Why the Narcissist Baits and Ghosts You

The Narcissist uses many manipulative techniques to have their way with you. One strategy that is often used, is the Bait and Ghost. This can leave you feeling crazy and confused! This video will explain how and why the Narcissist Baits and Ghosts you.

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[tjfSIM]

I suspected exactly this was happening, but decided to give her the benefit of the doubt. She texted me from a friend's number and asked to meet up and talk, saying she wanted me back, and I really wanted that so I unblocked her and texted her back. Now she's ignoring me. It's so painful, and I feel stupid and gullible.

[cleverborderline]

You just described my experience exactly. It was the oddest thing. One minute he said he loved me and he's so loyal, the next minute he's gone and I'm apologizing for who knows what. I deleted my Facebook/Instagram account and have basically gone off the grid because of this jerk. I see him now, I've taken off the rose colored glasses and thrown them in the trash.

[panos]

The narcissist will also bait and ghost you in order to feel they still have power on you. If you block them first they will try to contact you in order to block you first.

[AstroCyprian]

Thanks for your video. Yes, they know exactly what their victim need and they want to bait the victim by letting the hopes of the victim get it. The more you are baited, the more you are willing to lose yourself because of the attachment to the dream they sell you.

[pkp]

Had a ‘friend’ attempt to bait me. I showed no reaction. She then ghosted me. Didnt react to that either. Lol! She reached out by calling and leaving a message. I have not and will not respond.
As far as I am concerned, this friendship is permanently over. We share many colleagues, so I am trying to slow ghost my way out of her life. Life gets busy, eh? Nothing personal, I just dont have the time or desire to offer my gifts to her - on any level.

[blackcurrantpop]

Just happened to me. Broke up w him due to him MIA at nights. He love-bombed me told me he didnt want to lose me. Then he ignored my text and ghosted me. I blocked him. Its sooo hard.

[misslucybear]

Thank you! Just about getting sucked back into this scenario again - so exasperating. You explained this so well.

[MashCruMusic]

I broke the no contact 😫, she baited me

[majatooks]

Mine did exactly this, hurt me so much, never understood why, thank u so much for sharing, try to never answer one of his text or calls, can't take no more

[invalidgirl]

Litrerally same. Hes so awful and malicious .I won't entertain it again . Must remain strong

[mattsafdari]

Thank you for your help and support that was very informative to know that she did have other people in her life.... I was with her for a year and four months and obviously I had a weird gut feeling about a few people even at my apartment complex and she would triangulate her exes all the time idk... I give up on finding love but it's very important to know what I was dealing with

[PerrySkyePhoenix]

You describe it so well. I've seen what's behind his mask, though. I considered him to be a soulmate. He breaks my heart.

[clairenewton]

Your videos are so good I wish you got more views

[Jen-gcqb]

This is the first time I’ve watched one of your videos and I chose yours because yours is the only one that I saw that included not only ghosting but Why they suck you in first. My intuition was starting to tell me everything that you said but I needed the confirmation and I appreciate you and this information. I am now subscribed and will continue watching you. Thank you for this content as it was very helpful.

[mollusckscramp]

Great explanation on the mindset behind narcs ghosting. Sometimes you will forget about these patterns when you are observing them in new people, at which point when you do notice it happening and they ghost, you just gotta remind yourself to say "Bye Felicia!" Their time is not more precious than yours. Love your earrings btw ❤ Thx for making this vid!

[marionrome]

I broke no contact after 3 years. Responded to his hoover and was told that he wants to see my and my dumbass said ok. Of course he blew me off. He’s also in a new relationship with a girl who’s living in another country. I think he felt bad for talking to me and maybe he’s now loyal to his new girlfriend 🤷‍♀️

[robertgates]

You described perfectly my experience a month ago with her. She went from terrible last year to wanting to be friends. Even in my last conversation she made a point to say she wasn't dating on not on any dating sites. Being on sites myself I can confirm that is true. But after that she was gone. A month now and nothing. I have been dating other women, which I told her then, thus not worrying what she is up too. Will be interesting to see if she appears someday. After all, she moved from 45 minutes from me to a few blocks away!

[pinksalmon]

He begged me to see him and every time I’d agree he’d ghost…finally I blocked him and he still messaged me somehow 6 months later. 🤮

[moonshineall]

They are devil I hope they will have their karma

[BlueThunderboltsiren]

I have a story.
Yesterday was my birthday, my friend, who I am pretty sure has a narcissistic selfish behavior, and I were going to hang out on the day before together because she wanted to celebrate with me. I knew that she kinda wanted to make the day about her, but it would've been nice to hang out with her anyways because it was still nice to hang out with friends on my birthday. But then, on the day we were supposed to hang out she didn't show up at all. She did, however, text me asking if we were still hanging out that day. I told her yes. 5 minutes later she said that she would be here in a little bit to hang out so we could do stuff together. She never showed up. She didn't even text me saying that she couldn't make it. Literally the last thing she said on that day was "I will be there in a little bit." But on my actual birthday, which was yesterday at 6 pm, she did wish me a happy birthday, but she also apologiesed for not making it. Atleast she wished me a happy birthday, but it was still messed up what she did.
I wasn't really upset or surprised because atleast it was nice an quiet on that day and mostly because it wasn't the first time she has ghosted me before in general. However, I still have to say that ghosting someone on their birthday is messed up. Especially when you say that you wanted to hang out with them, just to make their special day about them, and then ghosting them anyways.
May I ask: What would you have done if someone did the same thing to you on you? Would you also think it was messed up?