Jay Shetty's Best Relationship Advice Ever

[ndlsumr]

"Remember - when you're fighting the real fight is both of you against the problem, not both of you against each other." Brilliant.

[robertowilliams]

Most relationships fail not because of the other person’s actions but because we don’t know ourselves well enough to communicate our needs & boundaries.

[ATrueLoveOfficial]

This is really on point. Communication is really important in a relationship, especially when you are fighting. You should not let anger to control you. Try to speak up and talk about how you feel in order to resolve things before it’s too late.

[suraya]

So beautifully said “when you have value and when you serve others there’s a value exchange”👌🏼💯✌🏼❤️

[tconte]

All too often people are so afraid of truly connecting with another because of the fear of losing themselves and becoming vulnerable. If one is not willing to take a true leap of faith, what life could there really be?

This is so powerful. Thank you for this.

[Ashishverma-vnnt]

The problem with our generation not wanting relationship!! Really this line touched my heart.

[Muse_XoXo_]

#3 spoke to me "It's us against the problem not us against each other"

[Gabhrienne]

Saved the video so I could go back to this and realign my focus on my relationship whenever I need it. Thank you for all you do, Jay!

[Pragattik]

Jay as I often mention in my comments that you are simply incredible, as every time I see your videos or listen to podcast I get to learn so much more from it and people that you involve in this process of sharing and caring through education . I realise that I need to learn so much more and no nothing . Trust me I am genuinely inspired for that transformational change for myself and I believe I am already on it and can feel the discomfort, seems challenging and won’t stop or give up 🙏

[jmhdeshiyahoo]

Thanks Jay Shetty,
Emaphty and Fact, I have fought with people, never realized that or stopped to THINK that the problem was the ISSUE, and not the people, just get so caught up in the vortex of making the point, then I lost or lose focus and the blaming game just kicks in along with all the rest!
I have learned from this: To respect, and cherish our friend and friends!
The Fight or problem IS NEVER A FIGHT AGANIST EACH OTHER, THE FIGHT IS AN ISSUE AND THE PROBLEM, NOT THE PEOPLE YOUR AROUND THAT BUG YOU! SOLVE THE BUG, AND ENJOY THE FRIEND AND YOUR PEOPLE! RIGHT?
JMHDESHI
N.HOLLAND NETHERLANDS

[christophervictoria]

I love you jay, your words always touch my soul

[ashishbisht]

You are the best teacher anyone can have...

[mustafajawad]

Just remember when you fighting is both of you against the problem not against each other 👍 well done

[anewloveofficial]

I love the 3rd one, which makes me think that I should never let myself kill my happiness into sadness and let my ego grow. I just notice that every time I watch your video it always makes me sad and realizes things in so many ways.

[janhavimhatre]

tell us how to deal with insecurities coz often we loose the person in the fear of loosing them...even when they are so good to us

[zaitonmohammed]

Thanks jay. I learnt more from your advice and my english is not good but i get more things from your speak

[janerussell]

You are truly amazing .. I sometimes feel anxious when I see your videos, afraid I will feel scared because I am not doing things properly, but I always feel better after your videos . 🙌🏼❤️

[FeelGoodWithin]

So true 👌 It's not someone else job to make you Happy 😊 😝 It's ur job to make ur self Happy & if you are Happy don't let someone suck ur Happiness 😝 😍

[janawaleed]

Last week I ran my first 5k without stopping and all the time I could hear the voice in my head saying that I can do it. Forwago, thank you so much for everything!!

[chineduemmanuel]

Jay Shatty I so much appreciate your words of encouragements it is always inspiring.