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00:00 Intro
00:38 What is the Gottman Institute, and what is its purpose?
02:25 What got them so interested in studying relationships?
04:09 What are some of the biggest misconceptions about the way we look at marriages back then compared to now?
08:02 What is the Love Lab, and how did it work?
12:31 The Four Horseman of the Apocalypse.
17:44 The Sound Relationship House theory of what makes relationships work.
28:40 The importance of focusing on the process rather than the content.
33:36 The value of their research in helping build healthy relationships.
38:44 Any differences in same sex-relationships vs different-sex relationships?
48:04 Are there things culturally that are working against them?
54:16 The importance of a moral aspect in a healthy relationship.
56:30 Love is an action.
1:02:14 Building connection through practice on Gottman Connect.
1:08:13 Love Rx and closing words to the Mind Pump audience.

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