11 Factors That Explain Why INFJs Make Fewer Friends

[lIII]

We notice when other people judge us in a negative way, even without them saying so, and we avoid them. 🧐

[ShibaMomma]

Alone but not lonely. INFJ to the core

[jonesy]

We see EVERYTHING. People really resent that. And that is precisely why no one likes us.

[VioletRayZ]

I hate being lonely and alone. But when i see the cruel surrounding, then oh~ how nice it is to not be absorbed in them

[herbiecashmere]

At first people thought I was thinking too much. My reading and intuition abilities skyrocketed over the rooftops, I pick up on energies and the people I discovered that are fake / bullies at early stages, my friends find out a year later. They started asking me how I pick up on these cues so early! INFJS have a reading gift, a blessing and a curse to find out real people in minimal interactions!

[VishnuTeja]

I’m an INFJ and I feel like a lone wolf the fact is lone wolf dies and pack survives. It’s a curse and blessing at the same time to be an INFJ, it’s so stressful because when you know the whole game but you cannot play, stressful.

[draquela]

I don't like a fake environment. I require authenticity and I love peace and quiet. Yes I've been accused of being too intense! I love real conversations, deep conversations. I'm not here on this planet to talk about paint drying.

[SpaceJelly]

I am an INFJ and I have only met one other (that I know of) and oddly enough, I couldn't stand them! I felt like every single thing I did was being studied and analyzed, he gave me a lot of advice I did not ask for, and he was bewildering honest to the point where it made me uncomfortable. Then I finally realized why I don't have many friends, I do the same thing lol

[moonchild]

I am in the 2% yay.. I love being infj.. No friends no problem.. Better alone than be in a drama soup..

[djkzrocksta]

As an INFJ this is absolutely true, and nice to know there is a reason why I don't have many friends and that I can strangely read people extremely well....

[yashivuvbolshomdomenakholm]

I do need my solitude. I've been treated my whole life like that was wrong, but it's not. People who are very talkative are very draining. So leave us be. It'll make for a better day

[Clevelandsteamer]

They can feel the emotions and intentions of everyone around us. It’s a survival adaptation and is exhausting to be in crowds.

[blessedly]

I'm a 30 year old INFJ and while I used to once every 6 months feel the need to socialise over the past year or two that too has completely vanished and I have no need for being around people EVER! I find this to be a massive win and a soul level evolvement. We see things about others that they aren't even aware of!

[christianp]

Can we please start an INFJ networking kinda thing, sorta like MENSA? But…none of us would show up 😂🙃

[Guardiangameing]

I found out I’m a infj a few days ago. It’s just makes so much sense now

[inquisitive.]

It feels good to see an INFJ community in this comment section. Finally we are getting our similar types and got to share what always goes inside our minds..❣️

[deseareal.]

As an INFJ, I always create a personality to make that person comfortable. I don't even know myself

[salharajab]

I will sending this video to anyone asking me why I don't go out or around people like do you see what kind of society we live in, no thank you love my house and alone time

[zoraidita]

🎯 I'm a private person. When I let you into my world it's because I have allowed it; if they don't want to get to know me it'll be your loss. INFJ Doorslam I wouldn't wish it on anyone not even myself.

[leanshotsauce]

We hate snakes. And by snakes, we mean people with forked tongues, those who say and act differently when they’re in front and behind our back. The irony of it is, I love the animal snakes. 😂