Relationship Advice for Men

How to get HER in the MOOD (funny)
#marriageadvice #relationshipproblems #conflictresolution

[jeb]

What you said is absolutely true. My wife subscribed to your channel on here in hopes that I would just scroll onto one of your videos. I never saw the first one that would have caught my attention enough to actually watch it. She finally sent me one of your tik toks and I watched it. It was really eye-opening to me, and I realized I've not been a very good husband. When you said, in that particular video, that what women hear when you ask them what they want you to do is actually a confession of not listening in the first place. I haven't been listening to her needs and wants nearly as closely as I should have been. So I just want to say, as a man, thank you for making these videos.

[benjidoerr]

Shocks me that other men dont seek out resources like this. My relationship is so important to me; I will do anything to make sure it is healthy

[aliciar]

'commitment doesn't equal love' 👏

[log]

Husband here.

You have helped me shift my perspective in my entire life.

I have enjoyed your content since the first video showed up on my feed a month ago.

You have given me so many healthy options on how to engage with myself and engage with my family.

Thank you!

[remyc]

The rough part is someone can watch this entire video or all of these videos, but if they're not ready to listen, it won't matter. People have to be open to change, health, and growth.

[TheWolvirine]

As a 26 year old dude watching and recently found your videos. You hit these right on the head. I can’t tell you how many older men tell me don’t get married or don’t have kids.

I still have hope and look forward to having a family of my own one day and I just want to be a good partner. Keep doing what you’re doing! Makes me think about how I communicate a lot more.

[tymwillpass]

I never thought I’d be in…another divorce. I begged him to spend time with me the first years we were married. He insisted he needed to work. So I accepted this. This is just the way it’s going to be right? I was wondering why my depression kept getting worse. I should be happy my husband was “committed”and we had enough money, a house, no debt. Why did I hate myself and feel trapped and want to end it?There was no deep connection or validation. Im giving all that financial security up. I moved out to work on my mental health. When I told him I couldn’t move back there he served me the papers the next week. Jimmy knows what he’s talking about.

[sciameezy]

Seeing all the comments here from men and husbands looking to improve the quality of their relationships makes me so happy. I hope that their efforts pan out and their relationships grow deeper and more fulfilling on both sides.

[williamhenderson]

Emotionally ignorant and childish, narcissistic, overbearing… all things I’ve been called… I lose my temper. I’ve broken things. I tell myself I’m not afraid to cry but have recently been turned onto the fact that, for men, anger replaces crying a lot of the time. I blame lots of things for it… being raised by a narcissist, being an outcast in high school (more because of my toxic mindset, I’m sure, than being a nerd), my military service… but I’m 36 years old and I’m tired of my marriage being in the Grand Canyon when I want it to be on a beach in Maui… I’m an adult, high school was almost 20 years ago, the military was 13 years ago… it’s me… I’m the problem. I think the good Lord put you in my path. Maybe your content will help me where the drugs and ‘therapy’ the VA throws at me haven’t.

[fbeshir]

I'm a man. I watch and I hate to admit but I agree with what you say.

[mylittletoaster]

I'm an unmarried man. I watch your videos to better equipt myself for when my partner and I make the move for cohabitation.

You're doing a very good job. The algorithm isn't very effective, men do see these videos. It's exactly as you say though, only the people willing to self reflect and take initiative to improve will watch it through.

I for one have learnt from you that I do have some of these negative traits and have comitted to asking myself "why?" to better understand my issues and resolve them, before they are inadvertently imposed on my partner daily.

For anyone watching these videos regardless of gender please know that this man is NOT trying to make anyone a villian in your personal relationships. If you find yourself feeling vilified and/or villianizing your partner after watching, YOU are a big part of the issue.

Love isn't about changing your partner, or simply being around them. It's about growing with them. Both of you are gonna mess up, argue sometimes and have bad days. A healthy relationship will see you both acknowledge your flaws and work on them together with support and compassion. It isn't you vs your spouse, it never should be. That is ultimately what this gentleman is trying to teach you.

[KTKaute]

People don't like self reflection. Some will go their entire lives without self reflection

[gspprez]

I just told my wife today that I’ve been watching a lot of your videos. The emotional load videos hit especially hard, and it’s so true. Thank you, and I’m working on it.

[AR-cohj]

We never used to fight because I just held everything inside. Until I started listening to a therapist podcast talking about self worth and boundaries. I realized I was catering to his needs but not my own. Now I speak up and call out my hurt feelings and unfairness in our relationship. He's not taking it well and uses his psychological issues and medications as an explanation for everything.

[puyopuyogooey]

Me, single as frick with no marriage in sight but still listening to this man’s advice with bated breath: interesting, interesting

[grigql]

I'm a woman and I just started watching your videos. I'm a nursing student, which keeps me busy and stressed. One of your videos helped me see that I was being distant and not very appreciative. Thank you for reminding me this about men and women: we are all human and make mistakes, most of us want to heal, be appreciated and respected. We all have life history and have listened to some wrong advice from time to time, worrying more about labeling people, etc, but we all have the capacity to heal if we take the steps. We shouldn't tear each other down, we should recognize each other's efforts and be supportive of having a healthy relationship.

[stephanieross]

“It’s not an information problem” 😮 SPEAK! It’s not a resource problem either cuz they got free programs galore… thank you for validating so many of my experiences. I’m understanding better what I deserve, and gaining acceptance over my partner’s limitations. I’m not as angry bc it just is what it is - it hurts, but I can’t let it overtake my life.

[Axiom_Link]

I seem to be one of the only guys who is saying “why isn’t this showing up on HER page?” 😅 love your videos, Jimmy!

[NotTooStraight]

Yea as a young guy I’m glad my content is filled with videos like this. I don’t really need these videos as I go to therapy and don’t really struggle opening up and communicating my feelings, but my motto is to never stop growing as a person. Complacency is all around us and it’s honestly toxic

[bruhmoment]

You make me have hope for men. Most of the men I talk to, especially my coworkers, always roll their eyes when I say men and women aren't so different. They say that they're just too "simple" and only want "the basics" and that women only complicate and overanalyze things, but you and your emotionally intelligent videos show me that men can have the same emotional depth as women. We really aren't that different. We both just need to try.