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What are the true signs that your marriage is over? What are the signs that your marriage is not worth fighting for? Welcome to HAPPILY COMMITTED

My name is Coach Adrian and I've dedicated my life helping people find happiness in their relationships. For a long time I helped people recover after break-up, separation, and divorces and now I'm focusing more on helping people create the relationship they want and to truly thrive in their relationship in order to avoid a breakup or a separation because I know how devastating it can be for both parties. And unfortunately sometimes a marriage is coming to an end. And I wanted to discuss the true signs that this is the end so that you know where you stand and you're not fighting in vain for a relationship that is quite frankly not worth fighting for.

The first sign that your marriage is over is when your partner is unable to stop putting their needs at your expense, even after you've communicated and try to rebuild a healthier marriage and connection in the relationship, if their happiness constantly comes at your expense and you are feeling worse, you're feeling overwhelmed, and quite frankly only one person is existing in that relationship, the marriage is coming to an end. Ultimately a relationship or marriage will be unbalanced if only one person is happy and that happiness comes and the others person's expense. So if you can relate to this it is probably a clear true sign that your marriage is over.

The second sign that a marriage is over is when you can't seem to find a way to get out of the blame mode or the blame game and it's quite common for people to argue to fight to bicker and to criticize in any relationship because we have a tendency of getting frustrated and it's a lot easier to blame someone else than to take accountability for our actions. But when after years and years, weeks after week, day after day, you are criticizing and blaming the other person's for your happiness and you are re-litigating past fights and living in the past it is a sign that your marriage is over.

The third sign that I've seen that indicated to me as a coach that my clients marriage was over is when one or the other party cannot seem to find any goodness in the other. And it's sad but I've seen this. I see this quite a lot towards the end of relationships or marriages where people are so consumed by their resentment their anger and they start to despise their significant other and they cannot even see one quality trait or attribute. And that unfortunately is very sad because clearly even though you may not be at a point where you can connect with each other, your partner has good qualities. They must. Because you fell for in love with them and because all human beings have a tendency to have good qualities. Unless of course you're in a toxic relationship or you're married to a sociopath. So if you cannot see any good in the man or the woman that you're with that is a clear sign that your marriage is over.

Another sign that your marriage is over is when your partner seeks to cut you off from your friends and your family, from the things that you love to do. And that extreme controlling behavior is a sign of toxicity and it's a sign that you need to make sure that you are aware of what's going on and that you're able to establish clear boundaries otherwise you're gonna find yourself in a downward spiral very quickly.

Ultimately if you or your partner are unwilling to change, if you or your partner think that the other person is the only issue, it's a sign that your marriage is over because a relationship or a marriage is like a garden that needs to be constantly and continuously nurtured and attended to. And when one person gives up the garden will grow weeds and unfortunately it is impossible to be in a relationship where both parties are not actively seeking to make it work. And we don't take divorce lightly. We are HAPPILY COMMITTED we want to make sure that no stone is left unturned, that everything is done before pulling the trigger because divorce is seldom not the right option for many people. We are HAPPILY COMMITTED and we want to make sure that everything is done in order to help you make sound decisions and to maximize your chances of being in a fulfilling healthy relationship with your spouse.

[Leo-cqzr]

I don’t even have words… I’m just ready to end this crap. I’m sick and tired of being sick and tired.

[Emilyx]

1) One's happiness come at the expense of another.
2) Constantly blaming each other.
3) Can't see good in your partner anymore.
4) Your partner wants to isolate you from your loved one.
5) Your partner is unwilling to change and thinks you're the only problem.
Your welcome

[margomcintyre]

Don’t be like me and wait thinking things will change 😢 don’t wait for 44 years and then realize you wasted your life waiting for something that was never going to happen, despite many apologies and promises!!

[memeboisvert]

If you think it's over, it's over.

[freespirithippie]

Single is happiness. Marry yourself first. Relationships suck more the longer they last.

[Theextremepessimist]

If my marriage fails I would never do it again. I would date and have a girlfriend but that’s it.

[realbigmanoncampus]

Agree with all of the signs mentioned by this gentleman in this video. People should seriously go through marriage counseling before they get married. We should have serious courses in marriage. What is marriage? What is the purpose of marriage? What is the role of husband and wife in a marriage? What to expect from marriage? We go through years of college learning how to earn a living but not a single course on how to lead our life.

[valn.]

Your message is true. I feel resentment, anger, frustration and bitter towards my husband. We don't talk anymore. It is like we are in some time loop! The same thing over and over with no reward. I have went to therapy and worked on myself and he refuses to go. He can never say I'm sorry or admit he is wrong!

[kroyweb]

I realized something seriously wrong when she hates not only the bad parts of me but the good parts of me too.

[okowrightbalaxy]

The worst thing that can happen to anyone is to have a toxic partner. I wish everyone can marry their kind.

[mswiseone]

I have been married to a narcissistic man for over 2 decades. I just want out. I had cancer. It took how he has been treating me during this time for me to see him how he really is. I wish him well. I just don't want to live his life anymore. I want to live "our lives" together. We have never done that. I don't argue with him anymore. I just want peace and happiness. I have never had that with him.

[hello]

I honestly thought my husband and I would be married FOREVER. I had never been so madly in love before and no one has turned my head since. Not even the tiniest of crushes. But here I am, after almost 19 years of marriage, it is over. This man is not the man I fell in love with. I no longer know who he is. This person is angry, a liar, sneaky and blames me for his mistakes. I had hopes, but I did ask for a sign. The sign came to me loud and clear 2 days ago. There is still a part of me who wants to deny the sign, but I know I cannot. I am scared, but hopeful.

[shannonrice]

He is correct. This completely resonates with me. I was married for 26 years. With three beautiful children. This is exactly what happened. I gave it my all. It never seem to make my ex happy with whatever I did. Come to find out, he had been cheating on me, then he turned it into anger, started putting his hands on me. Didn’t stop there. Putting his hands on me in front of the kids, creating fights in front of the kids, wan’t right. Divorce is the best solution. Thankful I’m following through with my divorce.

[Jedi_Jed]

How concise and honest! I’m truly impressed. I think one of the really difficult things is when you’re in a relationship that seems healthy when things are going well but then completely undercuts you when things are bad. What if you respect and admire someone but then when things get bad they are totally unsupportive. I’d definitely rather be alone.

[briharrison]

After 20 years of marriage and trying and communicating my needs without reciprocation it’s pretty much over. When the expression of needs are met with anger you eventually grow tired and resentful and stop saying anything at all. I knew it was Rocky well before the open communication stopped, the flowers stopped, the sex stopped, and the excuses for staying away from home grew more. You eventually just don’t care anymore

[MelaninQueen]

Omg the blame game starts at 8 am in this house and doesn’t end until 9pm it’s only been 2 1/2 years married and the blame game happens over small non important things and I’m so over the bickering

[lordbeaky]

I am a forever husband not a temporary husband I will never leave my families side

[jomama]

I was told by a therapist that usually by the time a couple weeks counseling, it never works. One person still wants to work things out, and the other person doesn't. So by the time they get to the therapist, it's already a done deal and on it's way to over. She stopped doing couples therapy because of it. Sad, but true. Straight from a therapist's mouth.

[outofthebox]

Contemplating it because I'm tired of not being heard in the relationship. Nothing I say matters. He trusts his street friends over what I say. Stays out over his friends all night. I've gone to sleep so many nights alone. He spends more time doing him than us. We have 4 kids and even when he isn't with the kids I have to beg for quality time. It's like I'm an afterthought to his life. I find myself sadly watching people's happy marriage stories wishing for a happy marriage. He walks around like nothing is wrong.

[mguNn]

Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!