4 Social Skills To Be Charming If You’re Quiet

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If you’re an introvert, you may think that you’re destined to suffer socially. But one of today's MOST popular celebrities is a self-proclaimed introvert.

Even more amazing, Zendaya captivates people without pretending to be extroverted, which can feel exhausting and fake.

So today, you’ll learn 4 easy tricks to be charming as an introvert, without changing your personality.
Our writing assistant and resident introvert Hadley will walk you through them.


⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:00 - Intro
0:23 - #1: Front load your enthusiasm
1:07 - #2: Use hand signals to capture attention
2:00 - #3: Speak through a smile
2:26 - #4: Listen with the intention of laughing

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[PsychologyRefresh]

Introverts appeal to people because they're easy to be around. Even though it's a common misconception that they're stuck up, their aura is indeed welcoming

[charlotteshu]

1. Only use energies when it matters such as introduction and then switch to natural energy level
2. Use hand gesture when want attention especially point figure up
3. Rendering smile
4. Easy to laugh never fake laugh

[luxuryhub]

This channel is so valuable for people who struggle with being around others. My daughter is super socially awkward and watches these and has really come out of her shell a lot.

[anablic]

Introverts can be great socially, its just often they need time to figure you out before they will open up and fully be themselves around you. I think they really excel in one on one interactions, extroverts more so in group settings.

[FateOfTheElephant]

Being the object of an interview as a celebrity is vastly different than being a regular introvert trying to converse with another person who isn't instantly intrigued by what you potentially have to say

[lordrandom]

can we get a video on "Recovering from a bad first impression" or "changing their impression"?
I love your videos!

[SweetSourMiss]

Great video. I am an introvert and have no problem with who I am. I LOVE being an introvert, and am always busy doing things that create joy, but why do so many people think introverts need fixing? I certainly don’t! People and their drama absolutely drain me and crush my soul! I have a circle of friends and am content with just having those trusted people in my circle. I don’t feel the need to constantly make new friends or to even be heard. I don’t feel like anything is wrong with that.

[RussellClausse]

i absolutely agree with saving your willpower for the most important moments of the day!
the key as an introvert is not to try to talk more, but to listen more.
people don't want to talk about anything more than themselves!

[rubin-healmysocialanxiety]

“The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself completely.”
― Carl Jung

Keep it real my friends ❤

[krowkovtuber]

ok but the laugh that zendaya has around tom is that "girl around her crush" laugh, it's so adorable

[katecreate]

From personally experience, I thrived most when I worked on my self esteem. This video is great for learning to be engaging, but carrying a healthy confidence is going to make it or break you. Extroverts have a natural talent to discard this easier because they put themselves in the limelight to achieve positive attention and reaffirming their positive qualities. For us introverts, the key is not to rely on a crowd to support us, but learn how to appreciate yourself first. Once you learn to value yourself, you will expose in time the different layers that extroverts don’t take the time to discover about themselves.

The best comparison that I’ve heard is that extroverts are sparkling, they are eye grabbing and glittery. They hold a personality that has its own appeal. Introverts would more like carry an aura that glows, there is a quiet presence that captivates people in a different manner. There is a warmth and depth to introverts that makes them mysterious, a lot of people know there is more than the surface. Learn to embrace it and you’ll carry a vibrancy that is unmatched.

[TheREALHugo]

I think that the introvert people are some of the nicest people out there.

[abigailmccabe]

Amazing! So many great points and narrated perfectly. Love Hadley’s voice, it’s so calming and confident :)

[Eschen_]

This video is so well made! I feel like usually these types of videos have a few interesting things and then spend a lot of time expanding that a little bit and giving lots of examples. But this one is so dense, and there were so many tips that I felt are actually practical and would make a big difference. Point 3 is weaker, somewhat of an interesting point, but maybe less immediately doable. But it's not negative, because the video is perfectly aware of this and only spends 26 seconds on it! Made its point, and moved on. Fantastic video!

[gabriellalabi]

Hadley crushed this episode! I love your tips and your voice is so soothing and relaxing.

[ethanoptimized]

As a former introvert that this channel helped a lot, I can say that 1) being authentic and 2) a great listener for more extroverted peers to bounce ideas off of has effortlessly made me more likeable to people. Can't thank this channel enough for the gems it's given me to use in my work/personal life!🤜🤜

[gracehurwitz]

Wow loving this new narrator! Her voice is so sweet and lovely and she gave some great tips. I loved when she spoke about front-loading your energy, I’ll be sure to try that out.

[DraxTheDestroyer]

This could be the best channel on YouTube no cap, I started to watch a video from your channel everyday to be socially better and I learned so much stuff is just a week!

[ticketyboo.]

This was a great viseo, and that final tip, about watching something funny before going out, is actually very helpful! Lately I’ve been doing it from time to time, especially when I’m about to hang out with many people, and it not only helps me relax but it really lifts my mood and I find myself to be much more at ease at the social event itself!

[ttpayd]

Thank you for this! Definitely gonna keep these tips in mind.