Dating After Divorce For Men | 7 Transformational Tips!

Dating after divorce for men! In this video, we talk about dating after divorce. Let’s face it divorce sucks! So many of divorced men have stories about why you were divorced and your either 1. Scared to date again 2. Don’t even know how and where to start or 3. Just looking for that little glimmer of hope on your next steps because your not even sure if this is something that you want to do right now. Then this video is for you! If you haven’t been divorced and getting out of a long-term relationship you will get some great tips from this video as well. I know divorce can be messy and some not so much so in this video I am going to give you actionable tips that you can start today and implement as you get the time so you can start to get in touch with your roots and possibly date again when you are ready! By no means am I telling you to date now but these tips will prepare you to make that decision. Also, if you're ready to date now then let's get started and not waste any more time!

Divorce tips for men.
Tip #2: Understand that you are okay with yourself: This is how to start dating after divorce. Look at this new phase of your life as an opportunity process the old relationship. Do something that you have been wanting to do for so long but possibly couldn’t because of your time or marriage. Take this time to spend alone and get back to who you are. Divorce has a real emotional impact and a lot of people discredit the feeling that divorce brings so don’t ignore that. You are not alone even if you have to reach out to other guys for help that have been divorced because they can be your greatest source of strength. So, if you have the means for and possibly the children are with there mom then take a trip somewhere, buy a motorcycle, go skydiving, go rock climbing.
Tip #3: Change your wardrobe and look! Revamp your style and start looking at fashion trends online and start dressing the way you want to dress that will give you more confidence. When you feel good about what you have on then you have an inner confidence that shines through and an energy that becomes magnetic. You might just get hit on when you are out and about! This is the best dating advice for divorced men.
Tip #4: Date someone who is exactly opposite of your wife but has the same goals. If you want children again or in the future then date someone that wants the same. If not, then look for a woman who does not want to have children or may already have children. Meaning physically, personality, and life goals. Date who you want to date and take this time to really educate yourself on the different women out there. Don’t feel pressure to commit right away. Divorce and dating is meant to be taken slow.
Tip #5: Get re-educated on women. I mean after a long-term relationship or marriage we are a little bit rocky when it comes to dating again because the world is consistently evolving and that even means when it comes to dating, It might not be as easy as it was for you before so start watching videos and reading blogs about the attraction process and dating again so you can get comfortable with the idea.

Tip #6: Give Online Dating a shot: This is the #1 way these days to land a date and start talking to women. You can use online dating as a tool to learn how to talk to women again and see what women are out there. Remember take your time into the online dating and when you feel ready do it! Specially if you are seeking dating after divorce in your 40's.

Tip #7; Design your own life! How do you want to live the next years of your life?

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[SnowroxKT]

I literally bought a motorcycle last week. Perfect haha!

[metalmouth]

To each it's own, but I'm baffled how some can just go into another relationship and not blink an eye. I'm not 100 percent divorced, but I know I'm not dating material right now. I've gotten asked if I've found someone, and all I can say is hell no. I admit that I'm resentful and feel screwed up. Just don't know how long it will take for that mess to process.

[brianforman]

I just recently dated a woman and after a month or so she broke it off respectfully because she said I’m obviously need to get my divorce sorted out first. Don’t make my mistake and move on too quickly.

[elsanchez]

I video I've been waiting for
Gracias!

[michaelsmith]

After my divorce I bought a motorcycle. I love cruising around. My ex hated bikes. This is where I am. I want to start dating again, but I'm not sure how.

[DavidJGarciaVzla]

Hi, Apollonia. I've been separated from my wife for about 11 months. I've been doing real hard inner work and now I feel much stronger and better. About 2 months ago, she filed for divorced. Then I went no contact. I think she stopped the legal procedings since then. Nowadays, we are doing much better after the NC period. She even contacted me. We are now nurturing a friendship, but to me (even though it feels better) is not enough. I mean, it's like she wants the best of both worlds. So, I would like you to give me some powerful tips to reattract her or in any case some tips in order to move on and start dating other grils (actually I've dated two nice girls so far).Thanks in advance.

[albertpop]

Ms, Ponti
I can't thank you enough
I'm heart broken and week after my separation
Your video helps me a lot
Every single word that you so kindly shared is nothing but the truth

[DantheVikingFan]

Ms. Ponti, I have tried the online dating, but I find my self stuck when trying of thinking what to write. I see every single woman writes on their post "If you want a booty call I am the wrong person." Now as a counselor I overanalyze the sh*t of things for a living, but when seeing that so much it tells me that many of these women already feel partial set off. I am not looking for a booty call, but whether they believe it or not???? If I write that then there going to think I really am... I try to ask about them, their hobbies, where there from, but that can come across as stalker-ish. Please help. I feel like I'm all thumbs when it comes to online. In person, I am amazing, ergo the counselor in me, but on a keyboard....Thanks in advance.Dan

[eusimona]

Divorce is and should not be the end of your life.Your life has purpose and you have to live and fulfill that purpose through meaningful reconnection!!!

[mustaphadoaa]

Thank you Apollonia. Your tips are useful even if i'm not dating.
By the way, i like your positivity and style for the topic Apollonia.
You wore black for the black topic and your white nails for encouragement purposes.
Although black has a bad reputation, but you look great and more feminine as always Apollonia.

[bobbymitchell]

This is truly tips that i hope i never ever need boo !! I never want2 be divorced ☺ 👍 But i did hear u i listened actively!! Because i love u. ❤

[dereknorcom]

Think for yourselves. What do you want? What do have to give? Keep it simple.
Do it yourself. And don’t think you are controlling all of this.

[thepowercouple-tejn]

So I'm going thru a separation and about to go thru a divorce but il about as lost as they come on this topic

[xaverbishop]

Finished with my woman cause she couldn’t help me with my mind. People think I’m insane because I am frowning all the time. All day long I think of things, but nothing seems to satisfy. Think I’ll lose my mind if I don’t find something to pacify. Can you help me occupy my brain?

[mguNn]

Men, do not hesitate for one moment to place a restraining order on your partner if you feel your safety is in jeopardy. Placing a restraining order on my partner was the single best act of my adult life protecting myself from her madness and finally standing up for myself declaring enough is enough.. No regrets.

[aerodylluk]

I honestly find life terrifying now. I'm 35 and all the advice seems targeted towards men older than me. I spent my entire 20s trying to please a woman who screwed me over. So when I was supposed to be career focused instead I was buying a house and settling down to the family life, only to have that rug pulled from under me. I now find myself with little money, a dad bod but with no children. I am now faced at 35 with realising that my desire to have a family and a wife is likely not going to happen and on top of that I feel I am seen as worthless by women because I have little money or looks and because I was married for so long, few friends. I feel like life has been taken from me and all the women my age who are single are either broken or don't want kids. I feel like a punch line in a joke and all I ever did was do my best for my now ex wife, only to have her screw me over.

[sebastiang]

Thank you señorita @apollonia ponti I've been watching your vids for about 11 months which has been the time period I've been seperated starting to date again but do need guidance thank you so much!!

[mindseyeproductions]

Good info, great info, necessary info

[danielsalazar]

Hi Apo,
I love this video. Thank you so much

[BambooScar]

Years?! My x got a BF from work less than 3 months after separation lol