4 Ways To Make People Like You

Here's how you can win friends and influence people. You do these four things an people will become addicted to you and your vibe! Hope you enjoy these social skills and charisma tips.

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[TekWest]

I was pleasantly surprised by this. Most people have some stupid pick up technique or something but these were just point on being a kind person

[IOeste]

Be genuine. Period. No mind control. Just be who you are.

[n.sn_]

In other words: If people can feel that you like them and care about them, it will be reciprocated. Be genuine, love, help, support people.

[writingwithkayla]

Hard no on number 4 - smiling all the time. I do this naturally and people often think I am being fake or weird.

[neoncoyote]

Warning: do these things and people may get so addicted to you and your vibe that they'll see you as a mentor, or someone they can unload or trauma dump on, or someone always available to listen to their carrying on about themselves. Actually, it's a great way to weed people out of the friendship circle, as long as you cut & run at the first sign of lack of curiosity and prattling on.

[lynn]

People that actually listen are a rare find. Most ppl just listen long enough to come up with a reply.

[HoLeeSheet.]

People just stick with people like themselves, if you're different it takes years for them to just get comfortable. So just be a purposeful person, not everybody but right people will stick around you.

[Sonicxisever]

I really liked this! I’m definitely guilty of talking and talking and never letting the other person give their perspective. I’ve gotten better over the years

[god]

I've naturally been like this all my life and honestly I have more people for me than against me. I didn't realize how respected I was with people until i got sick and I had so many visitors at the hospital the nurse told me I have never seen so many visitors visit a person in 15 years. I was quite shocked myself. and I didn't tell a lot of people I was in the hospital but people just wanted to support. Genuine kindness comes back in full circle.

[evka]

I do these things naturally…can’t get rid of some people 😅

[limanino]

I do it all naturally. Maybe not as much as you'd suggest, but it's genuine. I hate people who ONLY ask, because, hey, I want to get to know them too.

[allisonx]

When Customer Services ask "What should I call you" I say call me nothing, let's just talk, like people, not like reading a script. It usually goes well, I want it to go well, and want the exchange to be human, employees deserve that. Be real, be yourself, don't be fake.

[kamakazicon]

Every single person has something that they can teach you. Your job is to find out what that is, and then get them to teach it to you. Win win.

[djdroogie]

Great reminders.

Over time you don’t even realize you’re doing this but you’ll notice when others aren’t.

[Max-wqqs]

Great tips I just want to add a #5 everyone must realize that ppl love you and are already addicted to you!! so don't be afraid to be yourself!! Just be yourself!! ❤❤❤

[rolliepixel]

Nice tips Clark you know what you are saying Clark and we are here with you Clark 🗿

[boyharmon]

Heres a tip, do not crave validation, be yourself, and if you are a genuinely decent person people Will like you anyway, and if they don't that's fine too, don't sweat it that's there choice, just be comfortable knowing that not everyone is going to like you, but there will be plenty that do .

[turuanu]

I hate when people call my name when they're already talking to me. It feels invasive and overstimulating.

[sng]

So basically just be invested in people’s passions and actively listen to them so they feel important. Makes sense

[Still_waters_run_deep]

Man I am so excited to find my people!!