Narcissists will pretend to leave you in order to get you to stop whatever you are doing to them

Narcissists will pretend to leave you in order to get you to stop whatever you are doing to them

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[-_.-._GiNa_.-._-]

I discarded myself this time. I've been no contact since the first week of May 🙌 The new supply can most definitely have him and all the sh!t that comes with him.

[girlyak]

Especially if the person has abandonment issues, the narcissist fake discard routinely not just as punishment but a major power play, Be safe lovelies and remember you are good enough to be loved.

[deejayshe]

The usual routine was: start a fight on Friday. Party during the weekend, then sorry on Monday and puppy dog behaviour all week. Repeat. Plus everything he did during the weekend was my fault.

[HazelsMomFurever]

If you have to tell yourself "deep down you know they care"... they don't care

[kellyandaaron]

My ex loved threatening to never see or speak to me again. I finally gave him his wish and went no contact.

[lotuslabradorite]

My ex always did that. One day he threatened to leave me to punish me and I broke up with him for good.

[lisacudjoe]

This roller-coaster leads to trauma bonding y'll feel stuck in the relationship

[jesuschristlives]

I told them flat out I NEED BOUNDARIES AND YOU'RE BAD FOR MY MENTAL HEALTH 😂

[rideswithtasha]

I love how he always says narcissistic “or” toxic person, keyword “or” because not all toxic people are narcissist.
We tend to throw that word around, narcissism is a mental illness, it is a cluster B personality disorder in the DSM. Some people are just toxic so I love that he always adds that caveat.

[Motrouble_]

Definitely feels real every time and then you are conditioned to expect it and subsequently stop caring which brings on the next phase of dysfunction.

[SureWhatever]

I will never forget the look on my ex's face the first time he tried that after I caught on to it, and I told him "fine, go ahead and go. I can't stop you" 😂😂😂😂

[linlin]

Yes, i had that a few times. Then i had the balls to really leave myself because i thought it was real and strong enough to not go back. Silence treatment gave me peace from time to time. So i distance myself from him and loved the silence treatment at the end

[terrywade]

My narcissist husband pulled the divorce card twice. The first time was when we were arguing about him constantly lying about full disclosure of his affair. I wanted to see if we could still save our 34 year marriage. The second time was when he caused a family blowup over how much space our daughter was using in the garage for her business. No one was agreeing with him, especially me! Again, he pulled the divorce card. So, I reminded him that he had just pulled that 2 weeks prior. “And now, you’re doing it again over this crisis that you created. Since this seems to be something you want, because you’ve done it twice now, YES! Let’s go with that! Let’s get divorced!” The shock and awe that came over his face was worth the price of admission! It shook him to his core! He couldn’t believe that I would ever divorce him. His behavior had been so bad and so controlling that I had to come to the conclusion that he really WAS A NARCISSIST! The radical acceptance smacked me in the face and I WAS DONE!

[billyannecrews]

Ugh: this is what makes them absolutely exhausting. Lol. Try having a parent like this. My nervous system is shot to shit

[essencelove]

I bounced...no more contact, Blocked on whasapp and phone number! I am done with him begging to live with me or move out west to be near him! He was using me until he get a new supply! Well, Good Luck!

[Canwegetawhoohoo]

He always said ' it's not even worth it' and abrubtly end the call, then stonewall me. Next morning : Good morning!😊

[beautypablotamarini]

I feel like I am volunteer in lunatic institution.

[JohnMartin-gguj]

Every time Lee. Everytime... except this time. This time I'm standing my ground. I'm praying for her, but hope is slight.

[gohappypanda]

That's what happened to me with my last ex. He got me the first time and I was so confused. When the second time happened, I knew he was faking it. He was trying to punish me for standing up to myself. This time I was done with his temper tantrums. Don't fall for it. Now I have a good man, I am in a good healthy relationship and none of that BS

[aprilfoster]

Until...YOU leave...or others get tired of them playing and advise them to leave...i never been in a "cycle" with a person like that bc i'll bounce. He worst thing can happen is when friends of the relationship try to help meet their obsurd requirements for yall to be together. Good friends will acknowledge the person is impossible and yall should move on. Always leave when they violate so they can play tug o war with themselves. Sometimes life will discard them bc their complaint is too worrysome and your attention is needed somewhere else.