5 Attractive Habits That Make You Look Extremely Confident

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Matthew McConaughey gives off an almost effortless feeling of being cool. So today we’ll break down some of the habits that make him so charismatic and how you can incorporate them into your own life.

And it’s worth noting, while Matthew McConaughey is very handsome, his confidence and charisma can apply to you no matter what you look like.

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:00 - Intro
0:15 - Set the mood
0:17 - #1: Move slowly and don't rush when speaking
0:52 - #2: Greet everyone around you
1:48 - #3: Make yourself comfortable
2:29 - #4: Stay anchored to yourself
3:20 - Be a magnetic storyteller
3:39 - #1: Use a good preframe
4:37 - #2: Share your emotional experience
5:00 - #3: Act out your characters
6:35 - #4: Tell the story with your hands
6:52 - #5: Tell your stories in the present tense
7:48 - How to put this to practice

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[betterchapter]

''Confidence isn't saying to yourself, I know she'll like me...It's saying to yourself, I'll be fine whether she likes me or not.''

[PsychologyRefresh]

Here are some tips from us:
- Compliment others genuinely and often,
- Ask more questions about others than you make statements about yourself,
- Assume everyone has something to teach you,
- Present an open body language,
- Do not try to impress

[WilliamJonesChess]

Key points
1:20 Take 5 seconds to greet each person in the new social group
2:42 Don't try to blend in
3:15 Become a magnetic storyteller. Reminds me of Jordan P: Your value increases or decreases depending on how you convey ideas to others.
3:36 Cool Moment to show Louis from Ant Man! Love him!
3:45 Preframe story: say here is a funny story! This hooks people in. Then u begin telling your story.
People are wired to love emotional journeys
5:58 Character method = play out your characters. Tell stories with your hands at the same time.

[phoenixdzk]

Matt has this calming aura; I cannot read his book without imagining him reading it out. Sets your mind at ease no matter where you are

[Deanforbes]

Not being afraid to look around the room you entered is a big one! Many people just zero in on the person they know in the room.

[nami]

Matthew is so good at story telling, I'm getting annoyed everytime you cut his telling off😂

[anthonyteichroeb]

The simple take away message for me, "be your authentic self, and wear it like a badge".
His authentic self allows him to take up space, sets the precedent and draws people into his world, where hes the main character, and we all come for the ride (stories)

[netflixpartyy]

matthew just oozes charisma. so glad y’all did a video on him!

[amygalvin]

Few are so charismatic as this guy. It’s a personality trait that can come off as fake. Just use your own unique personality and go with it.

[Ben.Stevenson]

Legend has it matthew learned to be so charismatic by watching charisma on command

[alphaxide]

There's also the fact that he is a top notch professional actor

[Introvertedalpha]

Love the advice to determine the mood you want to set for an interaction and spend the first 10-20 seconds bringing that energy. Thanks for this video!

[stuntcellist]

Love these videos! A masterclass on getting along better with everyone in your life.

[TakeBackYourMind]

Learning mindfulness and how to ground yourself and slow your mind down with breath work helps so much for a few of these points.

[shantanushinde]

I really like how you put out the important points with highlighter and the bold subtitles

[BM-fzyc]

I love the disclaimer at the beginning like “even though you are probably uglier that Matthew, you can still use these tips”

[wendykornfein]

Matthew is terrific! Never really noticed his charm. Thanks to your presentation.

[TheDenisedrake]

AH! Relaxed attitude. That is the vibe I need. Thanks!

[immediateegret]

@Charisma on Command thanks for the video! Your channel focuses on boosting one's own charisma, but have you ever done a video on supporting or enhancing someone else's? Being a good "wing man, " for example, or subtly encouraging someone who's feeling anxious (i.e. encouraging them without giving them a lecture on what they're doing wrong). Or even if it's someone who is already charismatic, how to play off them in a way that keeps the energy going without trying to one-up them.

Basically, how to use your own charisma to make someone _else_ seem more charismatic. I'd love to see tips on that!

[pitanoen]

i love this channel so much it hurts. thank you for your work.