WHY THE NARCISSIST WON’T GIVE YOU CLOSURE

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[JohnSmith-wons]

Its a whirlwind of craziness. Overwhelming bewildering sick cruelty.

[cindyg]

To all the ones who are just getting out of the relationship, you will not be able to heal and move on until you completely block them out of your life. NO CONTACT! They do not care about you. I know it's heard to believe. DO NOT GO BACK!

[vickymoore]

A narcissist will not give you closure because he wants to keep it open . And what is he going to say? I’m sorry for ruining your life while we were together ? You’ve been replaced .. they were discarding us from the day we met them . And then there was that final cruel discard . But even after that they want to be friends ! HA in time I will be fine, in time they are not . They are good at hiding and lying, my closure was how he treated me not what he might want to say to me . Namaste to Andrew and the tribe 🙏

[PartnerWithAngela]

The closure for me is in educating myself and understanding the narcissist character and letting go of the past.

[td]

No closure from the narc is either because they don't care to give it to you and or they want you to have them in your mind and or because they like to leave things open incase they want to come back.

[Pets-n-Treats]

Why would anyone want closure, just want them to go away.

[tootienottoofruitie]

I don't want anything from the narc including closure.... I close it myself ‼️💖

[staciehulm]

The narcissist creates a dream (shared fantasy) because life is painful for them and a dream is easier to control than reality. They can't give you closure because this would require accountability, which would betray the fantasy. They are emotionally crippled and not strong enough to survive for sustained periods of time in reality. They can't admit culpability because their ego is too fragile to survive it. When you're dealing with a narcissist, you're dealing with someone with severe mental, emotional and spiritual illness.

[Lovely-kurn]

You described my soon to be ex husband of 8 years to a TEE! I had to remind myself, "He is NOT normal." They do not have the same logic as we do. This is how I'm healing. Can't reason with them because they are incapable of feeling for anyone else BUT themselves.... hope you're all healing. Thank you for this video. Blessings 🙏🏼💛💫

[margiestaff]

Ugh! This happened a week ago! Sucker punch (not literally)! No explanation, no nothing. As he stated it’s been great but all good things come to an end! After20 years that’s all you say? Good grief! Just getting out of the shock! I’ve learned so much within the week about narcissists. I’ll continue to educate myself.
Lies, lies, lies, future fake, lies about loving me. And so forth and so forth. And he did run away. To another state. The cowardly lion has more courage then that narc ever will. Thank you for this platform.

[janetc]

I made the mistake of asking for closure. After 3 years, I was told "I was more interested in the chase". It was in this moment I knew I was dealing with a narc.

[coffeegirl]

I did not want any closure from these abusers. I just had to walk away. That was my closure. It sucked because enablers we're lied to. I will not spend my last few years of my life to knock myself out for those who should have known better. They are on their own to figure it out. I put those puzzle pieces together. Enough to satisfy me.
Thanks Andrew. ♥️🐎

[wonderlady]

It’s stalking if someone will not leave you alone when you have told them too. It’s also in their best interest to leave you alone. You have every right to defend yourself.

[joyb]

The Narcissist I was with just started to give me the cold treatment, silence treatment and saying things like hit me tomorrow when I was calling him to talk. He didn’t want to give the closure . I was crying and asking many times why he was acting like this. He wanted just to keep me around the house in case he needed... I was the one who said it is done after years with him behaving like this.

[dollpartzu]

Hello, I’ve been going through this for 5 years. He’s turned everything on me blaming me. Sometimes I forget why I’m where I’m at. My husband accuses me of doing things I didn’t do. I realized how toxic he is and how unfortunate for me to fall into it. I’m thankful that I finally saw the truth. I can’t change the past, but I’m trying to heal. I can change my perspective and get out! Please pray for me.

[rdbeckett]

Thank you 🙏 no closure here !!! Wrote them a nasty email and got closure for myself—- it’s been 2 years no contact ——I am the most lovable person in the world and there is no love in a narc — Pyschopath !!! No remorse no self insight. Bully and coward is so true —- disgusting soul less demon. ❤️✌🏻 arch angel Michael shown up in 2010 I met the narc in 2011…..and spirit showed me through my third eye exactly all the disgusting dirty deeds they live by —- no morals! Love and blessings Andrew!!

[angelacahill]

There is no closure Andrew. They don't want to be accountable for anything! When it ends, it's like a total wipeout. They certainly cause destruction and leave you in despair afterwards, not understanding what's happen? During the relationship, I couldn't get a "sorry", let alone anything else? I know deep down there is no closure! You'll only find answers when you look within. We have to go through the pain to find understanding. Your videos are so helpful and I appreciate all that you do for us here. I hope one day to leave this pain behind me and feel ok again.. At the moment it's raw. I will keep educating myself and thank you everyone for all your comments. God bless us all. 🙏💜🌷💪

[ekaterinabalderdash]

The best closure I got was talking to his ex two women before me. She was able to confirm that he was the same abusive narcissist hobosexual then that he is now. She described life with him on a day to day basis and it was much worse than I’d even imagined. I am so grateful that I never lived with him!

[HellasGD]

Even when he ran off and re married I had no clue he was a narc, nearly 8 yrs ago. truly sick.

[ameliaruehlen]

I've said it before and I'll say it again...when my ex narc discarded me he literally said, "I don't owe you closure." Who says that?? People who are NOT normal. I fought with this idea of closure for months and have recently decided I'll find it for myself. And I am. It's a process but I'm getting there. I once listened to a podcast where the speaker talked about what we do when we can't get closure. In a nutshell, the speaker said one should (embrace) the pain/must live in it BUT also move forward in life. The key is not to get STUCK in it. I'm not doing the podcast justice here.