Instantly BOOST Your Charisma | #shorts

One of the simplest ways to increase your perceived charisma is…⁣
to PAUSE!⁣
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Studies demonstrate that charismatic people are supportive, sensitive, nurturing, and considerate. Not only that, they also exude a mysterious, almost intangible quality that’s a unique combination of quiet confidence, credibility and presence. ⁣
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When they enter a room, people look.⁣
When they talk, people want to listen.⁣
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And the best part about charisma is that you can develop it. ⁣
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One simple way to develop charisma through your presence and perceived confidence starts with how you communicate. ⁣
Next time you’re interacting with someone, see if you can pause for 2-3 seconds before responding. ⁣
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I call it the 3SP - 3 Second Pause.⁣
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Of course, you’ll still want to maintain eye contact so they know you’re paying attention, and you want to have an engaged look on your face - a blank stare will probably raise some eyebrows and might even prompt an “are you ok??”… You can even take a small breath before you speak so you ‘audience’ knows something’s coming…⁣
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This is a particularly useful skill when in interviews, on panels or when presenting in public and answering questions. ⁣
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Have you ever seen anyone use this and what did you think? ⁣
Or have you used it? How did you find it? 👇⁣
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-House, R. J., & Howell, J. M. (1992). Personality and charismatic leadership. The Leadership Quarterly, 3(2), 81-108.⁣
-De Cremer, D., & Van Knippenberg, D. (2002). How do leaders promote cooperation? The effects of charisma and procedural fairness. Journal of Applied Psychology, 87(5), 858.⁣
-Tskhay, K. O., Zhu, R., Zou, C., & Rule, N. O. (2018). Charisma in everyday life: Conceptualization and validation of the General Charisma Inventory. Journal of personality and social psychology, 114(1), 131.

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[WorldBeater]

Imagine two friends having a conversation and each one waiting 3 seconds to answer every time a question is asked 🤣🤣🤣

[romeshbhat]

My wife asked if I love her, I tried 3SP.

Now I cook my own food

[abba]

6SP = Double Charisma.
9SP = Triple Charisma.
12SP = Quadruple Charisma..., Keep going for 24 hours = Full day of Peace & Absolute Charisma.

[brucewayne]

Person: *does a 3 second pause*
Me: *walks away because I think they're done talking*

[ratnak]

Me who can't even collect my thoughts in 5 minutes 😭

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[smallfootprint]

Yes. You don't have to jump into everone's talk. Being patient, and waiting to respond is wonderful... and if I am talking with someone who is constantly interrupting... i can let them talk. I can let that person who needs to talk, talk. It's my gift.

[matadorlksh]

I’m using this in my fights with wifey! I can think of better comebacks now

[ailispique]

I do this naturally but im just dissassociating lol

[sihamben]

I use this technique naturally just so I can collect my thoughts and have better response. 👌🏼 nailed it

[yehfish]

This is true. I always make “um…well” sort of fill-in words before answering. I do find people that use the 3SP tip really attractive and professional. Thanks for pointing this out!

[chaossage]

Okay, that one was a really good advice, especially for someone with social anxiety

[jackmorley]

I happen to do this naturally, I didn't realise it was a thing for charisma lol. I always thought it was better to come out with a well constructed sentence than a muddled one

[nabadayhalder]

I paused 30 seconds and made Eye contact with you 😂

[charleybrown]

Being who you are and being authentic is the best way to express yourself.

[ryuk]

Me : taking a 3sp
Someone else jumps to answer the asked question.

[azamthaheem]

You are an exceptional lady having enormous faculties of heart and soul.

[Jonathan-mmzx]

I usually do this but glad to know it is a formal way of communicating👍🏾

[rohitjagtap]

I am highly impressed by the personality you've created, your utter delivery, mannerism, along with charisma you pour in your confidence. There's too much to learn from you. Just Thank you! keep making more videos regarding Personality Development. <3

[salmaabbasi]

Yes, like Jordon Peterson as an example. I noticed that with him.

[pankajdabholkar]

Maam you have an amazing positive vibe. Bless you.