Your Manipulative Elderly Parents Are Controlling Your Life (6 Signs)

Your Manipulative Elderly Parents Are Controlling Your Life (6 Signs)

Parents are the most influential people in the life of a growing child.
As adults, the child needs his or her parents always as they run to them for advice and blessings.
As the years go by, parents become old and frail, thus making the children take over the duty of taking care of their parents.
However, manipulative elderly parents use this age to their advantage without the knowledge of the child.
Here are six signs that your elderly parents are manipulative and are using it to control your life.
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[Libertario]

I really envy who has healthy parents.

[Valcey]

Parents need to stop trying to control their adult children. It’s something I deal with and it’s maddening.

[Lory]

I envy those who have had loving, non-abusive, non-manipulative parents. In this life I have never known what is like to have normal, non-toxic, caring parents.

[Barbara_Banks_]

It’s good that videos like this are being made. Often, that manipulative parent could be a narcissist or a sociopath. The child is “trauma bonded” to them for a very long time. I hope that your viewers seek out more information on “narcissistic abuse”, to understand more. Take care, and thank you for your videos.

[weirdone]

My parents call my children and I several times everyday and I can't stand it anymore. I'm 31 now, and they have no life of their own. They literally have no friends, but growing up they did and pushed everyone away. I plan to move far, far away, and limit contact. They've got each other, and I am not obligated to fill the void in their lives that they've used me for throughout my life, and never addressed personally. I hope that this is not too harsh sounding, and that someone understands.

[Elenamiaka]

I had my mom listen to this and she immediately switch to guilt-trip mode. Making me the sinister in our house 😭

[surfkat]

My 90 year old mom has been driving me nuts since I moved in with her. I'm 63, employed and healthy. She is controlling on every level you can think of. She refuses to see a shrink. She thinks she will never die, but obsesses over death 24/7. She's not crazy...I am. I have no siblings and this weight falls on my shoulders. I try to calm her down but that does not work, rather it makes her worse! She will talk and rant and belittle me for everything. I can't WAIT for her to end up in convalescence. Let them deal with this whacko.

[Bogman]

I'm 32. I moved in with my parents at the end of last year due to financial reasons and struggling. I was in a rough place and wanted to go back to school. I thought it would be also a good way reconnect with my parents and brother who also lives in the same state. Well i am coming to realize how manipulative and petty they can be and have been my whole life. I find it has been extremely frustrating lately due to me coming to terms with this.

[Lovinglife]

Mine are in the 75 to 85 range and I do not live with them but I'm close enough to be their go to if something is wrong. My mom specifically displays a lot of these toxic habits. Don't let others guilt you into thinking you dont deserve to set boundaries with your elderly parents becuase they miss theirs. I love my mom but if I let her take advantage of me, im only hurting myslef.

[Lola-Yo]

I’ve confided in my mother a lot this year, I was off my guard. She’s just started with the manipulative messages, unwanted advice and suggestions, with meddling in another non existent scenario, concerning my brother. I have ignored her, but felt her “hovering”, even though she’s 100 miles away! Just as expected, she started the “ what do you want to do at Christmas”. I’m so triggered, I told her I’m not doing Christmas and she can have time to make other arrangements. I can’t stand a repeat of last Christmas, she was in my home for x5 days, being waited on by me, hand and foot! Followed by the 200 mile drive to take her home. She thinks it’s okay to move in for the whole holiday! Rant over. I’m 61 years old, it will never end!

[jackilynpyzocha]

Dad has been manipulative all his life, to me. I won't be taking care of him. His loss!

[mkurosk]

It's hard to deal with that kind of parents
The only way to get out is to be independent

[bridgettenuqui]

growing up I thought my parents were good people. as I grow up, all they talked about was other relatives "bad" behavior. karma. I noticed they didnt have "real" friends they hated alot of people, culture and raise. I love them becuase i thought they were really kind and i was lucky. They took care of me and my brother really well but just us to become insecure in.so many ways.

[Elisabeth-hfoe]

My opinion is that my parents have covertly killed me with this kind of abuse.

[tsveno]

I feel guilty about this but I sometimes don’t talk to my elderly father for 2 weeks at a time and I ignore his phone calls too. He’s in assisted living. He asks me to do favors for other residents and I have no interest in that at all.

[mariobryant]

I had to part ways with my mom and my older brothers wanted me to live with her. I said no thousands of times and they became pushy and manipulative themselves. My mom still doesn’t get it, I won’t be nowhere near her ever again. She never supported me or anything, kept me from learning anything.

[starshiptrooper]

One of my parents pretends to fall or collapse in front of me. This has happened several times now but they always land on a sofa, bed or holding onto a door frame. They only do it to me… I’m losing patience… and am getting to the stage where I’m starting to withdraw from them even though they rely on me so much and make contact constant demands They tell me I never do anything for them and even become abusive…. I’m at the end of my tether and my siblings are no help.

[spectrumhustle]

I hate that they don’t ask my brother for a dime and they’ve drained me financially.

[ericwalker]

Hearts have grown so cold towards one another. Even love in the family is gone cold.

[brightphoebesays]

I sometimes think adults are not meant to maintain a relationship with their parents after they become independent.