7 Signs You are a TRUE Gentleman

Become a true gentleman on the inside by adopting these seven characteristics.

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Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
0:36 Trait 1
1:52 Trait 2
2:57 Trait 3
3:54 Trait 4
5:11 Trait 5
6:06 Trait 6
7:09 Trait 7
8:56 Anything else?

[bustavonnutz]

A gentleman was traditionally a member of the gentry that didn't have to physically labor for a living. In the modern day, it has transformed into an ethos which tries to encapsulate that level of sophistication in both action & aesthetic. Stoicism & religious virtue is the bedrock of gentlemanly philosophy, yet many people simply see it as a stylistic choice.

[bruceboman]

I'm 67 years old and watching your video. Live, don't just exist. Get better, not bitter. Yes, great words. But wisdom is what one DOES with those words. Well done, my man.

[walterfoyt]

Being male is a matter of birth. Being a man is a matter of age. Being a gentleman is a matter of choice - Vin Diesel

[MM-vvmt]

A gentleman always endeavors to not unintentionally offend others. He always remains in control of himself wherever he is and whatever is happening around him. He studies the emotion and contents of this thoughts and does not practice anger or jealousy. He never punches down. He is conscientious in all things, big and small. His word is sacred. Remember, it takes a lifetime to build a good reputation, but only five minutes to ruin it.

[richoneplanet]

Personality traits of a gentleman

1. Maintains dignity. Have enough confidence in your own abilities so you don't become desperate. 'I will always be ok.'
2. Self-respect - dress well, eat good food, good skin care, style - 'I deserve' to dress, eat well
3. Gentlemanly behaviors - no man is an island, make the effort to make the world a better place, help others, be kind and warm
4. Gentleman is unique and authentic - don't be afraid to think for yourself, eccentricities can be ok
5. Open Minded - gentleman does not look down on others but recognizes other's points of view
6. Taking ownership - the buck stops with me, no excuses, takes responsibility for actions and state of mind
7. 'I shall use my time' philosophy. Do what you want to do. Don't waste your days. Not afraid to step out of the ordinary

[christophneuschaeffer]

Here is a nice addition from one of my favorite songs of the 1980s by Sting:

If "manners maketh man" as someone said.
He's the hero of the day.
It takes a man to suffer ignorance and smile.
Be yourself no matter what they say.

Modesty, propriety can lead to notoriety.
You could end up as the only one.
Gentleness, sobriety are rare in this society.
At night a candle's brighter than the sun

Takes more than combat gear to make a man.
Takes more than a license for a gun.
Confront your enemies, avoid them when you can.
A gentleman will walk but never run.

[MrFenris]

These are all wonderful traits that any person, at any age, should heed. I specifically love Trait 3. Showing kindness and compassion for others is, in my opinion, one of the most gentlemanly virtues one can have.

[garylocke]

A gentleman doesn't swear at or in front of women. He doesn't treat her as one of the guys.

[vanessaeriksson]

As a Classic Gentlewoman, I would like to thank you for your incredible content, this video in particular. I apply all of your habits daily. Keep soaring in your endeavours and I wish you endless success.

[JamesRDavenport]

We cannot choose how we're born, our start in life, or who will love us. But we can choose whether we'll believe the truth or the lie, whether we'll show up, when we'll give up, and if our word will mean something or nothing at all.
You choose your own reputation. No matter who you are, you can choose to live your life with integrity.

[advhawk]

Solid gold. We live in a dangerous world, so I would add that a gentleman invokes peace through strength.

[ianoakpark]

Being a true gentlemen always means you are socially aware of the people around you and their needs. Making sure you acknowledge them as human beings and validate their worth regardless of your differences.

[birdman]

GentZ is clearly a man of intelligence, capable of original thought. Then there's the little things like his correct pronunciation of "often", "entrepreneur", etc. Pretty impressive.

[thesiselchannel]

I live in Israel and in this hot little country, however nice it may be, you can almost rarely see a person in a tie. And I cannot explain why, but I always dreamed of going to work and going a full day with a tie (just like in the American 80s 90s 2000s films). So ive decided one day to go in smart at work, and yes I get looks from people surrounding me but to my surprise the people I work with are very delighted with the way I dress to work, and so now I rock a tie almost every day even though it is so not a part of Israeli culture, yet people still love it and Im glad they do!

[tlqllrn]

Very inspiring to know that someone of your age has such wisdom. I would only add that one should never stop learning: about art and culture, science and technology, psychology - follow your interests and broaden your knowledge. But never stop learning.

[DrRonThomasJr]

I do not know the source of the quote but years ago I heard “A gentleman does not inconvenience others.” So good manners, strong ethics, and self-control factor into it. It is how I strive to carry myself.

[tylerwhitney]

What a beautiful ending! So inspired...

[sarahschmidt]

This is outstanding! Your advice to seek counseling, if necessary to improve/prepare oneself for that perfect mate, is just stellar.

[erisium]

Small addon to Trait 7 if u are from Germany/Austria please dont get mad if people wont see ur painting as amazing as they are, prove the haters wrong and dont become politician.

[ulvesparker]

Trait #3 yes absolutely. Thinking back on what most distinguishes a gentleman to me is how one treats others, regardless of age, gender, perceived social status. Politeness, kindness, a respectful calm demeanor, and generally making people comfortable around one (even service staff) are all traits that define a gentleman.

Nicely done video.