How to Tame Your Child's Aggressive Behaviors | The Mom Psychologist

We've all been there. Your child gets frustrated and the next thing you know, you're being hit in the face or slapped on the leg (or pushed, kicked, pinched, etc). In this video, I breakdown the common reasons why your child resorts to aggressive behaviors and the 3 steps you can take to help tame those aggressive behaviors.

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DISCLAIMER 2.0: This video is for educational purposes ONLY. This is not meant to diagnosis or treat any mental health conditions or substitute mental health treatment in any way. Please consult with your child's pediatrician or a local mental health provider when considering trying new interventions.

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[TheMomPsychologist]

Thanks for watching today's video! Please be sure to thumbs up this video + subscribe. Leave any questions or experiences you have in the comments. I'd love to hear from you guys!

[maricelaabina]

I needed this video much today! I am a behavioral health CM of 4 years, trained in birth to five. But today was such a challenge. There were tantrums, throwing, and attempts at hitting. But my girl was definitely needing extra touch today and skipped her nap. Parenting is so hard and none of us are equipped. Even the ones that are equipped with some skills, like myself, need refreshers. Thank you so much!

[jessicarybandt]

I shared this video on one of the Facebook groups I follow. I love how you made me realize that my child is n o r m a l for being angry and that my point of view was skewed. I loved the simple anatomy and physiology fact, that they are not fully developed to manage all those BIG feelings. It’s helped me to be more compassionate towards my children instead of reacting. My 3 yr old son has always been super angry, and this is going to sound awful but I want to be honest, but I was like “OMGosh, am I raising a future psycho??” Instead, I am viewing it as “Wow, I am raising a boy who FEELS things deeply, he is going to LOVE deeply once I help guide him and keep his needs met and continue to set those boundaries”. I found your page on Instagram, and I am thankful for your work! Keep up the great work.

[hienienguyen]

yes my son he gets aggressive when he doesn't get his way. This can be very stressful and I do my best to show him to help me out when I need to. I am very happy when my son and i can bond with me

[undergroundlady]

My son assaulted me a few days ago and he will be 18 next month, I didn't want to press charges because I didn't want him to get a record. But I'm trying to get him evaluated but that's a whole process and he's in therapy but that's a journey in itself.
I told his therapist what happened and honestly I feel that she wasn't helpful or sympathetic. At this point, I'm waiting for him to be 18, so my husband can kick him out. I honestly see no remorse or no guilt.

[IrmaBThor]

Have a seven-year-old and she has big feelings I was trying to find ways to help her but this helped me quite a bit thanks 😊

[ChristinaSDixon-cxcs]

when I tell you this video was ON TIME I mean phew....one hour post tantrum and this was a refreshing tutorial/reminder/suggestion! New subscriber approved! THANK YOU

[tiffanyabella]

Your examples are fantastic. You keep it real and understandable. Loving the addition of the gifs. 🤣 I’m eager to see what tips/posts/videos you have for setting expectations and boundaries for kids when parents are working from home.

[shaylasimms]

Love and needed this! Your videos are sooo reinforcing! Raising children very different from the way I was brought up, and that’s challenging! You have been my go to resource representing the parenting style I want to give my children. Learning to address their emotions now vs 30 years later like me. definitely needed to hear not to respond with an adult brain. The options for outlets was awesome we will for sure incorporate physical outlets vs only talking it out. Thank you!!

[salt_and_light]

I needed this video thank you. My 3 year old hits when upset and it really triggers me. This helped me understand why and how to deal with it moving forward 👍🏽

[jerryjohnson]

I just want to say that. I'm so happy for you keep it going.

[mramirez]

I need the parenting end. I prayed for help and God had your channel pop right up today! 🙏

[crystalgale]

I have a 10moth old boy and I am rewatching your videos on positive discipline so I will be able to guide him as he grows. I personally have a short temper and I needed the reminder that I also need to learn how to calm down first and be a good example on how to chill after a big burst of emotion. Thank you for your videos!

[kayleerenee]

I love this because my first thought when he lashes out is that it’s my fault, that I caused it or showed him anger somewhere. It sucks to carry that burden. But now I know it’s normal & I’m able to help him without worrying about teaching him to hide his feelings, cause that’s another fear I have.

[kristynhawkins]

Thank you for this insightful video! I may need to play this on repeat through headphones all day.

[stephanieabboytes]

I can't believe this video has so many views. It is comforting to know we're not alone. Just suscribed, thank you.

[maikajacoba]

Thank you for this and your strong mom vibes so much! My almost 3 year old has started hitting and yelling lately. Like, 0-100mph seemingly in an instant. I try to validate her feelings and let her know it is okay to be mad at me, and that I still love her... but it still gets my blood hot. This video helped remind me I'm her strong, calm leader. I've also had a difficult time remembering to give her alternative actions to express her feelings. I am going to try that "dance it out" thing next time..

[HannahMontoya]

I'm grown and still have trouble regulating my emotions 😅

[India_toned]

My child is 2. She tends to hit, pinch, bite, curse, and kick almost all day. However, she didn’t start this until we moved from with her dad. She tends to do it even when she’s not frustrated. It seems as if it’s exciting for her to use these behaviors on people. I’m frustrated because idk how to help her.

[EdilySi]

I loved this video! Came here looking for how to handle screaming because that makes ME want to be aggressive! Your thumbnail was so relatable. You helped me see that my kids are just trying to express some big emotions. That hadn't even crossed my mind. I got so many important and useful insights. Going to share this with my husband. Love the mantra, "My child is having a hard time, not trying to give me a hard time." Thanks for helping this mama out!