8 Signs To Identify Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style: Essential Guide | HealingFa.com

Deepen your understanding of the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style with this essential guide, exploring 8 revealing signs that help you recognize its presence in relationships. Empower yourself with knowledge and transform the way you approach love and personal growth.

If you saw my previous videos, you now know what the fearful avoidant attachment style is and some causes of this attachment style.
In this video, I'll tell you 8 signs on how you can recognize the fearful avoidant attachment style.

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00:00 Intro
00:35 What are the signs of the fearful avoidant attachment style?
15:51 What are the main signs of the fearful avoidant attachment style?
16:09 What is the anxious attachment style?
16:30 What is the dismissive avoidant attachment style?

This video is about 8 Signs To Identify Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style: Essential Guide. But It also covers the following topics:

Recognizing Fearful Avoidant Attachment
Fearful Avoidant Attachment Signs
Decoding Attachment Styles

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The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is absolutely possible. You are not too broken.
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After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband, and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
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In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 150 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

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[zeah]

1. Hot & Cold, or Luke Warm & Cold
2. Afraid You Aren't Feeling Enough
3. Afraid Of What Intuition Says
4. A Crash/Withdrawl After A Good Day
5. Sensitive To Criticism
6. Dont Want To Be Alone
7. Committment Induces Loss Of Feelings
8. Difficulty With Intimacy

[shannon]

After 30 years of doing things I wished I didn’t do, and hurting people, I’ve finally been lead to the right videos that help me understand myself. You explain it so clearly and without judgement. Thanks so much for the encouraging words too, that there may be a healing somewhere along this painful journey.

[rocwilder]

Dating someone who shows many of these FA signs. She primarily is a curious person, asking questions but then sometimes it makes her overthink/knit pick the smallest detail of the person to where it stalls her in what she wants to do with the person. She then starts to wonder if the other person is truly compatible. And that’s what happening at the moment. She has been very interested in me, where I felt at ease w her. But I feel like she has a tendency to ask hypothetical questions so that she can know what she can expect for the future. Recently she decided to stop dating me because she doesn’t know if we are compatible which is strange to me because the day before, she was telling me how much she wanted to be with me and spend the night with her. Your video makes a lot of sense. She had a hard upbringing and I feel like that has played a major role in how she deals with love/relationships.

[anonymousbee]

Wow, i thought i was crazy. This is so so helpful. Movies and cinema really fudged the love equation in my life.

[hazelromero]

We all deserve to be in a healthy relationship! Being in an insecure relationship could be very exhausting for a person who desires a stable, secure relationship, so we have to really evaluate if a person with these attachments are worth it because it would be a very long season of healing for them and it could also lead you to be insecure.

[morehn]

What I learned about marriage is that you go through two phases of love, and they go in and out, alternating with each other.
At times, you feel like husband and wife. At other times, you feel like best friends. Two different dynamics.
You should also feel a sense of calm and simple enjoyment when you exist with that person.

[Mars-usux]

I never would have thought that I would relate to something as much as I did watching this video, it truly shook me to the core and now I think I might have a fearful avoidant attachment style, because you just read me like a book haha

[rvined_lol]

I just want to say thank you for these videos. I too have fearful avoidant attachment. And constantly feel destroyed because of certain relationship coaches saying that relationships with avoidants don't work and they should find a secure partner. Especially the constant battle of "avoidant and anxious attachments don't work." You give me hope. I'm trying everyday to do my best to heal. And I'm actively going to therapy.

[tynicole]

This is exhausting to deal with daily and so confusing to myself and partner. I hope to heal. I have been able to manage toxic relationships but this healthy one is so annoying and difficult but intellectually I see it’s fruitful, but emotionally I just can’t submit 😞

[ritwit]

I'm definitely fearful avoidant. I ticked off all 8 signs. Now i need to focus on crossing them all out, by starting my healing journey. I just purchased your programme yesterday and i'm looking forward to receiving the invite to the app in my email, but more importantly i look forward to becoming a much more secure person, by turning my insecurities into one of my greatest strengths.

[kittylew]

I’ve never experienced this until recently with a new guy I met. From your list I identified with 2 & 5. Number 5 is when things changed for me, the unwarranted criticism. He had told me about his medical issues and some were serious. When I told him I had arthritis and heartburn a his response was “you have a lot of medical issues”. That simple statement triggered my detachment and my wall came back up. I felt that he was trying to shame me and I could never be venerable with him so I had to end things. Thanks for the information

[completelynoname]

Had someone like this in my life, word for word.
Now I understand it better, but relieve still won't come.

[MF-sezl]

This talk has been a game/life changer for me. It. Explains so much how I see "My reality" . Thank you!

[zsofiasej]

My brain is blown. You just described me to a T!!! Wow!!!!

[moulee]

Scarily accurate..I am actually feeling so exposed..what!!!??? 👀

[philipburke]

I'm here from the male side. I've offered my soul to get this and trying to make sense of the rapid changes. I will always be there for her, I just pray she has the strength to see this herself. We both felt like we was going to soul mates, I just hope time heals the insecurities as I will always be there, be fully committed and honour her like my queen. It makes my heart ache and feel sick

Love her for who she is deep down, not whom she has become 😔

[rosebud]

I believe another sign is running away without explaining why. Just ending things with no explanation. That’s my pattern. I want it to stop!!!! I run away and then want them back. It’s made me give up on dating!! Terrible 😢

[moulee]

You really spoke it so well... This is how I exactly act out in relationships...
You are amazing dear!

[anitayougotit]

Wow wow wow! Afraid of „Intuition“ is exactly how I saw things. And I did break up because it was sooo there.
I was asking myself two things: Do I have something in my subconscious that let’s me do those things?
But also: Ok I‘m breaking up and there could be something to be healed in me to not break up, but does it have to be the overall goal of every individual, of me, to have a relationship as long as possible?
And the answer to the second was a clear no to me. And I think but truths can exist at the same time. It really gives me fulfillment to be so free and break up, go through this process in a beautiful way, feeling all those feelings.
I think that I like that in that way is part of my personality.
But that whole process is so interesting and to learn about attachment styles and to feel that I am fearful avoidant.
I had that with the intuitive „exit“-feeling FROM THE BEGINNING :D of that relationship. But the past few months it got stronger and made me act.

[jakubfrankovsky]

Hey Paulien,
My terapist give me link to your chanel, and i must say that your videos are big eye openers for me. Thank you for amazing work you create :)