The BEST Relationship Advice (Get Them Addicted to YOU)

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Hey there, I’m Clark Kegley, a pro drummer turned self-improvement advocate. Here on YouTube, I provide guidance to help you transform into your 2.0 version.

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[cristiplopeanu]

#1 Advice: Get Clarity on:

- the "dream" relationship you want - how can you define it both a) vaguely and b) as specific as possible.
- the skills you need to get and keep that relationship for a long time
- the mindset you have right now that is blocking you to have your "dream" relationship
- the new mindset you need to get to in order to have your "dream" relationship
- the best candidates for your "dream" relationship.

Few people have learned how to do this analysis from the environment, but most of people need to put in a little bit of work in order to get to where they want in life. It's not hard once you've acknowledged that it won't happen with your current plan and you need a new plan.

Good luck to all of you!

[F-mc]

I met my husband 12 years ago and he’s the best husband and dad. I can’t imagine what people go through nowadays trying to date. There’s so many crazy people now

[mustbecome]

One of the BIGGEST superpowers you can have if you are looking to achieve big things in life, is to have a partner who will not settle for you being anything other than your best self.

[jonpeaden]

I'm always seeing different videos about how to better improve oneself from past relationships. But NEVER about people who have NEVER been in a relationship, .and not from a lack of trying

[omarthecostar]

This is why I like Clark's channel. He gives us lessons that took people a lifetime to learn in a easy to understand quick format. This video spoke directly to my soul. Lots of things in life have no guide and information like this helps us learn the mistakes others made and learn from them as well. I learned a lot from this. Thanks Clark.

[nova]

That marble analogy was so me. I held on to some marbles that prevented me from investing all the way in and eventually the relationship ended and i regretted it ever since

[russianindetails]

Each period of my life when I wasn't dating anyone was the best! Full of tranquility, productivity and self-growing.

[MarkGibson-lkqt]

Good communication is a key part of any relationship. When both people know what they want from the relationship and feel comfortable expressing their needs ...

[guardian]

I knew these things but when put together with the quote from Rumi it resonated with me and clicked. Thank you for the video.

[fellowseb]

Advice #2 hits hard. I need to drop the story. Thanks for that reminder 👍

[TheMikimel]

Im hurt after breakup and Im past the stages of crying about my ex. I know stories I made up, the future I planned with that girl are over and it hurt me to the bones. But I realised that pain that comes from it is sign that I gave my 100 into that relationship, that I put my everything because I though she was worth putting all in.
Lets see what future holds ❤

[thecaliant]

100% truth! I agree with all 3 advices, you can’t commit 1/2 ass and expect the other side to give 100%, you have to let go of the fantasy in your head about that person who might come back to your life, it’s just in your head and most importantly, become the person you want to attract, be the change you want to see

[maimaivaj]

Oh my gosh! I'm glad to see this. This is the conversation I've been having with my friends and with my boyfriend. Being fully committed, transparent and learning to set aside fears has been life changing to my happiness pertaining to my relationship. ❤ this! Thank you.

[ReneeDawn-fg]

I need a serious relationship with right person someone I could trust and love❤❤❤❤

[skateturd]

Heal yourself first is what I'm working now. Going thru some really rough stuff with my sons mom. Letting go of the story is hard. Being alone for the first time in almost ten years. Trying to find myself again, forgive myself, forgive her and be a good dad that can teach my son from mistakes that I've made.

[spelabavdaz]

From the person who is in a new relationship after a horrid break-up some time ago, thank you very, very much for that!!! <3

[benjaminkober]

i rather never get into a relationship ever in my life to not be disappointed by myself

[DilCardyn]

This video about dating for 10 years to learn three valuable lessons on relationships resonated deeply with me. It's incredible how life's experiences can be our greatest teachers, and the speaker's wisdom is truly inspiring. As someone who has also been on a journey of self-discovery through relationships, I can relate to the importance of patience and learning from the ups and downs. Sometimes, we might feel discouraged by past failures or heartbreaks, but this video reminds us that every experience contributes to our growth and understanding of what truly matters in a relationship.

[shivinchauhan]

Thank you so much man❤! Been trying to deal with Bad breakup from 2021, dated almost a decade and i never related as much to a video. It all makes sense and I really hope to drop this story of my life. Amazing 📷🎉

[CreativeLegend]

NGL, that story about Bill really got to me. I think it's because I can see myself in him, holding on to a fantasy in my head. Part of me thinks that I will never find someone better, so that fuels the fantasy. I pity Bill, but I don't want to end up like him.