the person that you are speaking to that way they feel involved. Deliver strong eye-contact during the punchline.
4. TEASNG AND LAUGHING AT PEOPLE VS COMPLIMENT OTHERS AND SELF DEPRECATING HUMOR: Make a humor of people with same status. Compliment people who are below & above you.
5. GOAL SHOULD BE TO FEEL GOOD: Ultimate goal of conversation shouldn’t be look charming. Ask yourself what would make this conversation more fun.


As always, my passion is to share summaries like started doing it on my channel with PDF summaries.✌
Lets make it effortless😃

[PracticalInspiration]

What's amazing about George Clooney's charisma is much of it can be used by naturally introverted people. The subtleties without needing to make large gestures is hugely beneficial. It's qualities I've learnt to apply in my own life

[sanketa]

I can not over-emphasise how positively this channel has affected me!

[SeanLunny]

When you smile “for real” with your eyes that will make you seem more genuine AND charming. 😄

[RealCoachLee]

It's all about being you in any environment and being strong enough internally to not depend on others for value (keep your frame) - all while being refined and sophisticated. All of this will keep you from looking like you want attention. Those with high value don't feel the need to take on crazy styles or seek shock value from their statements. People notice when you are trying to get attention (crazy hair style and then pretending like you're just "expressing yourself, " shock-value statements not based on you being honest but to try to bring attention to yourself). If you have real confidence, you don't seek it in artificial ways and know that it will come naturally. Seeking it artificially actually just makes you look desperate to seem cool or "different, " or whatever. Self-belief says, "I don't have to do something outlandish to seek attention. In fact, I don't have to seek attention. I receive it naturally."

[ZacharyLaid]

Just chill out and get comfortable like George Clooney.

[jnicholson]

I know some friends of friends who actually know George. They've said the reason people enjoy talking to him is if you're 1 on 1, he makes you feel like you're the only 1 in the room. He holds your eyes, smiles easily, and his self-deprecating humor. He likes people and is still friends, at 60 something, with his high school friends after 40 some years so he's very down to earth.
They say he's not stuck up or star like.
His personality is charming but it's how he treats others well and enjoys talking to people.

[portista]

I’ve been binge watching your videos for a couple weeks and I can honestly say that in this short amount of time, my issues with social anxiety have already improved quite a bit. Within a few days of applying a couple of these habits, I’ve noticed that I’m a lot more at ease in conversation with both strangers and people I already know. I’ve also noticed that my relationships with people at work (including bosses) have been blossoming and people are starting to show me more respect. I feel like my job performance has been steadily improving as well. It’s honestly mindblowing how a change in mindset can make a world of difference.

Not every day is perfect though, I occasionally slip back into moments of self doubt or anxiousness and it’s not always easy to rebound, but the more I keep working at it and making an effort to implement what I’m learning, it keeps getting easier to bounce back.

I’m so grateful that I’ve found this channel and I can’t wait for what’s in store for me and the people around me! Thank you so much

[rasmusn.e.m]

Your tips on mentality/tone and eye contact are really helping me here. I have been watching your channel since I got diagnosed with ASD and it has really helped me relate to and feel comfortable around normal(neurotypical) people a lot more. Thank you very much :D

[etchlad]

1. Set the tone. Entering the room. Basically linger and smile as well as greet everyone in the room. First 10-20 seconds SET THE TONE!
2. Physical Placing = leads to physiological comfort and makes you feel like you’re in your own living room. Crossing legs and being open.
3. Laugh with your eyes. Get emotionally involved without your saying.
4. Genuine eye contact = looking down whilst creating thought is normal. Yet after gathering thoughts, make eye contact often. Best time to deliver eye contact is in most important moment. Makes strong eye contact during punch line

[michaborski]

his voice is incredible, that is a lot of success.

[briarrose]

These things are largely social manners that gave been lost in the online generation. I've lost a lot of it myself due to it being easier not to engage with everyone. These are great videos and much needed.

[MichaelDennis]

1:05 Even David Letterman is jealous of George's charm hahaha