Getting Your Ex Back | Why You Should Never Take An Ex Back

Getting your ex back is the one thing on your mind, but find out why you should never take an ex back.

In today's video, Nick will discuss 5 key reasons why getting your back is a bad idea.

Take a walk with me and find out why you must never go back to your ex

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[Boomboom-xmsu]

I went back to my ex. There had been abuse in the break up and she rebounded (possibly monkey branched). The break up was so painful I waited it out to 'fix' it. And I got her back. It was an absolute disaster. Her behaviour was extremely challenging and the second break up was far more painful and damaging than the first. No matter how painful a break up seems, going back will only make it worse.

[cmockingjay]

Never go back when someone has shown you who they are. They are damaged they won’t change.

[buckaroobaizuo]

If you read the same book twice, you get the same ending .. ex to next .. forever forward, never backward

[SkillfulHuntsman]

It actually rubbed me the wrong way when they tried to come back. If they left for greener grass make them stand on that. They're just coming back to drain you again.

[mercyveritas]

"The grass is greener where u water it." I love it and share the same view!!

[EinDahl]

My ex left me before Christmas to "work on himself." As it turns out, he left me because he wanted to "work on" other women. I left the door open for him until finding out how quickly he rebounded and now the thought of him touching me after touching someone else makes me feel ill. He has zero access to me now. There is no reason whatsoever to take someone back who felt the need to try on other people before deciding you were the right fit after all. He can have his stupid prizes, 'cause I won't be playing his stupid games anymore.

[mitnavn]

My codependat ex wife ended a 17 year old marriage over Messenger. She could not look me in the eyes because she was cheating on me for 3 months. She went into a rebound relationship right away and it destroyed me and my 13 year old daughter. Never forget the pain in my daughters eyes and see the same the thing in my own through the mirror. Its been 2 months I am slowly healing and I know I can never go back. My trust and loyalty is broken and must admit that pain is an excellent teacher. Thank you for this video it helped me❤

[cahl]

Truer words have never been spoken nick. People Listen to him. When you get back together it hurts 10 times worse when they leave again. And the worst part is it's your fault the 2nd time for opening the door again. All your hard work on yourself is diminished and you're back at square one. Just pick up the pieces and move forward people. Trust me

[Matt-eeqg]

Absolutely I took my ex girlfriend back twice and the and it was the same shit on the second break up lesson learned

[alexanderfinlayson]

I've been binging on "no contact" videos for 9.5 months. I think thus video just put the last nail in her coffin.

Im going to block her and move on. I need to love myself more than this.

[rcasas]

Wow you just nailed it. Ive never once reached out and ignored two feeble attempts of him reaching out. Turns out he rebounded almost immediately after he and I broke up. It’s been 6 months of NC and I’m feeling so much better but always in the back of my mind is the what if. I needed to hear this today. I AM THE BACKUP OPTION. Never going back bc I am no one’s back up option.

[Akothar]

Broke up with her 3 years ago. She came back and i accepted. After 3 years, in this may we broke apart in the most horrible way i could ever imagine. Nearly 10 years since we knew each other, she started to cheat for a long period of time and showed me the door. She broke trust, faith and loyalty with me that day. Never again.

[Starmajor]

This is the analysis that many heartbroken people need to listen too. There are too many “get your ex back” videos out there, but there needs to be more conversation about not going back.. An ex is an ex for a reason. Thank you for this.

[michaelscott]

Thank you for this and I mean that seriously. Thank you for this. I listen to this three times in a row and I’m probably gonna listen to it again I needed this really bad. I’ve been missing my extra 45 days and we’ve broken up and we’ve gotten back together and I don’t want her back anymore. It will just happen again and it is more painful each and every time I am her fallback plan and I’ve lost all of my dignity. I’ve lost all of my self-respect I’m done with this I’m not gonna be somebody’s back up plan

[barbara]

This is a much needed video. Can't believe there are only 5 reasons as I have been journaling hundreds of reasons not to take my ex back. Ready to find my partner at my level and emotionally availability.

[rufusandegbert]

Harsh but true. After listening to this entry, I - as the regretful dumper - reluctantly deleted all media accounts still connecting me to her. I realized that things wouldn’t work out even if we had another go. Bitter, bitter medicine.

[seanmichael]

It does hurt so much worse the second time especially if time has passed. I healed as much as I could.

[omarshaaban]

I appreciate this, because it’s honest - many coaches promote getting back together because they can promote a program.

Appreciate your honesty here

[trombas]

I know heartbreak hurts. The dumper has all the power and the dumpee initially does not. As time passes, the odds are very high that the dumper will reach out and at that point, the dumpee has the power. However, if the dumpee gets back together with the dumper, the power has returned to the dumper and they can do more damage than before.
My advice would be to only consider getting back if time apart is short, a couple of weeks or so. Beyond that, the dumpee is the second choice.
I know it is tough but walk and keep walking. When the dumper reaches out, be very polite and just say that you have moved on. Wish them all the best and don’t look back.

[dZeNa.]

Broke up 7 years ago with me, came back after months. Had 3 beautiful years this time and then suddenly he wasn’t sure if he would stay in the future, saying:“I’m not sure I can stay in 3, 5 or 10 years.“
I was shocked, it came suddenly. I still am so shocked.
And he’s messaging me, his family telling me: hes feeling bad. We were engaged the last 1 1/2 years. And out of a sudden…
I’m so done with this world