12 False Signs Your Marriage Is Over and 1 True Sign | Paul Friedman

Marriage "experts" who do not actually understand marriage publicly misinterpret various signs they espouse as dangerous to the health of your marriage. They warn you that your marriage is in great danger, then they sell you their marriage help course, or book... which usually does little to no good for you, your spouse, or your marriage. This common practice is discouraging to people who are afraid.

In this video, I present enough common sense analysis so you can make choices that will work, and not cost you an arm and a leg.

Helping marriages is not a vocation that just anyone should enter, merely because they have been "educated".

Work with a marriage help program produced by someone who openly discusses their methodology and philosophy. That will empower you to fix your marriage yourself. Isn't it logical that you should understand yourself, your spouse, and your marriage, well enough to not be dependent on some outsider?

The marriage help video here is anything but negative. The marriage myths I dispel here is done with compassion and understanding. You will be more comfortable when you are done, and hopefully, and sometimes, this will be all you will ever need to see the path to make your own a happy marriage.

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[WCRealtor]

Paul, your videos give me so much hope. My marriage is failing but your wisdom gives insight & hope.

[catechesispost]

Finally someone speaking common sense.
Thanks for the work you do!

[Thedalila]

I am working on shifting my thinking and strengthening my will power. I married my middle school love and best friend and we have remained that for all these years. We are going through something that seems bigger than ourselves and that scares me. But I am learning to love him unconditionally and to see all the good in my marriage despite all the downs we are facing. Some days is harder but I will continue to strive. ♥️ thank you for all the advice!

[stephaniecampo]

Thank you for is super hard and we're about to throw in the towel. This helped me reframe a bit.

[ralfj.]

Very well explained, makes a lot of sense!
Happy New Year! 🎆🥂

[Jessica]

Just found this guy yestwrday and I’m binge watching his videos. I’m definitely gonna get my wife on board with taking the courses and buy the book. I think this guy is the real deal. ❤

[fabster]

I feel every point, thank you for this video. I love my husband unconditionally. However we are apart now for 3 months and he has said it is over. No cheating, no fighting, no major issue - he wants to work on himself. There is literally nothing I can do, and I'd do anything for him. If the mind set of the person is, 'I'm done' how is there hope.

[relaxandunwind]

I'm not sure I agree with all of this, but I will say sometimes on other channels they basically tell you not to tolerate ANYTHING. Sometimes it's ridiculous, like jeez, you're never gonna stay in a relationship because you're never gonna find a PERFECT person. It's about learning about each other and LOVE . If you love each other, it's worth at least trying some of these ideas.

[AV-truth]

Hi Paul I just want to say that this video was so vital at saving my marriage. I applied your principles and 1year and a half later my marriage is better than ever! Even after infidelity on my husbands part. I thank God for your wisdom and that doesn’t mean I agreed with everything but most of it like 95 % of your lessons. I don’t have to spell those things out on this platform because it’s irrelevant. It’s a personal conviction from the Lord and I stand firm in my faith principles from the Bible. Which I believe you have derived from the Bible most of your principles which literally does save marriages. Thanks for all you have done and are still doing. I often go back and re watch a lot of videos as a refresher when I feel like I’m going backwards or have a set back. I’m truly happy now and so is my husband and we are thriving. And you taught me how to love unconditionally like God loves. 🙏🏻😇God Bless you Paul and your ministry ❤

[stacianmcfarlane]

I am not happy in my marriage, my husband keep talking to me in aggression an arrogant, when we go out he always upset with me he doesn't listen to me, he's always get arrogant on me, sometimes I wish I was not married to him. I don't believe that my husband loves me, he never allowed me to express myself, I walked out of the marriage, I am trying to come back home to my family but my husband doesn't decided to change. sometimes I felt like killing him. please tell me what to do.

[thomasscott]

Paul, I want you to know your videos are awesome. Your wisdom and what you say makes a lot of sense. I want to take the course that you offer and I would love to read your book. I’m looking to purchase the book. I will get it soon. Thank you. I’m going to watch every video you have on YouTube thank you

[lisagallarelli]

I absolutely love your techniques! I agree with everything! You definitely give advice that works!

[hummerchine]

You are very wise and are most definitely helping me improve my marriage of 36 years

I’ll leave it at that but I thank you!

[fwalker]

You are talking about 2 souls as soulmates. But what if you are not your husband's soulmate? My husband has an emotional connection with a co-worker and he said that he probably has "fallen in love" with her and has never felt like that with anyone else before. He said he wasn't unfaithful and there is no physical connection. I feel like there is no coming back after this now. I have bought your book and still trying to make out what I needed to do to make my husband fall in love with me again.

[Him-jxt]

Paul you are spot on about happiness. My wife talks about it all the time 😂

[manuelvelasco]

very good tips. If you had these messages translated into Spanish, many more marriages would benefit. not only Spanish, any other language would be a great blessing

[sariahforth]

I really needed to watch this! Intentionally or not, our culture is very anti-marriage and I’ve been scrambling for sound advice! Thank you for this

[harryann]

Your teachings are so relatable, deep and very educative sir, you are really doing a great job thank you. 👍

[harryann]

Lately, a lots of negative thoughts runs through my head due to my husband approah in handling an issue and i was really hurt by it.
But listening to these has really been helpful and changed my perspective and am going to really build on myself and do my best to make my marriage work. 🙏

[matthewwolfe]

Thank you for these videos. My wife and I of 11 years are really struggling. I know it's been mainly me at the fault of this, but these videos are eye opening, and making me quite upset with myself. Which is good. Like how was I not seeing everything i was doing wrong, and in some case not doing things at all. This is the help I needed, and pray I'm not too late to rectify everything. I love her with all that I am, and cannot imagine life without her. Our song was always God Gave Me You. I still truly believe that.