A #Narcissist Explains: Why a #narcissist intentionally triggers you. Not reacting is the best thing

Why a #narcissist intentionally triggers you. Not reacting is the best thing to fight against a narcissist. Not reacting gives you the power.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[debimall]

“Your reaction is your power.” and “No reaction is the best reaction” 🙌🔥 awesome

[rustygriswold]

It's funny how a narcissist say we get mad easily, but they can't take the smallest amount of criticism.

[sweetgirl]

When you love urself enough ... that's what narcs fear

[simjam]

It's to test how much they can get away with too.. and when you finally react, you get blamed for being jealous, insecure etc.

[Keepbe]

It’s crazy seeing a video on a narcissist who is self aware. I didn’t think that was possible 😳

[ChannelZero]

"If i can trigger you, i can control you." Facts.

[freepirit]

That behaviour is sadistic. I used to see the pleasure in his eyes when he would hurt me. That is the literal definition of a sadist.

[milachyc]

I must be a real good person because I never felt the need to control anyone’s emotions and get satisfaction out of it.

[Godisgreat-]

When the person stops reacting to the narcissist and moves on, the narcissist will actually start speaking complete lies about the person to other people. They then control how others see the former abused person.

[onlyluvisreal]

Every time I resist responding to a hoover, I get stronger.

[mysteriouschaos]

That smirk is the biggest clue! If you EVER see it while you're being emotional, you're definitely dealing with a narc. Actually had a supervisor smirk like that every time I came to her with a complaint.

[sleeperno]

Learned something that deep down I should have known. Any reaction is fuel. But the lack of reaction is painful to the narcissist. They do not process pain like we do. Attention is their drug. Attention and reaction are the only two things we have power over. When we refuse to react, they are the ones who have to be alone with their thoughts. They do not have drama to divert their attention.

[Symbolsysteme]

I think the best way to deal with people who try to control you is to be unapologetically authentic. People who try to control you, only get a kick out of your emotional reactions, if you somehow feel ashamed about your emotional reactions. If you are just authentic and you don't care what other people think, they have nothing to control. They only feel in control, if you are trying to control yourself. Just be unapologetically real...*)!

[kiaburnett]

This most definitely works. No reaction tells a narcissist you don’t care about them and they really don’t matter

[imapandaperson]

Also it is weirdly healing to see someone with NPD being honest for once

[simonswamy]

A narc also spoils the holidays and festivals just to get the attention back on them !

[wiscogirl]

When I finally realized what was happening to me at the hands of my ex husband and learned how to use his tactics against him it became fun for me to watch him internally implode when I refused to allow him to trigger me! It was hard, really hard but when I refused to engage his bullshit and give zero reaction it drove him crazy, and during that time I filed for divorce. I've been happily divorced now for almost 9 years!

[traceykibble]

Intentional triggering is the cruelest thing to do to someone, absolutely barbaric. I was taken down so badly at times. But I've moved on, healed and understand that narcissists have arrested emotional development and less emotional connection to others than the average family pet. Its a sad fact that I have had to accepted but i am delighted to have kept the dog. 😁

[alyjiyu]

After thanking him for making me tough as nails, I kissed goodbye the narcissist boyfriend... after 10 yrs of walking on eggshells. Since no human being is up to his standards, he deserves himself.

[kiwiidelight]

My narc literally told me, " your to strong for me, you wont let me get over on you, you hold me accountable, & that bothers me"😳