11 Oddly Specific Childhood Trauma Issues

In this video we cover: therapy, healing, imposter syndrome, mindfulness, procrastination, magical thinking, anger, grief, triggers, childhood trauma, inner child, inner child work, c-ptsd, ptsd, toxic parents, narcissistic abuse, depression, anxiety, dissociation, abusive parents, emotional abuse, childhood ptsd, repressed memories, hypervigilance, narcissistic parents, emotionally abusive parents, narcissistic father, childhood emotional neglect, abuse, shadow work, narcissistic mother, NPD, BPD

Chapters:
0:00 Intro
0:52 1. Emotional Delay
5:00 2. Rushing No where
8:46 3. Refrigerator Buzz Depression
11:40 4. Being Tired Is a Trigger
13:44 5. Chameleon But Don't Mix
16:05 6. On the Spot Dissociation
20:20 7. Laughing About the Pain
23:12 8. Crying Valve
26:19 9. Glass Frog
30:01 10. Sideways Grief or Pain
33:35 11. Waiting Games
36:54 Final Thoughts
38:26 Outro

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[frozenheart]

I imagine I’m not the only one watching this like wow, it seems my entire “personality” is just trauma response 😢😂

[ChocoSapper]

I was physically and mentally abused as a child. I’m now 60 and am just becoming the person I always was. A really nice, loving, funny, caring and articulate man. Such is life.

[melanief]

I had that problem, "can't stop crying" while in therapy and the psychiatrist told me at the end of my first visit that she couldn't help me and to find someone else. That rejection while seeking help made things so much worse. I am 60 and that was less than ten years ago. Now I just isolate.

[Crumsie]

As an adult, I once told my dad that I came close to making an attempt on my life when I was a teenager. It was an attempt to connect with him. He looked me dead in the eye and said "yeah, we've all been there, get over it".

When I tell people I laugh about it because it's so absurd, like what kind of parents does that lol. I never thought about how that response wasn't healthy.

Your content is really changing my life

[flickeringfairy]

I think emotional delay, at least in my situation, comes from knowing that you can't react to the abuse without it getting worse.

[ASightToSee]

"we dont know how to take the truth about what happened to us seriously because no one ever did". that line hit. thanks man

[DOLLOFDECORDIARIES]

I’m crying because so many of these apply to me . I am a civil war baby from Liberia and didn’t come to america till I was 7. My family dynamic did not get any better in America the promise land which was so heartbreaking to me . I remember getting into a horrible accident that totaled my car when I was 17/18 and I was too afraid to tell my mom . Or to ask her for nurturing I knew I wouldn’t get. I didn’t even call her while in the hospital . I was so afraid of being rediculed and getting hit. I had to take care of myself and was made fun of for totaling my car and shamed for embarrassing her . That memory just resurfaced for me today… Im 26 year old and I think I will join a trauma support group.

[elitecoaching]

Being tired is such a trigger for me. I feel like it’s depression that will never go away.

[TheMuffinsama]

Oh the sideways grief really got me. I felt that a few weeks ago. I am a high school teacher, I noticed a student was looking nervous and kept watching them. I went to talk to them, said they could open up to me, and turns out they were being bullied by an older kid from a different class. I arranged a meeting with the bully's parents, the bullied student's parents and the principal to talk about what was going on, and it seems to have worked. The student looked happier, their parents thanked me for my help.

I got home and started sobbing, the tears just wouldn't stop. I remembered when I was bullied and nobody cared, how I told my mom and she told me to suck it up. It was so unfair.

But I'm glad I get to help my students have a better experience in school than the one I had. Even just a little bit.

[serabyne]

I remember i woke up at my ex his parents one time, and i could see out of the window that the father was playing pingpong with my boyfriend and his brother, and the mom just sitting beside it and all of them having fun together and laughing. I sat there and cried my eyes out.

[natalienixon]

I still remember realizing I have persistent depression and asking my husband if he had always knew. I cried so hard when he told me he has always known, he has known I might always be, and he loves ME and my depression is not who I am.

[carmensteuck]

I was on the way out of state to my cousin's son's funeral, who had died by suicide, as had my husband a few years earlier. I was already emotionally raw, and then my mom called while I was eating lunch in a fast-food restaurant just off the freeway. She was more interested in getting "the dirt" on how my cousin's son had completed and what led up to it than even recognizing that I was obviously upset and crying over it. When I got off the phone and started mopping up my tears, a total stranger from a few tables away came over, gave me a hug, asked if I was OK, and could she help. It hit me at that point, I get more empathy and comfort from total strangers than from my own mother!

[katiechannel]

I remember woundering how my friends were able to trust their parents enough to tell them some of the stuff they told them. I always feel like I am a kid outside a candy shop when I see healthy relationships. Thank you for this video!

[CT-oddl]

'Neglected kids are addicted to coping'. This is so true. I'm really working on this side of myself. Incredible how we start to see it as a badge of honour. Look at how bad this situation is but I will never break. Instead of striving for a healthier situation.

[HoKinsley]

I hope and pray that everyone watching this video is healing and gaining an understanding of themselves and working it out, you are strong and not alone🙏🏼

[crazyreese]

When he said “ you’re not a sociopath because you can’t start crying it’s just trauma” (something like that) made me feel so much better. 23:55

[ariw]

The not sleeping because of hyper vigilance was such a lightbulb moment. As a child I stayed up just Incase my parents fought and I had to call the cops. When I had children I was constantly worried something would happen to them. It’s unbelievable how your childhood trauma ties into your issues as an adult.

[chivonfortney]

A huge trigger for me is my dad being a great dad to his second set of children but neglected me so badly. I’m pretty angry and hurt at that. My dad is a narcissist and I’m told to just let it go and it’s not fair. Quit looking into the past he tells me.

[timikoykka]

I have that rushing trauma. It's the little things. Running to the bathroom, jumping on my chair, hitting kitchen closets hard, trying to multitask and always rushing to next project, even it's not something important. Top of that, when plans get canceled and i dont have backup plan, i get really overwhelmed and stressed out, since there is not next mission to focus.

[maricara]

I am one of six siblings. The 3 older ones grew up with extreme physical abuse; the 3 younger ones did not. I did not. In our sage years, the three older ones are becoming increasingly difficult to get along with. The content in this video has helped me understand the personality issues the older siblings may have due to trauma, and I have increased my empathy towards them. I’m grateful this video emerged as a recommendation.