some narcissists will pretend to be good parents in order to impress the new supply

[kimberlymcneal]

He did this with me. Acted like he was great to his kids, it’s been two years since he saw them. He only got them regularly in the beginning to reel me in cause I love a man who takes care of his kids. Three years in he quit his job so child support wouldn’t come out of his check. I was like ain’t no way. One of his children barely know him at all. This is sad

[besidesbeauty]

Omg!!! Yes 👏🏾 yes 👏🏾 yes 👏🏾 this is true. Wow

[yellowswallowtail]

Yes. It shows the downgrade they do. They realize society is figuring it out & speaking out. This video is GOLD🥇

[tinacobb]

This is true. New supply thinks he is a great dad. No quality time just if there a need it looks good that he takes care of it. Brownie points 😅😂

[traceydean]

You summed it up once again 😅 I’m going through that now

[kellystarlight]

So freaking TRUE!! One good thing, , after we broke up, , the kids and their mother all told me that I Made the Narc dad more involved with them, that’s beautiful. His daughter told me that I MADE It FUN! I was so happy! Now they are older and choose NOT to see him. They are wise. I get to go to graduations, track meets and an occasional dinner out!

[calvinroberts]

Very true, even when they go back to there old supply. Even worst.

[marciebyrd]

OMG!!! GOING THROUGH THIS RIGHT NOW!!! THREATS OF JAIL AND ALL...THIS IS SO ON POINT...
THANK YOU!!!

[zee_lolaj]

I called him TF Out on that!
NOWWW u asking about his projects, grades, and PTA meetings.
Fake ass Ninja

[Ang-ieqy]

Exactly what he did with his new supply.

[tamelaanderson]

Word...my ex-husband...with all of his new Boo's...🤦🏾‍♀️ 🙄 😕 😂 🤣 😄

[donnaholton]

You are so right my ex narcissist abandoned my daughter it blows my mind because as a father adore their daughters they do not abandon them daughters are the most important part of their lives but his shiny new toy loves the fact that he has nothing to do with his daughter or our new Grand-baby.

[burgermeister]

How are we supposed to repair our relationships with our kids? I try and give him his space and work on myself.

[crystaljonas]

My ex husband just my sons name Tatoo on his arm to act like he's the best even though he refuses to to anything for his kids . I was married to a narcissist for 10 years . Never let toxic people in your life everyone will suffer except them 💯

[serenaw]

Thanks, Lee🙏. Your honest, insightful words help a lot today.
Just read a card to my child from the new supply—the best bit: ‘In my opinion your dad is one of the best presents life could give you’.

[Authenticallyathena]

Mine did this. Prior to having his gf he barely picked them up, barely paid child support. Got with her all of a sudden he's super dad picking them up every other weekend and made sure she saw him give me money even though it was never what was ordered, but hell how would she know? Fast forward a month or so, still picking them up but dropping them off with her for his whole weekend and the money slowed. Now, 10 years later(cannot believe she stayed that long) he hasn't seen them consistently in years. They don't even want to see him anymore. Stopped paying child support and is currently $56, 000+ behind. I can count on one hand how many times he's seen them in the last 2 or 3 years. She definitely believed she was better but I have watched her deteriorate over all these years while myself and my daughters are happier, healthier, and thriving without him.

[SleepyStardust]

My dad has done this with every new gf. He acts like he's a great dad, tries to involve me and my sisters and blames us and plays victim when we don't show up

[sierushest]

Didn’t show up for his graduation, didn’t help pay for his back to school supplies, doesn’t participate in shared events aka parallel events

[ctwizgj]

I hit it right on the nail they use anyone for $$$

[naokosummers]

He used his kids to get close to me during love bombing period. He said how his ex did nothing and he did everything and how close he is to his kids. Found out later he would get mad at them if he didn't think they were friendly enough towards me. Then he accused his teenage son for flirting with me when he was trying to be nice to me as demanded. Now I have left him, he totally discarded his daughter, falsely blaming her of our divorce, blocked her from everything and getting rid of everything that is hers.