How Women Get Over Divorce So Fast (from a Divorce Coach)

Did your ex wife ever really love you? If she did… how could she move on so quickly? In this video I explain how women get over divorce so fast and what that means about you and the relationship. While it isn’t always the case, it is often true that women get over divorce faster than men (contrary to what Hollywood would have you believe!). Let’s take a deep dive into the psychology of women moving on to help you make peace with the end of your marriage.

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I’m Rachael Sloan, Master NLP Practitioner, certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce. I've helped hundreds of men move past the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. I hope to help you do the same.

DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment.

How do women get over divorce so fast? And if your ex wife is one of those women, did she ever really love you? Let’s take a look at three common ways how women get over divorce so fast.

First, she may have fallen out of love with you. Painful as that possibility may be to hear, it actually doesn’t mean anything about you. Love is an emotion. Like all emotions, it is strongly tied to our thoughts and beliefs, both conscious and subconscious. If your wife moved on fast, it could be because she is believing a new set of thoughts that make her feel like she fell out of love with you.

The truth is that those thoughts, even though she believes them strongly, may be completely false.

[Gadol_Adonai_]

Women move on fast in divorce, it's because they mentally plan seperation from you ions physically leave the marriage, had already left the marriage emotionally, psychologically, mentally etc....men are so clueless most of the time....this is not in all cases, but most... Rachael, you are wise beyond your years...

[Ash-lnyi]

Marriage is supposed to be a life long commitment. Sadly, we're living in a society where divorce has become completely normalized. Where wives and husbands prioritize their own happiness over the stability of their marriage and vows. Marriage should be reserved for the few who will actually honor the commitment they made. Everybody else should stay in long term relationships where they can leave when they're not happy or bored without breakig their vows or involving the government.

[valeriebrown]

There are 3 things I've never seen in my life: 1) A Leprechaun 2) A Unicorn 3) A happy Wife. All mythical creatures. Lol!

[brianhoyt]

Another reason that she moves on so quickly is that she decided years prior to divorce and was looking for the right opportunity to divorce. That happened to me. I also heard of a situation
where a couple had young children and said that she was going to leave once the children grew up and that is exactly what happened. Both of these scenarios scare me as to the
possibility of ever re-marrying. Dating and long-term relationships? Yes Marriage? No

[socom]

It's simple, Women check out years before.

[burniewilliams]

Your videos have been a tremendous help to me as the love of my life, my soon to be ex-wife, and I end our 12 year marriage, which has been a work in progress since she told me that she didn't think we were in love anymore 5 months ago and didn't want to try to make it work. I've experienced tons of emotions and there's very little support in dealing with these emotions on the web outside of divorce strategy and women bashing videos. I find you to be an absolutely amazing source for bringing a level of balance to this painful time in my life. Please continue your work and thank you for sharing it with the world.

[dragorn]

A couple points here: That opening story is case in point why men should not be getting married or investing much in relationships. Involving the government giving your partner permanent access to your resources based on her fleeting emotions is downright insane. They can lose attraction based on almost anything, or they eventually run across a guy they are much more attracted to. They don't even necessarily understand their own attraction, it could be something metaphysical you have no control over. The best thing to do as men is to never fully commit, always keep your options open and never ever get married in any western cuck society

[Gizmodi]

I'm in same boat. 17 yr relationship with 4 children and the sole provider. I'm an entrepreneur and at 43 and 1.5 yr from parental death, new foster child, I slipped away. I mentally checked out and have never acted this way before. I didn't even see it until my actions buried me. I was so stressed, she was raising another baby. Our girls were spread out so we just finished raising our toddler where we could breathe. I wanted emotional contact, it was missing, I found it online in an emotional contact. I didn't have the boundaries setup for online presence because it wasn't real to me, to her it was. She left and I didn't even get a chance to assess what the hell was going on with me and then the added loss of her and the children was as of I was dying.

Hardest thing I've been thru in my life, now I don't see relationships the same. I'm trying to find new meaning after putting my family and her at forefront

[sunainayadavphd]

I divorced my husband because he refused to protect me. Whether it was his friend touching me inappropriately or his mother attacking my way of life, he never stood up for me. I tried for yrs to explain things to him but he wouldn't listen because his personal relationships with people mattered more than his marriage. His image to the outside world had to be of an easy-going, calm & cool guy, and standing up for his wife would have messed that up.

[markcollins]

If they are using you then it doesn't hurt them to let go of you. They can let go when you are no longer of use to them. Many people are just assh*les to their core, and you don't always see it or want to see it at first. My ex left when I asked her to be a wife, and to nurture our emotional connection. She was off in some ways that I don't have full understanding of. It was a gift that she left me, but she only did so when I grew, set boundaries and became the best version of myself. I'm grateful that she walked away rather than spend the rest of my life committing myself to a selfish person with a cold heart who didn't prioritize me or care about my feelings and needs.

[EB-rhdq]

I do understand the message and I do appreciate it. However this doesn't excuse or validate the female's excessive need to divorce their love for the sake of a "better life". Many man would die and do anything for their lady, while most women wouldn't do the same for their man. People often said it "doesn't matter" but truth be told it does if the cycle keeps happening. Accountability is very important and if both parties aren't truly doing their part to ensure that, then obviously it will never work.

[LiamArellanes-tqwz]

She just left 5 days ago but prior was saying she loves me, we talked kids but boom she suddenly says I'm not what she wants and leaves.

[stephaniefythm]

I went through a lot of financial crisis during my divorce, I had to raise my two kids alone, Currently I'm living smart and frugal with my money. Bought my second house already. Saving and investing lifestyle made it possible for me; even till now I earn monthly through passive income. I'm planning on retiring when my kids finish college.

[gregsilva]

She hurt me so bad she betrayed me… I justify in my mind and make excuse for her for why she did it. I still want her and I don’t know why, even tho I logically know that I shouldn’t want her I still do. It hurts so bad I’m praying one day soon the pain eases up.

[orwen]

Thank you for sharing your personal story. Honest explanations like this help me make sense of things. It's terrifying to see how easily love can dry out, how easy it is to make a "wrong decision" (even if unintended), and how sometimes there's nothing you can do to fix things. My ex never explained the reasons other than that she had fallen out of love. At that time, I couldn't wrap my head around it. It's been almost 7 years, and I'm still trying to understand her feelings and thoughts. Thanks again—it really helped to see your perspective.

[Tessabrianne]

My husband and I are getting divorced (he filed yesterday) and he’s leaving us in a financial crisis, this makes me not want to get married ever again. How can I deal with this? :( any advice appreciated

[demetrios]

If your ex boyfriend hadn't walked away from the scene of your accident, would you have still continued to love him? If so, then it actually did have something to do with him; in the case of the accident, his failure to console you. Point being, is that this is when regret haunts us after a divorce. What if I had done this for her or if I had shown her more love etc. I suppose the regrets are part of the grieving process.

[AutumnSage]

Tbh I’ve never moved on fast from any relationship… quite the opposite… sometimes it takes me years. I’m a really deep person and it’s hard to want to connect to just anyone so that’s probably why.

[sleepsoundsandrelaxation]

Sometimes women move on quickly after divorce is because they actually really had a terrible partner and they gave them years to change but their partner never stepped up and so the woman checked out. By the time the divorce is finalized she is just ready to be free of it all.

[FredMacGinnis]

OMG!!!! This makes so much sense now.... I mean ya, women lead with emotion, ok. But that never really hit home that it can be to this extent!!! I mean thank you Rachael for sharing and hopefully growing from your personal experience. But what you said, completely answers what my X did to me.... I had my own emotional things to deal with, but MY GOD since I was unable to deal with HER emotions at the same time as mine. I'm the bad guy, or the one who's not emotionally mature.... I don't think so! Logic and acceptance of a situation has no bearing on the deep seated emotional pain from a small moment in time. WOW! way different from a man who is expected to react, protect, and overcome. ... and men are told we are worthless no matter what we do or say, or feel!
Run men, run!!!