How to Stop Getting Angry at Your Girlfriend or Wife

How to stop getting angry at your girlfriend or wife:

The first thing you need to understand and accept, is that women don't behave like men.

It's not wrong for you to behave like a man and it's not wrong for her to behave like a woman.

If you want to be happy and in love when in a relationship with a woman and not waste time and energy getting into pointless arguments with her, you have to understand that and accept it.

Just like she should expect you to behave like a woman, you can't expect her to behave like a man (i.e. be consistent, logical, make sense, don't create any drama).

No matter how angry you get at your girlfriend or wife, she will always want to think, feel, behave and act like a woman.

So, there's absolutely no point fighting against that.

Instead, you should use it to your advantage.

How?

The best approach to take is to not get dragged into unnecessary drama or arguments and instead, interact with her in ways that allow her to realize when she is at fault.

Allow her to realize that she is being unreasonable and despite that, you are man enough to maintain control of your emotions and not get angry.

As a result, she will feel motivated to be a better woman for you. She will respect you and want to treat you better.

On the other hand, if you get lose control of your emotions and get angry at her whenever she isn't behaving like you (i.e. a man), she will lose respect for you, stop feeling attracted to you and fall a little bit more out of love with you.

She will also want to increase her tests and will purposely make you mad to see how you react.

So, it's much better to gain control over your anger, rather than thinking that, one day, she will stop behaving like a woman and it will all stop.

It won't.

At some point, you will have to understand and learn how to deal with the differences between you and her and when you do, she will feel respect, attraction and love you for you and her tests (of your confidence and emotional control) will decrease.

She will know that you are man enough to handle a woman like her and as a result, she will give you the respect you deserve.

She will still test you from time to time to see if you are able to maintain control of your emotions and if you are, her respect, attraction and love will deepen.

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[crazypak]

"be consistent, be logical, make sense, don't create any drama, so on.... yet that's just not gonna happen, cause she's a woman". lol haha

[HAPPYPANDA]

"one of the most important roles a woman plays in a relationship Is to make his man emotionally stronger" I'm going to have to remember that the next time I know she's doing something to try and irk me/piss me off.

[sirwilliams]

Thats me watching this video without ever having a gf, stilll useful

[genesisk]

I literally am on my last leg. My insecurities keep getting the best of me and I convince myself what I am getting mad at her about is good. Thank you for this video. I’ll give you updates if anyone wants them. Just respond to the comment

[mattdunlap]

Dan this really is perfect. I just got done making these mistakes and your video was right on time.

[desrickshaw]

Bro rn my relationship is 100% because I've stopped being angry and right now I'm just chilling and me and my girlfriend aren't having any arguments

[daifeichu]

This isn't just good info for girlfriends/wives. It's good for any female in your life. I have a 10yr old daughter and I've learned that when I want her to do something, like clean up her stuff or brush her teeth, that instead of getting angry I'm in control of my emotions. I have way more success in getting her to do things when I have control of myself. It does take patience, especially if you want something done right away but in the end things turn out much better.

[Destinhegreat]

Man I really needed this a few hours ago

[GSWAGFLYNUWVOYCE]

Right I used to loose control easy and really loose it I’m really trying hard to not anymore

[abdiosman]

I really watched this video at the right moment
I’m newly married man and we live two different countries
I live in Europe and she’s in Africa
So lately I started loosing my anger with every little things she tells me
I once told her that I’m the kind of guys who gets jealous if she mentions a guys namewith me so lately she started sometimes to teas me as a joke and I’m completely out of control
And this morning I told her like
We need 4 days off
No whatsap calls no texts
To find a little space and then miss each other’s absence and then come back together
But this video changed me
U don’t have to give her a days off
What I gotta do is maintain her mood swings and be caring husband
I really think it’s little hard but I’ll try
Good luck guys

[tanguerogo]

Every time I get a bit upset with my woman, I look for a video from Dan which could help me in my case...and almost always find one. This one again is so useful, it kept me in control of my emotions.

Dan is a real relationship genius! God bless him :-)

[bzavala]

This has a lot of good points and insights. I believe he is correct but also find the part about her saying things to test your emotional response to be so funny and ironic. He is right, but basically she is testing you to make sure you don't respond to things emotionally the way she would! This further proves he is also right about not expecting women to be logical. In order to trust you, she wants to make sure you won't respond over the top and purely out of emotion the same way she This is why women confuse being ruled by your emotions with being in touch with your emotions. They only respect and want a man that can keep his emotions and reactions in check yet her inability to do exactly this makes her "in touch with her emotions" in her own mind.

[ricardo-xgnf]

Before the first minute I started laughing because of how true those statements were. Great info!

[tanzac]

Hey Dan, unrelated to this particular video but I’ve been rewatching a lot of your ‘ex back’ videos recently and wanted to say you’ve helped me an absolute ton already. Some of the advice I’ve learnt from you have been things that I would never have originally done, yet make so much sense and implementing them has worked so much better than I could’ve ever imagined. The way you get your messages across is nothing short of professional, viewers can tell that you actually give a shit when it comes to relationship advice and aren’t just another cash grab scammer.
Cheers mate, you’ve helped make countless of people from all across the globe very happy with what you do.

[Ivan-fsnz]

My problem is in the moment I keep responding in an angry way and the day is over. I work harder on my social media than I do in my relationship I need to drop all distractions and start investing more time in my wife and kids. Thank you.

[pmnation]

Me being a Scorpio I be letting my feelings get the best of me

[sarojiniprabhakaran]

Nice timing I was... Mad at my gf. This vid kinda helped me.

You have a new sub too :)

[lionsheart]

Dan, I just watched this a big thankful, I've started listening to you after listening to the Knowledge for Men podcast. I've been in my relationship for two years and it has been very challenging but I've found your material insightful and helpful, thanks again.

[justincredible]

This is totally the video i needed to wake up to. Thanks man

[tspizemediaservices]

😂😂😂😂😂i really needed this...I was having problems because if ignorance 😊