Dating After Divorce - How to Spot a Loser

How to date after you're divorced. On this episode of The I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast, Dr. David Clarke discuses the profiles of losers you don't want to date.

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[sherylfernandez]

I think it would be helpful to do more than just ask if they are a Christian. My husband said he was a Christian and I saw him reading the Bible, but zero growth. It seems as if the good Christian man was just a role he played around other Christians. Put him around other guys cheating on their wives and cursing and he does that too. Separate lives.

[fruitinspector]

"Look behind you" and then run 😂

[TheGoodLifeStarterPack]

Questions 1 and 2 LITERALLY just saved me years in dating!!!!

[junebrezgis]

I dated a man who had a lot of these qualities. I wish I had found you sooner as I could have save years.

[smarternow]

I stayed with my abuser because I was getting older and fell for his manipulating love bombing. I didn’t want to be alone. His looks and body fooled me. His words though fake made me feel loved.

[brendaleverick]

True; my ex-husband wasn't a Christian, and the marriage failed within the first five years.

[anne-oc]

I've spoken with counselors for battered women and was told it's not uncommon for women to stay in toxic situations for a longgg time. Generally up to the 7th incident. Physical abuse mainly. In other words, After the seventh attack, she will probably leave or separate.

[vickiepatterson]

I stayed with my abusive spouse...once a woman has given her body to a man, there is a love connection that is hard to break

[ESumner]

I am SO thankful to have found you. I cannot under any circumstances meet or marry another covert narcissists.

[caratgamer]

My wife ticks so many boxes you've described here... To the point I've got goosebumps by watching this video. How I could miss many red flags (or blankets as you say)... I'm not sorry for myself, I'm sorry for our kids as she already started using them against me after (to be honest before too) I've filed for divorce.

[savannahworth]

I wish I had this advice before I got married. My husband was so attached to his ex wife and she use to make sure she said something negative about me to him and he never defended me. It was so crazy.

[Jessicaisfreee]

I feel like it will be a miracle to find a good, healthy Christian man.

[StoicEast]

Refreshing to hear a good person finally

[LeAnne-uwwp]

Thanks for the video, I Will keep this in mind for when I'm ready to start dating again.

[susanblanche]

Yes I was always walking on eggshells. Ofcourse he loved that. So sick but I'm happily divorced now

[trudyseale]

I love that you said spiritual bond that makes so much sense I also like the questions you ask about his or her spiritual life tithing personal time so so thought provoking I know what to ask thank you

[Jaysy]

These citizenship thing, don't do it, is absolutely the right advice. How can you be ever sure if the person loves you for you or just uses you for his citizenship? Thank you for bringing this up, God bless you.

[joyjeffcoat]

The guys that lied the most were in the church when i dated.

[lynetteatchison]

Love these videos.. thank you for all the biblical info & advice!

[lisacormier]

Can you do a segment on disorganized attachments disorder
what happens to a person that grew up in a family were the mother had that disorder