Charisma 101: How to Be More CHARISMATIC

Charisma 101: Going over the basics on how to improve your charisma and become more charismatic

0:00 Intro
0:39 Presence & Awareness
2:41 Emotion over Logic
7:16 Warmth
9:11 Practice & Analyze

[rajadavid]

1. Presence and awareness.
Confident, people feel what you're thinking about yourself.
Reframe your internal narrative.
Challenging the story that you tell yourself.
Smile first. Maintain open body language. Keep good eye contact
Telling your mind logical facts of the situation, and Letting go of what you can't control.

2. Emotion over logic.
Tell a story not news.
It's about how you present the story.
Vary your vocal range, use more animated gestures, and alternate in different pitches, emphasizing specific words.
Pace, Set the tone and mood. Use pauses, and laughter and keep good eye contact.
Being more descriptive gives more options to continue the conversation.
Expansion. presents a question that gives the other person multiple options to expand on. Be more relatable.



3. Warmth.

[thejovontorres]

"Charisma isn't about how you speak but also how you listen and respond."

An interesting topic that's overlooked. I'm diggin' the purple back light.

[ren]

The way you fix this is by introspection. No amount of techniques will make you good at socializing. Just letting go. You should be able to yell for no reason, or do things that make you look like a weirdo or dork. Not that you want to do that, but having released yourself of the shackles that burden your communication.

Things like wanting to control the outcome, trying to appear cool, all these things can trigger a fear/panic mode when the mask ain’t working.

In the end you gotta learn not to care what people think. Understanding that everyone is a lot like you. Insecure and worried about themselves. Self analyzing to the point they don’t see those things you do in yourself. They’ll forget the second you’re out of their sight and they take on another task.

Just like you do. Your RAS can handle only so much information. It doesn’t latch on to irrelevant things. Only what you deem relevant. I.e. angel numbers, red cars, motorbikes, bmx, people wearing hats. These are things you’ll only notice if you’re looking for them.

Same with seeing positive responses from women. If you believe no woman can be attracted to you. You won’t see anything, but if you believe the opposite you’ll see positive signs of attraction.

It’s all mindset. It’s all internal. Win the internal battles and let go. It will take time, it will take practice but it’s far better than learning some technique to get you in the zone.

You should just be in the zone at all times.

[daniellucatero-jimenez.]

Saw this video as recommended & was not disappointed. Needed this reminder thank you 💪

[kingmachiavelli]

If you look intimidatingly good it's really hard to have charisma because people won't even give you the chance to bring your charm out lol

[benyoung]

Another great video. I greatly appreciate your insight and I take your advice to heart and apply it in my life, to good effect. Your YouTube channel is unbelievably underrated.... But know that your time, effort, and work is greatly appreciated. Have a good one. Be safe.

[TheRealTraivonNieves]

Great stuff Danny! Really great informative video!!

[mannyhan]

I thought you were like a mil subs in. Love the content you produce. Im here for the ride man 🎉🎉

[rainakreeger]

Wow. This is crazy good! Such an informative video and just the one I've been looking for. #

As a neurodivergent person with past experiences that made me feel like an outsider, I kind of feel like I am a boring person to talk to which contradicts my want to meet new people and make friends. This video really went in depth and gave me so much new information I can now use and practice on my next interactions. Thanks Danny! Also I'm shocked this video is so underrated, but hopefully it will get more views and subscribers as well!

[mohitaingle]

I'm happy that I found this video.
I wished I could have get this advice before
Thanks man!

[floschrodl]

Such a good Video. Wow thank you for the value!!!

[VincentBruno]

This guy looks like a scary Ryan Reynolds.

[adriannalyon]

The only emotion i tend to bring out of people is being on the defence, lol.

[TacTar]

It's kinda funny bc you didn't smile once in this video but great information 👌

[thenordish]

Great video. But 300 countries, did my teacher hide something from me ?

[a.b.tapatio]

This festival sounds like Tommorrowland

[samds]

"Flat dry delivery makes it challenging for listeners to stay engaged" Great tip for this channel 😉

[Kenzismind]

This guy looks like a every famous guy mashup

[hermantornvall]

Im realy sorry bro. Im sure you have good things to say, but Im already in three advitising in 2 minutes of your video. Just there you lost my intrest, really sorry. I dont know if thats on your purose, or if its youtube by themself, or the algoritm....but really sad anyway. You need to fix this!

[cohesive]

300 countries? There aren't that many countries on planet Earth.