INFJ / Advocate personality explained in 3 minutes

INFJ personalities are an interesting mix of traits. While INFJs are idealistic, they also have an equally strong instinct to act, to work toward a more egalitarian future. They are often mistakenly regarded as extroverts by their family and friends who rely upon them for sympathy and advice. INFJs have a vivid inner life and sometimes act different personas in different situations. Know more about INFJ traits, strengths, and interpersonal relations.

[jayc]

Question for INFJ’s: Do you often find you procrastinate projects until the last minute? You always meet your deadlines, but you often spend a long time thinking about it before actually starting the project. Often the day or night before it’s due, you sit down and crank out a project that takes most people days, weeks, or even months in just a few hours. It’s almost like you did your project in your head, then it just takes you a few hours or a day to bring it into the real world. Can anyone else relate?

[alexmathewmendoza]

I've taken the test multiple times and I've come up INFJ every single time. People often open up to me and I can read them like a book. I'm usually very quiet yet my brain is constantly buzzing with thought.

[kojikkooo]

Does anyone feel proud that they’re an advocate, but awkward because they don’t believe they actually are the rarest personality? Or acting different to live up to that :/

[kathleenhargest]

As an INFJ I wish there were more INFJs out there in the world. I hate the fact this personality type is "rare/special" because it makes me feel more alone :(

[pizza]

Just taken the test and mine is INFJ-T. I'm quite surprise when I get to know it's the rarest personality in the world.

[robostripez]

Its wild how accurate this is
INFJ-T Squad where ya at?

[SUPESGXMG]

Hey fellow INFJ’s. Just learned why it’s so hard making friends these days 😭

[PureWater-wc]

It's not wearing a mask, I just like to relate to others on their level. I have a genuine interest in other's welfare. ❤

[Evelinaa]

1:55 holy shit that is so me. I change so much around people, but I never do it to manipulate or anything, I do it for my own comfort and because I seem to be able to adapt with people I like. I always thought I was crazy but maybe am not..
I do feel rather alone knowing I am INFJ:/

[AshitaNoKanousei]

I just did the test and everything says we are the rarest. Like, that makes me kind of proud, but then I feel like if I claim it, then I'm bragging about being special. But then again, it's not like being different has to be a "good" thing, so maybe I can tell people I'm weird instead of special. Anyone else feel this way?

[tanei]

I wish I didn't found out that I am an INFJ. Because now that I know I feel like I'm just going to fake it to maintain it. Knowing my traits now is not good because I became aware. I don't think I am not doing it naturally.

[PascalineKelechi]

I'm an INFJ and whatever you think you know about me is basically what I want you to know.

[sirlancealittles]

I am a Clinical Psychologist with 30 years of experience dealing with people. I was branded a INFJ quite sometime ago. I never really accepted that evaluation because placing 'labels' on people puts them into a box. It limits their potentiality and personal growth. At worse, it can destroy a individual's self determination and freedom. I have never encountered a 'classical' INFJ before. Why? Because certain characteristics of this personality type have many subgroups some of which overlap other MBTI personality types. That being said I will describe the characteristics of how a 'orthodox' INFJ thinks, behaves and responds in strict accordance with the MBTI Personalty Test. Be forewarned, I find some INFJ 'stereotypes' rather funny. And will approach such in a humorous fashion. INFJ's posess a wonderfully unique sense irony and will immediately recognize the silly 'stereotypes' others have attrubuted to lts break some myths about INFJ Personalty Types.

When a INFJ gives you the dreaded 'Death Stair' they are not sttempting to understand you. They are wondering if you're carrying a gun. Killing INFJ's is a pleasurable experience. Why? Because everyone hates a smart ass.

INFJ's frequently experience 'Sensory Overload' issues. They love Forests, Parks and Woodland areas to recharge their batteries. Why? Because trees don't talk! A squirrel cannot complain it has 'Daddy Issues'. Pine trees do not suffer from 'gender identity' problems. And I have never seen a bunny rabbit strung out Crack Cocaine. Solitude is bliss.

Never say to a INFJ, 'I do not understad', They will run away screaming or jump infront of a bus. No one understands them. INFJ's sometimes don't even understand themselves.

Why do a INFJ 'Door Slam' people? Because it's called a Coping Mechanism. They dislike being emotionally hurt. There is nothing strangebecome acholics others pill poppers. INFJ's will just run away and per you never existed. It never works.

INFJ's have the psychic ability to absorb people's emotions. No. This is phenomen is called 'Transference'. If you continuously talk about your problems, a INFJ will unconsciously adopt some aspects of your emotional state. However, INFJ's posess strong identities which prevents them from going completely insane.

INFJ's are the most honest, compassionate and sensative people on Earth. Not really. Mother Nature just screwed them up genetically. They're brains are hard wired to respond during crisis situations. A 'diehard' INFJ will instinctively sacrifice their life attempting to save yours. No questions asked. Why? I have no freaking idea. I didn't invent the rules. Ask God. I'm sure She knows.

INFJ's think differently than others. Yes. They think outside the box. They live outside the box. They have never actually seen the box. What does it look like? Does it contain groceries?

INFJ types are occasionally arrogant, cold towards others and aloof. This is actually true. Being omnipotent has its drawbacks. INFJ's have a difficult time sugar-coating the truth. Being overtly honest is their trademark. However, if they sense someone cannot handle the truth, they lie to protect that person's feelings.

INFJ's are stubborn yet will openly admit to errors in judgment and making mistakes.

INFJ's think too deeply. They want to solve everyone's problems. They get frustrated when people ask for advice, then completely ignore their recommendations. They do not understand why everyone keeps making the same mistakes over and over again. Eventually, a INFJ will simply give up. The phrase 'People need to learn the hard way' was invented by a INFJ. So was the 'unfriendl' button on Facebook.

INFJ's do not respect authority because they have developed their own Moral, Ethical, Spiritual and Cognative belief systems. Mature (older) INFJ's care very little about how people perceive them and less about the impressions they make upon others. INFJ's enjoy approval and acceptance (like everyone else) but infrequently compromise their princepals to simply fit in.

Do not mistake a INJ's confidence as egocentrism. There is a difference.

INFJ hate themselves. They feel alone within the world and misunderstood. Being a INFJ a curse. Consequently, a small minority INFJ's often experience psychological Depression, Alienation issues and Avoident Behavior problems. The phrase 'You are your own worst enemy' accurately describes a INFJ's perception of themselves.

The most admirable personality traits of the INFJ are (1) INFJ's care more about other people than themselves which makes them a easy targets for emotional exploitation and abuse. Never play 'Guilt Games' with a INFJ. They already persecute themselves (subconsciously) for being different. They don't have the ability to forgive themselves for past mistakes, A INFJ's unforgiving 'Guilt Complex' is an integral part of their personality. INFJ's have occasionally been known to slowly kill themselves over time, believing they deserve such suffering. 'Hell on Earth' is their punishment and they willing accept it....sometimes. Not always. (2) Once you secure the trust of a INFJ, everything about them suddenly becomes clear. The stereotypes vanish. They are people you want within your life. They have incredible insight into human nature and will identify your weaknesses and lift you up from darkness. Seeing the world through a INFJ eyes is the greatest gift they can offer.

It would be impossible to understand a MBTI typology without stating the negative traits of a specific personality group.

The 'Dark Side' of a INFJ is rather frightening. Never test their 'Authenticity' or personal dignity. Do not play games with a INFJ. They have limitations like everyone else. A INFJ can determine your intentions or plans within minutes. Literally. This Hyperobservient behavior is quite unique. Avoid getting into heated arguments with a INFJ unless you are prepared to be intellectually, emotionally or psychologically castrated. They have cognitive resources almost beyond understanding. A vindictive INFJ will never stop until they destroy your life (this has nothing to do with physical murder). Such behavior is almost Psychopathic in nature (hence the concern INFJ's may be catorgized as possessing a Psychological disorder rather than a Personality dysfunction). INFJ's are not prone violent behavior. The good news is they give up easily, This is where the Door Slam or simply walking away from a argument comes from.

If a INFJ loves you, be prepared for lengthy romantic rituals. Box's of candy, flowers, poems, lovely e-cards, teddy bears and such. But be careful. A INFJ understands how to manipulate situations to their advantage. Including the human heart. Once they reveal their true inner nature however, you will begin to understand why only 2% of the world's population are INFJ's. They are just so dam charming.

INFJ's dislike small talk, idle conversations, superficial people and hypocrites. Life is too short talking to such individuals (but they understand its occasionally necessary to be socially accepted)

INFJ's are not spontaneous. They just pretend to be spontaneous. Their minds are always attempting to 'connect the dots' even when there are no dots.

Avoid getting into deep conversations with a INFJ. They are walking encyclopedias. They will jump from topic to topic then back again to support a idea or theory. Male INFJ's are 'scattered brained' in the worst way possible. But there is method to such madness. The are searching for the correct answer to a specific problem. And 95% of the time they will discover it... or have a complete nervous breakdown trying.

Occasionally, you will notice them acting rather mysterious, doing unusual things or just behaving weird. Get used to this behavior. It has absolutely nothing to do with you. The INFJ is just going through a 'stage' or experimenting with something that interests them. Like building a Thermonuclear Bomb or discovering a cure for Herpes.

Never tell a INFJ they possess a 'Old Soul'. They are terrified of being reincarnated again. INFJ's are aware that neither Heaven or Hell wants them. Why? Because God doesn't want the extra competition or deciding who should run the Universe (Him or a INFJ) and Satan can't deal with a INFJ pestering him for all eternity. That would be considered cruel and unusual punishment.

Aliens will never abduct a INFJ. There are some things too bizarre even for Extraterrestrials.

So next time you accidentally encounter a INFJ, break all COVID 'Social Distancing' issues and hug them. They are a endangered species. Literally. Whatever purpose they were created for has already been accomplished. I like to think they represent the noblest form of humanity. A personality type which everyone aspires to immulate....Intelligent, Wise, Caring, Altruistic and Protective.

[cherylp.]

I’m in my fifties and I’m only just discovering who I am and why I do the things I do. I’ve learned I’m an INFJ, that explains a lot. Even as a child I sought out the lonely, the needy, the misfits for friends, to uplift them and support them. I had a very compassionate heart and lots of empathy for others. I didn’t want to associate with the popular, attention seeking.

[ewcho]

It seems like I switch between INFJ and INTJ depending on the person. I do care about peoples feelings, but sometimes logic makes more sense

[naakhoondesigns]

I always wondered if the INFJs were diagnosed with inattentive ADD because we are quiet but our minds are constantly observing our surroundings.

[strivefortomorrow]

I feel like many of you regret being this personality type. Please know that (for the most part) people with this personality type are normally people that others look up to. You’re not alone and you most definitely should take pride in all of the positives. I’m an INFJ-A, so naturally, I care about others. But, you don’t always have to suit their needs. You’re still a human being and you need time to just be yourself.

[amarsbarr]

My twin brother got me to take this test and I wasn't surprised to get this advocate personality. I always told him I can read through someone in a second and can spot whether someone is genuine. I feel very lonely and alone but I'm happy because I have such deep thought :) all I want is people who are also genuine

[hieuhughesle-au]

Me INFJ :oh! i want to volunteer, help out at this event, and talk with people are feeling down
Family: thats great!
also family: You're too nice, stop and focus on yourself
Me: ok I suppose * hermit mode*

My brain: I hate having to pick between pleasing people around me and potentially find a future in it versus please family
Also my brain: let's go down a rabbit hole about how obstacles are preventing you achieving your goals when it might actually be yourself

[chrismasalaseg]

I am INTJ and my girlfriend is INFJ and it's amazing to have a loving person like that specially when you are super socially awkward.