How To Make People Feel Incredible Around You

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Jamie Foxx is insanely charismatic. Some people mistakenly think that he's just an over the top comedian. While Jamie sometimes uses physical comedy, he's a magnetic storyteller and an amazing conversationalist. He can even lead a conversation just by listening and asking the right questions.

Today we're going to break down a few of Jamie's habits, and how you can use these habits to become funnier, more magnetic, and a more likeable listener.

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 

0:00 - Intro.
0:43 - #1: Set a playful tone from the start.
2:45 - #2: Use a self burn with no heat.
4:23 - #3: Tell present tense stories with a variety of voices.
6:00 - #4: Use a "cliffhanger" pause.
7:50 - #5: Be a likeable listener.

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“Talk to someone about themselves and they'll listen for hours.”
― Dale Carnegie

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Silent confidence will take you along way.

Showing your confident without saying a word is an extremely powerful tool.

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“No one cares if he has small legs”
Gym bros: “SHAAAME

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0:43 - #1: Set a playful tone from the start.
2:45 - #2: Use a self burn with no heat.
4:23 - #3: Tell present tense stories with a variety of voices.
6:00 - #4: Use a "cliffhanger" pause.
7:50 - #5: Be a likeable listener.

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This channel gives you the answers to questions you’re too afraid to ask.

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This channel is so valuable for people who struggle with being around others. My daughter is super socially awkward and watches these and has really come out of her shell a lot.

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Funny enough, I learned some of this in a communications class in college. The professor was a failed comedian and joked about it. The class loved him for his lessons on life and honesty in communication. At the end of the semester I asked about his style of teaching and comedy. He replied: “use FUNNY, not damaging, self deprecating humor to get the audience on your side.” I’ve also heard Kurtis Conner say this too on his channel as well.

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My mother was/is a very socially awkward and she used me as her shield…as a result I always walk into rooms with a smile, my presence is immediately known! Once I went to a fb group football party with people I only knew from fb and never met in person! I was so nervous but when I walked through the door I was smiling and I began clapping and stomping my feet saying “ the champ is here” like Muhammad Ali 🤣🤣 that got everyone smiling and laughing and my presence actually got the party started ! Little do people know I’m always terrified when I enter an already filled room!

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A self burn has no heat. Ahh... I’ve been doing it wrong the whole time.

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By eating a lot of iron and shocking myself I became magnetic

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What helped me a lot when telling a story to people is telling the story not just in events that happened but also what was going through my mind. Like instead of saying something like ''I jumped over the fence, saw a guard dog and started running'' which would be what happened, you say ''So I jump over this fence, not thinking much of it, you know easy done this since primary school, I land and I hear something. In my mind I was thinking about all the possibilities of what it could've been, then I see a dog walking towards me, and in my mind this the biggest more scary looking dog I've ever seen, So I have a quick second of realization and then I start running like my life depends on it'' Same story through events, but one is so much better to listen to because it makes you feel like you're there because the listener knows the emotions that were going on throughout the story.

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One thing about Jamie is that he is a naturally funny guy. He doesnt have to force it like some other people do.

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"If you talk to a man in a language he understands, that goes to his head. If you talk to him in his language, that goes to his heart."
—Nelson Mandela

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As an introvert, this is the exact opposite of what I want. But I like these videos, so I'll watch.

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Many forget or don’t know Jamie Foxx started off as a comedian.
This is a result of years hone his skill of storytelling for comedic effect.

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Just remember, he’s doing all that naturally, there’s no conscious physiological decisions here, just him being him. We shouldn’t overthink so much ✌🏻

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I've been using these tips, especially the hand gesture ones, in my YouTube videos and I have felt a huge boost in my confidence and energy. It's much more draining to fake energy than being actually active and in the moment.

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This guys channel is way better than any “self help pickup artist romance guru”

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#1: Set a playful tone from the start.
(Be louder, more high energy, start by smiling every time you enter a new room) but remember to switch to being genuine and back to playful
Great storytelling:
#2: Use a self burn with no heat.
(Stay away from major insecurities)
#3: present tense stories 
#4: a variety of voices (exaggeration to increase humour helps too!)
#5: smile priming (smile with your eyes etc.) 
#6: punchline pauses
#7: Use a "cliffhanger" pause.
(Mid sentence) - to not get cut off, have your hand up
#8: Be a likeable listener. (“Talk about)

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JAMIE!!! I’ve met him a few times in my lifetime and he’s the most consistent human I’ve ever met!

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