Watch This If You Feel Unlovable!

Have you ever felt unlovable? Maybe it’s a sinking feeling in your stomach when you’re alone or whispers you can’t shake from that voice in your head. We want you to know that you are loveable and that sometimes negative thoughts have the power to overtake us and distort reality. Here are things to remember if you feel unlovable.

Writer: Ria Parikh
Script Editor: Morgan Franz
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Ceechan
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

References:

Support our channel by joining our membership! It will help us reinvest to create more mental health and Psychology content for everyone. Learn more about our YouTube membership:

[LarissaSilva-rpjl]

It’s hard to practice self love when everyone around you seems to dislike or ignore you

[lucianabustamante]

Something some people doesn't understand is that it's hard to love yourself when you feel unlovable

[Ana-sier]

it hurts so bad every time someone says “remember people who love and care about you” and you’ve got no one to remember..

[TheBashfulne]

I started to feel unlovable when I noticed "friend groups" or really groups in general seemed better when I wasn't around. It hurts to see a conversation between others thrive when you're not in it yourself but I feel like I interrupt the vibe so I keep quiet. I'm not sure if anyone else feels this way.

[Chrysaetos]

"The way people treat you is not a reflection of you." This is what I needed to hear. Thank you.

[dailydoseofmedicinee]

The feeling like you're unloved makes you feel lonely since you isolate yourself due to feeling undeserving of being loved. It makes you afraid to socialize with friends and family because you feel unworthy of hanging out with them.👍

[ImSmokey]

Growing up being called ugly and having people put u down constantly makes me feel unloved

[snwxy_dramsnow]

I’ve always felt unlovable, lonely. I’ve always seen myself as the lonely girl of the crowd. Because most people I loved, started to leave me by myself, and with no one else around me. This video helped me a bit, thanks for the help!

[nckgrdn]

I feel so grateful to live in a time where this channel exists.

[Ballsmasher]

Psych2go is my best friend, they just don't know it yet

[ennd]

No matter how much i listen to this, i cant believe what they say is not just crap. Nothing makes me believe that i am loveable anymore.

[KindIndian]

4:28 I was holding all my depressive, hurtful, traumatic and negative emotions in throughout the video, until this moment. Then suddenly I burst into tears, bawling my eyes out here.. If you are reading this, and feeling low or depressed, please know that you are not alone and it is all going to be better... :')

[ufhscwh]

It hurts when you feel unloved right? Yeah I know. It hurts when you don’t like yourself anymore, it hurts when you don’t have true friends, it hurts when you are not the first option to anyone, it hurts. It just hurts but it’s okay. Let’s give each other a virtual hug 😊❤️🥺🥺

[whydoyoucare]

I constantly live in my imagination. It hurts to know that some of the best feelings and memories I have are the ones that happened in my head .

[somethingauspicious]

"Your flaws Don't define you" this line makes me calm now😌

[WriteThisHeart]

As someone who's been abused my whole life and is the family scapegoat, I often feel unlovable. All the time. Gonna save this vid for those times. Thank you! <3

[kimsubha]

As a child when you've always felt like nobody actually wants you and you're just a burden but you've always wanted to be loved 💔 now as a grown up your emotions are messed up.. You're afraid to trust people.. afraid to lose people.. Afraid to talk to people😂😂

[daemonvector]

''Just love yourself bro'', it's easy to say that when you have a support network, but when you have literally nobody that cares about you it's impossible.

[ravena.]

For anyone who feels like this and other videos doesn't help, like nothing will ever help: it's ok that you don't get better immediatly after watching this. The good thing about our situation is that we've already accomplished a lot by trying to figure ourselves out.
You may need to watch such videos a 100 times, until you see improvement. And that's ok, just don't stop.
It is also ok to feel down about you future from time to time. You won't feel like this forever. Hope this helps you ♥

[frizz]

Psych2go: "do you struggle with self love?"
Me: "what's self love?"