Avoidants often experience alexithymia

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[sheliasmith]

That's why they should not date until they get help this type of person hurts people who loves them.I know because I was one who loved him and almost got broken never again.

[VampyressVA]

Avoidants usually rationalize a lot during therapy. It can be very frustrating. It takes the right therapist to constantly detect this and bring the avoidant back into their feeling space.

[johndoe-kd]

Its damn true. My FA ex was literally unable to express her feelings. She said "i dont know i dont know" and "i thought we are gonna talk about this later" when i asked her really SIMPLE questions like "what was going through your mind during the period before we met up and you said you miss me". She said this is the first time this happened to her in her life, which means it is the first time she ever felt loved and deactivated. It is really hasnt experienced anything real her whole life....

[cosmopolitan]

I’m so glad I found these videos. They helped me realize I’m not crazy or needy. I once asked him what he thinks about and he said nothing. I believe him.

[GodHelpMe]

AFFIRM ♡

- I have extreme supernatural beauty
- I am supernaturally beautiful
- Every day, I am grateful for my unique beauty
- I am perfect, and my beauty is incomparable
- My soul shines, reflecting my inner and outer beauty
- I respect my body and cherish it as it is the embodiment of my unique beauty
- I am bold and beautiful, just as I am
- Every time I smile, I let my beauty shine to the world
- My beauty is not defined by others, but by how I feel about myself
- I honor my body and treat it with respect

[GodHelpMe]

I was best friends with a psychopath.

I always admired how calm he was. Cool and calm. He was a nice guy. Former preacher.
He always drove as fast as he could. Drove in the left lane. He faked empathy.

He future-faked me all the time.

He betrayed me in the end. After 12 years of friendship.

I now realize, after reading it in a book, that psychopaths want to see you beg.
It makes them feel powerful. He did the same thing to his ex wife.
He abandoned her when she was pregnant with their baby.
He refused to help her. I now understand why she despises him so much.
He has no conscience. He lies to everyone. He steals every chance he gets.
I had to learn this all the hard way.

If you meet someone who shows little emotion, watch out!

[MD-gkun]

Oh wow I suggested this to him once. Guess I wasn't wrong

[tarkov]

DA i knew drank spoiled milk and didnt have any reaction. I was amazed at the time, but its easy to see the negative implications.

[Dana-kdh]

Thank you very much! I m interested what an avoidand feel/ thinks after s.x... why they don t hold out to be touch

[CarolineBlack-xq]

I was told by avoidant who cheated on me with someone 10 years younger I should be happy for him, and he dosent give a fcuk about my feelings?

[MD-gkun]

D.A. with asd so I'll probably never get anything from him ..sigh

[MD-gkun]

He hates his mother but at 30 still lives with her. Even though he makes 35k a year and own 14 acres.

[bigbob]

Is there an online test for Alexithymia?

[innerglows]

Can a person be on the ASD scale and also have a dismissive avoidant attachment?